Was Shravan so wrong??? - Page 5

I disagree. we are comparing a 16 year old immaturity of Sumo to a 27 year old Sravan's behaviour and saying both are at par is not in my opinion correct.

Originally posted by: spnfan

I agree thay shravan had a tough life so he should be justified for his actions but sumo is also the same... She has been putting up with alot since a kid..

Shravan is only thinking about his hurt and hus betrayal not sumo's.. Sumo also deserves the unconditional.love amd care shravan.deserves..

I 100% agree that Sumo has been and is still going thru a lot... but just see,

She had never been insulted brutally by a friend tho unintentionally.

She was never betrayed by a dad like Hoeram.

Never did her mother leave her in the tender teenage, when children need parents the most. I agree her parents died and left her at an e e'er tender age of 6 but u see she got her parents in a caring loving Nanu and a genuine mama, and a lil but caring mami and maasi too!!


Tell me who was there to care for him in London???
How can u expect a guy like that to trust people, when all the people he trusted left him and hurt him brutally and now soon he will get to know that the person he loved the most has betrayed him in the worst way possible.

Never was she told that her mother left him and his dad for some other man. Just think... this will be the most difficult thing for a teenage to absorb... that his mom had an extra marital affair.
Being a teenager I can understand what he must have felt.


So conclusively both have gone through a lot and only they can understand that for each other... they can feel each other's pain and hence they deserve each other in true sense of the word. 😊

Originally posted by: Kisha6

I disagree. we are comparing a 16 year old immaturity of Sumo to a 27 year old Sravan's behaviour and saying both are at par is not in my opinion correct.

from the time Shravan came back, Sumo is the one who is trying to be understanding with him.Sumo is also thinking in the same lines as you,trying to understand Shravan's problems and trying to get him out of his cynicism.but the issue here is, we can't go on understanding and analyzing their behaviour

Even a sadistic person has some reason for his behaviour, like his parents are abusive,he sufferred a lot in his childhood which made him turn like this way. but do we condone his behaviour just because of these reasons? it is the same here (am not comparing Shravan here but just trying to make a point)

it is not only your upbringing which makes you as the person you are but also the person you want to be. Pushkar has a good upbringing no doubt but at the same time, he has a mother who is manipulative and a father who does nothing. Pushkar is different to everyone of his family including Varun.

so at the end, what I say is Pushkar chose to be what he is now (an understanding,upright,gentle natured individual) and Shravan chose to be what he is now (a cynical,only living in the past and who hates women)

so yeah, in teens we like to read Mills and Boons type of heroes (brooding,dark,handsome etc) but in reality you would like to settle with a gentle,caring,supportive,understanding friend as your life long companion

Originally posted by: AMNP

Lovely post...You've analyzed Shravan's emotions so aptly👏

Thank u 😳

Originally posted by: an_chau

Thanks for writing this... Shravan certainly was wrong in saying and doing the things he did yesterday, but saying that he doesn't deserve Sumo is too much of a stretch!
These two are connected in a way that has withstood the trials of time...
If a 10-year "hate" period couldn't dull Shravan's love for her, I doubt much else will... They can decide to physically move away from each other, but move on emotionally they never will.
Sometimes I think us forum folks think and act in extremes just like Shravan ...

Most welcome 😳
He was wrong but the person more wrong was Ram... coz Shravan didn't actually do what he did, but he was indirectly made to do that and Shravan wasn't even able to realise the mistake he did. Its just that he needs to time to think and conclude what had actually happened.

Originally posted by: OmaRamdass

Awesome.post

I still love shravan no matter his flaws

Thank u!!
Me too 😉

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

I don't know from where this sumo-pushkar thing started.

Come on there is still 'pure' friendship relation between a guy and a girl exist. Let sumo and pushkar be friends. Ups and down keep happening, it doesnt mean they should swap the partner.

Shravan need to fall on his knees and apologies. His arrogance is like forever. He needs cut the crap and act like normal.

1) some silly things happened between them when they were immature kids and shravan was holding grudges for 10 long years like sumo committed some heinous crime.

2) He insulted sumo in front their entire school mates becoz when she was an immature kid she used to care about her fake image.

3) His attitude "my way or highway"

4)His mom cheated and he passed a judgement on entire woman community that "all woman are selfish and greedy". He just needs to open his eyes and there will be 1000 men standing around him who cheat on their wives.

5) sumo just wanted him to sit and listen Nirmala's part of story but he started his bloody rant on women.

He is not only one having problem in life. sumo has been dealing with many problems as well. None of her parents is alive, at least shravan has one and soon he'll get another. she had debt of 22 lakhs to pay, at home her mami treats her like an outsider and she doesnt even have crore Rupees bank balance like him.

He needs to tone down and cut the crap.He should run behind suman for apology.

I agree to that 🤗
Like they want to ship any guy with Sumo who will understand her in the current situation!!
Kuch bhi... ainvayi!! 😕

YES!!!
Apology... a huge apology is needed!!
But I differ from the fact u lay down that only Sumo is wronged.

I agree that his opinion on the women of the whole world is wrong but I think u know the figure of speech called exaggeration.
We say so many exaggerated things which we actually don't mean.. he himself had confessed that he had said all that in anger.


Achha theek hai she has a debt.. she has no parents... and all that.
What does Shravan have... a dad who is betraying him brutally or a mom who he supposedly thinks eloped with some other man.
Or relatives who just want his money...

At least Sumo has a couple if genuine people in life... a Nanu who loves her like his daughter, a mama who actually cares for her, a friend in Preeta, quite nice siblings in dabboo n Preeti!!

So u don't think it is about who is wronged how much!!
It is about trusting, listening and understanding which Shravan can't really do... all thanks to the past he had!!
He needs time and he needs someone to make him the old Shravan again... to make him trust people again... to make him what was wrong and what is right... and to make him love again... and no one is better than Sumo to do that!!
His one and only Love!! ❤️

Originally posted by: siliya21

Awesome.post🤗

Thanks 😳

Originally posted by: ttt1

Agree ,one side we re talking about sumo to unconditional ly support Sravan because of his past...without taking conditions of his behavior or trust ...that's leaves suman with nothing much ...I am personally not interested in watching such. a Biased story line ...for one its too common

PS it's not about who hurt whom more ,its more about is it a relationship or support

PPS Sravan reaction when something is spoken against his father is totally relatable agree with you on that

I don't think it's about being biased on unbiased!!
It's a out the situation... Thankfully we have nee r got a biased situation in the show!!
Both are equal... both value their families n self respects above all.. both know how to give it back to each other... both fight with each other... but argue... both make the other understand what is correct and what is wrong!!
Sumo isn't an abla naari and Shravan isn't a dark, cynical, dominant male. He can be a pain in the ass at times but he knows when to shut up too!!
And Sumo knows how to shut him up!!


He had started to shed the demons of his past but Sumo threw his mom in front of him. The woman out of emotions, wasn't even able to explain herself when the bloody Bhootnath came into picture and emotionally blackmailed him to blast his mom and Sumo and leave the place.
When Shravan exasperated by Sumo, gave her a chance to explain, she did not do it!!
That's leaves him with pretty much nothing else other than to believe that Sumo was manipulated by his mom or she has no reason to do that but to sprinkle salt on his smouldering wounds!!
He is already having trust issues coz no matter at what age he was betrayed or insulted, some things just don't leave u easily!!
They come back at time to time and haunt u... and that what is happening with this guy!!

I am not saying he is absolutely correct.. coz he is absolutely not!!
But he kept in dark and that is what the actual issue is... when he knows the truth I am pretty sure he will apologise in the bestest way possible and we'd love it 😊