Originally posted by: micshy
First of all amazing post
I may not know much about love, but for me love, trust and respect are synonymous... theres a famous urdu saying "Adab pehla qareena hai muhabbat k qareeno mein" (Respect is the first n foremost necessity for love" similarly trust holds the same place...
So i dont know what love is without both trust and respect... i dont know about others but personally i wudnt bargain respect for love... so when i heard of this concept Muhabbat vs Sammam i was hooked...
I since the beginnig have felt for and Empathized with shravan only, Sumo seemed to me like one of those bullies. . n personally i dont like such ppl... personally i dont quite get how Sumo proved to be a good friend in their childhood... while Shravan came to her for emotional support Sumo too used him for her deeds...
Now Roles have reversed... i had given Shravan enough leverage for the disturbed childhood and past... even after that school reunion fiasco. Khosla track kind of diluted that but still.. even during love realization him.being a jerk was understandable, i gave him leverage during that Nirmala wala episode too cz i honestly thought that Sumo was wrong there ...
But what hes been doing afterwards is not understandable nor justified as well .. Fine u dont want to Talk/ meet dont . But hurting someone's pride and hitting on the respect is not easily forgivable and for me not justified at all...
Agree with ur examples of Ramnath Nirmala and Ramnath Shravan...one relationship suffered because of lack of trust... n the other will break due to blind trust...