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Nirmala cpuld have easilu contacted and talked to shravan without getting.into the court.. Ramnath cannot restrict her from seeing shravan... She could have atleast tried to call shravan... She could have flied to london and see shravan without ramnath's knowledge... Ramnath wasnt keeping an.eye.on nirmala.. Shravan's.anger towards nirmalq is mostly coz in 10 yrs she.didnt even bother call him.. If ramnah planted a seed in shravan's mind nirmala nourished it...I am not against sumo trying to reunite nir and shr but the way she did is wrong... She dont know what happened 10yrs ago.. She only knows nirmala's version she dont know that shr and ramnath till date believes that she had an affair with her boss and married him.. U cannot solve a problem with half information... U beed to know story fron both the side... Sumo has already.seen the effect this topic has on.shravan and she cannot force nir down shravan's throat... Also in olv she was trying to say that his father is wrong.. She could have just ask him to hear nir out and hear her part of the story instead.of bringing ramnath into it...
Ramnath used adultry as his playing card. Imagine telling a 16 year old son that his mom is an adultress. Ram went a step ahead and took him to Ahuja's office. R I believe is single minded... he strongly believes that N was cheating on him. To him that hatred and anger towards N comes before Shravan. He did this when Shravan was sick, he fought with N and sent her out of the house and takes Shravan and shows him that N is having an affair with Ahuja.
Ramnath I would not say is black or grey. But he is the typical misogynistic guy who needed and needs psychiatric help. Would any mother want their son to go through this process? Mind you Nirmala is a women one generation before us... society was different then. Would she want Shravan to think of her as a promiscuous woman? She thought that by letting the custody go she would spare shravan this heartache. But R being R did end up in making Shravan hate his mom. As for two sides to the strory... I think there should have been enough news from R's side... he did make it clear to all and sundry that N ran away with Ahuja. So I am sure Sumo and every other Tiwari would know the jist. But N's side was a mystery till now...
Look at it now... N did see Shravan but you saw the reaction. The fear of this reaction is what made N stay back. She is not strong enough to handle it... then or now. She needs to be strong before she could help her son... sadly she is not strong enough.
Lets forget what N or R did. Lets look only at Shravan... here is this guy who has a lot of bottled up emotions, says he hates his mother, hates all women, has no respect for all women but Sumo. Badly breaks down when he thinks his dad is no more. Admires Chachi for being a good mother. Pushkar constantly trying to drive some sense in to Shra. Every one saw these reactions... but it was only Sumo who was able to see deeper... how he misses his mother. How that pent up anger in him is eating him inside out. So she is not trying to reunite mom and son. But she I believe wants shravan to give his mother a good hearing and take a call from then on. Meet like acquaintances But as we all know Shravan would simply run far away.
Shravan like N has been afraid to face the past. Now that the past is staring in front of his eyes... he too would start having questions and doubts. Hopefully his reasoning skills will kick in..
OLV would take us just so far... we need to evaluate what Sumo is trying to do from the actual episode. Having said that... I still think Sumo is right in what she did... Shravan has been a very unhappy man for the past 10 years and is still so in many ways. Is extremely insecure... sometimes the best thing to do would be to hit the nail on the head.
Shiv Shakti
