Girlfriends/partners like mothers

First off...I was so happy to see Daboo back in action!! That kid is super cute!! And then his dialog...about some khurafati RJ! It was hilarious! So apparently guys look for qualities that their mothers have in their gfs or life partners!!!

Originally posted by: puba

First off...I was so happy to see Daboo back in action!! That kid is super cute!! And then his dialog...about some khurafati RJ! It was hilarious! So apparently guys look for qualities that their mothers have in their gfs or life partners!!!

So two questions here...do you guys think that is true??? And the second one...do you think Pushkar and Shravan might want their partners to be like their mothers??

#missionpink

I sure doubt Pushkar would want his girlfriend to be as manipulative and selfish as his mom...
As for our dear Shravu, his matter is a little - a lot - more complicated...
Personally, I haven't met too many men who really want their girlfriends/spouses to be like their moms. Especially true in these changing times when the priorities and needs are so different from say 30 years ago. But I'd think a lot would also depend on the qualities in the mother.


#missionpink

I don't know the answer for first one
But for second I don't think at the present situation they dont want their partners to be like mother because shravan has misunderstanding for his mother and pushkar kamini is manipulative not actually coz she wants her son's to be settled but it's some selfish act because she is taking away the rights of shravan so I don't think currently non of them wants their partner to be like their mothers

Personally I feel it's a very subjective matter...some guys prefer qualities that their mothers have also to be in their partners and some don't...especially if they are not mama's boys!

if both pushkar & shravan think in this way then shraman nd peekar can't become one never ever

Puja 🤗
Definitely mission pink
Anyway the answer to those two questions is pretty complicated and depends on the situation ,
A guy may not exactly want his mother but some qualities atleast because the person has grown up with those qualities and to some extent it's ingrained in him and to him it's natural , so they don't look for those qualities but a similar nature maybe , but the mothers role in the child's life plays a really important role in that , and now to the second question , Pushku baby and shravu baby undoubtedly love their mothers unconditionally . In the episode where Pushku won his first case , the way kamini had got all those mithais shows that she is a really good mother despite of her grey shades , so if pushkar will look for a girl if he will see the qualities of a kamini I wouldn't be surprised , because all her planning at the end of the day is for her son , she hasn't tried to provide any harm to anyone , so it's all good . And the bahu can hate the saas and vice Versa, Vaise bhi like poles repel each other 🤣 , maybe that's the reason some saas-bahu ki patt-ti nahi hain. And for shravan, yes , the only thing he is scared of is that she will leave him , like he believes his mother did to his father . But sumo and nirmala are both really similar,they are headstrong , independent entrepreneurs but at home , they have a change in personality . So at the end of the day , shravan did fall in love with someone like his mother
Lol , I make no sense to myself 🤣

I do find similarities between both the to-be MILs and the DILs. Sumo is independent and she strives to be so, just like Nirmala. She also seems to be an active contributor to the finances of the family, apart from the loan, an instance when she was checking the monthly accounts and decided to drop her family to the airport instead of booking the cab. They both love cooking. They both prefer self respect over anything else. They both are selfless for their loved ones. They both ended up making the same mistake.

As for Preeti and Kamini, they both lie in their own bubble. Money oriented. Both are carefree.

Finding qualities of your parent in your partner is an unconscious act, so it wouldn't that Shravan would end up hating Sumo because she is like Nirmala against whom he holds grudges.

And Adya expressed all I wanted to say.

This question is like a two way street..it can go either ways..sometimes a guy may want a girl/partner opposite of his mother like Pushkar.. 😆
But in Shravan's case I would agree bcos he does look for his mother in a girl and that's y he hates women bcos he feels all r like his mother manipulative but the thing is , the girl he loves( and who may have qualities like his mother) he has put an exception to her..
P.S. I don't know if I answered this question or confused u with it.. 😆