Understanding and Trust

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ok I don't do these kind of posts but here you go 😳 Oh and my name is Ankita some of you know me and some don't so those who don't for them that's me Hello " waving hands " 😊
Coming to topic for any relationship mutual understanding, mutual trust and mutual respect is important. These are the key ingredients and without them no relationship could survive know matter how much you are in love with the other person. The four characters of our show and there interrelationships are very good example of that weather it's Shravan-Sumo, Nirmala-Ramnath, Shravan-Ramnath or Shravan-Nirmala.

Let's begin with our favourite duo Shraman
Their relationship has always lacked one of these ingredients if not all according to my understanding ten years back they were best friends and Shravan was in love with Sumo he respected yes he trusted her maybe but did understand her no reason he always saw the girl Sumo which was mask of Suman he never saw the real girl and her pain and her issues whereas Suman always saw Shravan for who he was for real so she has better understanding of him then he has of her which is also present date situation and if you look in this relationship Shravan has always been somewhat selfish one and I'm talking emotionally it has always been his hurt, his pain and betrayal he suffered what about her pain as mentioned in flashback he always used for come to her whenever his parents used to find and pour it all out but she was also suffering from the pain of losing her parents did she ever talked about it to anyone I wonder and I mean heart to heart talk go to the episode where both were talking at her parents house he was so surprised to see her vulnerable and emotional and also said that to her and what was her reply he never asked. Today after ten years he asked for her friendship but all the three qualities mentioned does not exist in their relationship from Shravan's side does he understands her no, respect her trust her hell no. It's not like he these qualities doesn't exist from his side at all it does but it's conditional. So it was bound to happen what is happening now like ten years back separated bcoz of both their shortcomings. Now future tracks will bring all these ingredients to make their relationship strong and unbreakable.

Ramnath and Nirmala at some point their relationship might be all these qualities when they do still happy together but got tough Ramnath's male ego and regressive thinking came in between along with pride from both and all of it went out of the window hence did their relation.

Shravan and Ramnath that man seriously doesn't understands his son and to certain extent Shravan his father mostly he is just blinded by the love and trust for his father. Mostly it's Ramnath's dishonesty and insecurities which is making him do all this stuff is gonna cost him his son and their relation.

P.S. I am no writer or analyst like some beautiful ones we have red, Rekha Indrani and jj so it's no where near like their's but needed to get this out of me 😆 waiting for all of your views so do leave comments and press like button if you liked it 😳😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan right now confused himself and this confuses us as well. Despite the fact that at times it looks like he does not trust, respect her but it almost never seems that he doesn't love her. And there is no doubt that she special for him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: noexcuse

Shravan right now confused himself and this confuses us as well. Despite the fact that at times it looks like he does not trust, respect her but it almost never seems that he doesn't love her. And there is no doubt that she special for him.

there is no questioning his love we all know what she means to him but what is love if you don't understand, trust and respect that person would their relationship last without these qualities I don't have so
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: BhataktiAtma.

there is no questioning his love we all know what she means to him but what is love if you don't understand, trust and respect that person would their relationship last without these qualities I don't have so


You are right. Relationship won't last with trust and respect and this track will hopefully get us there. I was sitting on my post to write exactly what you wrote but could not come up with right words. You spoke my mind. 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi .. U have penned down ur thought quiet well .. These tracks show how emotionally stunted shravan is whereas suman has to ability to handle them quiet well ..
Suman wanted to change his perception of women by telling him his mother side of the story .. But She didn't realise she would be the one doing it by her action ..

Shravan has innate need that she has to believe what he believes ( goes to selfishness u r talking about ).. Their interaction during the first time daal was introduced is proof of that .. Now that he thinks she believes ramnath is a liar .. I feel he can't see beyond that .. I'm hoping this track will make him see that .. ( kinda lost my train of thought in middle :( sorry if I rambled )
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely post dear!
We have highly complex and layered characters, it's really difficult to understand them..
They have their shortcomings and they have their hearts.
Most of them are driven by their heart's desires. Be it love, money, ego, self respect or simply the feeling of being victorious...

I really did love your take on this👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all amazing post

I may not know much about love, but for me love, trust and respect are synonymous... theres a famous urdu saying "Adab pehla qareena hai muhabbat k qareeno mein" (Respect is the first n foremost necessity for love" similarly trust holds the same place...
So i dont know what love is without both trust and respect... i dont know about others but personally i wudnt bargain respect for love... so when i heard of this concept Muhabbat vs Sammam i was hooked...

I since the beginnig have felt for and Empathized with shravan only, Sumo seemed to me like one of those bullies. . n personally i dont like such ppl... personally i dont quite get how Sumo proved to be a good friend in their childhood... while Shravan came to her for emotional support Sumo too used him for her deeds...

Now Roles have reversed... i had given Shravan enough leverage for the disturbed childhood and past... even after that school reunion fiasco. Khosla track kind of diluted that but still.. even during love realization him.being a jerk was understandable, i gave him leverage during that Nirmala wala episode too cz i honestly thought that Sumo was wrong there ...

But what hes been doing afterwards is not understandable nor justified as well .. Fine u dont want to Talk/ meet dont . But hurting someone's pride and hitting on the respect is not easily forgivable and for me not justified at all...

Agree with ur examples of Ramnath Nirmala and Ramnath Shravan...one relationship suffered because of lack of trust... n the other will break due to blind trust...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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awsome post... u writed v.well and agreed with every bit of it...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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awesome post...u write it so welll reallly i donot hv words to describe it but hopelyy u spoke my thoughts in ur post hats of to u...and its not only my thoughts may be other forum members r thinking the same what u write...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post dear!! Respect and trust is the most important in any relationship. This track will definetly make shravan realize.

U are a great writer as well!! Thanks for the beautiful post

Btw!! I havent seen any analysis from indrani, redwine, JJKL

Or did I miss between the pages. Love to hear their analysis as well. I am so happy to see more EDKV members are very active for couple of weeks

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