Suman : the anti-thesis of what Shravan is looking for in a partner - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sammy you changed your UN! It took me some time to realise this is you
It will take me some time to get used to this.. i am too used to looking for prcfan😆

Thank you for this post. I came to the forum with the intention to rant because i honestly did not like the episode. But your post just made me so much happier with the episode..for all the parallels you pointed out and indeed its the beginning of their journey.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sammy the question also remains IS SHRAVAN THE KIND OF GUY SUMAN WANTS TO BE WITH?? Suman till date has only seen the caring side of Shravan... But this MCP is completely new for her... A guy whose disrespect & disregard for women runs so deep down... Will she be able to accept such a kind of guy...?? I don't think Shravan has forgiven Suman for what she did to him in high school.. More than forgiveness he had the attitude of " let the by gone be by gone " there is a huge difference between forgiving someone for an incident n treating the incident as a by gone... Will a girl like Suman ever accept a relationship which is not based on mutual trust n respect?? Coz Shravan definitely does not still completely trust her... N if Shravan does not respect women in general how on earth will he able respect Suman as a wife/lover, friend or most importantly as a Woman... Yes Shravan n Suman is bounded by faith... But at this point of time are they really Made for each other?? Do they really have the qualities in them That makes them for each other??
It will be interesting to see What why n how Suman Chooses between Pyaar Aur Saman... N how Shravan reacts to her choice... For me Shravan n Suman journey starts from here...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Always love your take on the episodes !! You do an awesome job !!
Loved the title of your post. It was interesting to read about the parallels between Ramnath~Nirmala and Shraman & i am excited to see how the part 2 the real deal will unfold..
Thanks for sharing..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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As of now...Shravan Malhotra doesn't deserve to be anybody's life partner! However...over time hopefully Suman and his mom will change whatever misconceptions he has about women! I guess that's what we will witness on screen in the coming episodes!

Now...it was really kind of disconcerting to see this version of Shravan...the amount of venom he spewed today...about women...gosh...kuch zyada hi ho gaya mere khayal se...I felt like reality took a back seat...I couldn't convince myself that a person can harbor such a skewed image of women...I say this in spite of knowing his version of the back story!! Quite melodramatic I would say!

He certainly might not believe in relationships...coz of what he thinks his mom did...but...to hurl trash about women...just couldn't take it! Indigestion ho gaya mujhko...and in reality...when people have such extreme views about anything...it is very hard to change them! So if I ever heard a guy say such garbage about women...I wouldn't even try to convince him otherwise...that would be the end of everything...doesn't matter if he is bachpan ka dost or whatever!!!

Also, given his extent of hatred for women...realistically speaking it would be very difficult for him to even have female friends...espeically those who are smart and independent! But looks like he doesn't have any such issues...therefore, Shravan's characterization is a bit flawed...something seems a bit off!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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BTW Sammy loved the parallels which you have drawn... 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: surochitadutta

Sammy the question also remains IS SHRAVAN THE KIND OF GUY SUMAN WANTS TO BE WITH?? Suman till date has only seen the caring side of Shravan... But this MCP is completely new for her... A guy whose disrespect & disregard for women runs so deep down... Will she be able to accept such a kind of guy...?? I don't think Shravan has forgiven Suman for what she did to him in high school.. More than forgiveness he had the attitude of " let the by gone be by gone " there is a huge difference between forgiving someone for an incident n treating the incident as a by gone... Will a girl like Suman ever accept a relationship which is not based on mutual trust n respect?? Coz Shravan definitely does not still completely trust her... N if Shravan does not respect women in general how on earth will he able respect Suman as a wife/lover, friend or most importantly as a Woman... Yes Shravan n Suman is bounded by faith... But at this point of time are they really Made for each other?? Do they really have the qualities in them That makes them for each other??

It will be interesting to see What why n how Suman Chooses between Pyaar Aur Saman... N how Shravan reacts to her choice... For me Shravan n Suman journey starts from here...


Well said. 👏 Completely agree!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: surochitadutta

Sammy the question also remains IS SHRAVAN THE KIND OF GUY SUMAN WANTS TO BE WITH?? Suman till date has only seen the caring side of Shravan... But this MCP is completely new for her... A guy whose disrespect & disregard for women runs so deep down... Will she be able to accept such a kind of guy...?? I don't think Shravan has forgiven Suman for what she did to him in high school.. More than forgiveness he had the attitude of " let the by gone be by gone " there is a huge difference between forgiving someone for an incident n treating the incident as a by gone... Will a girl like Suman ever accept a relationship which is not based on mutual trust n respect?? Coz Shravan definitely does not still completely trust her... N if Shravan does not respect women in general how on earth will he able respect Suman as a wife/lover, friend or most importantly as a Woman... Yes Shravan n Suman is bounded by faith... But at this point of time are they really Made for each other?? Do they really have the qualities in them That makes them for each other??

It will be interesting to see What why n how Suman Chooses between Pyaar Aur Saman... N how Shravan reacts to her choice... For me Shravan n Suman journey starts from here...

Can't agree more...
This point it's better suman moves on for her respect...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan has moved on quite a bit. A lot if family drama will come up and think it is necessary for story. I hope CVs put in a little bit shravan's longing or missing her here there to keep the live story alive too. It is ok if they are fighting but if he is shown not to care as well, then it gets difficult to be enthusiastic about the story.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel like Shravan's MCP attitude just came out of nowhere! Like I liked how he told Sumo of how much his mom hurt him and all but the way he lashed out at Suman and just blantantly berated her was just uncalled for, a little more development of his outburst of feelings was needed I felt it was rushed! Especially the way he said shut up to her!

I do hope the writers know what they're doing! This show is such a breath of fresh air I would hate to see it fall prey to the usual antics of shows and other idiotic shows that have a MCP male lead
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss

Wonderful post. The main discord is not if they love each other. .. But willlove conquer all?

Will Suman be able to love this mcp shravan? She loves the young sweet boy. That is the person she can never forget not this grown shravan. Who seems to be a replica of his dad.

Yes you can live on love and fresh air. But it will be very short!


Only the relationship of a mother and child is mostly unconditional. Every other relationship is conditional. Sumo wants to marry shravan thinking that she had her old friend back. But this is her first clue as to how much he had changed and for the worse.

I don't think sumo or anyone else could change shravan. His change needs to happen from within through his need to change. The motivation will come when Sumo reveals to him that she loved him as the old shravan and was upset that he did not care that she was moving on. But now she cannot look past friendship with this guy that she has seen today.

Cause If you noticed. .. Sumo knocked and entered shravans room today. She has already set her boundaries for their relationship. Lets see how the big reveal will hit shravan. Sumo saying that she loves the young shravan and friendzoning this desirable one is going to shake shravan up.

I always thought why shravan turned out so bad when sumo is so much better. Even though they have both lost parents at a young age. I think the difference is in positive and negative parenting. While all of sumos childhood memories are happy ones... None seem good for shravan. The only ones that have been good are the ones with sumo. Hence he unknowingly depends and expects a lot off her.


@bold : Yes, your one line said it all. Much more than my long post.👏👏

I did not word this from Suman's POV because I feel the show's always been more about Shravan taking that extra step further to change & make it work. Notice the flashbacks, ShraMan's relationship status etc...have always been from Shravan's POV. Even when Suman fell in love, she was kind of passive while the focus was more on what Shravan wants or is thinking. Suman may have her ego etc but I think she'll be more than willing to make it work given her nature. She will take a step back no doubt like the way she knocked this time round, but she will always be there.. she won't leave. But Shravan like always will have to take that step further.

I also don't think anyone can change anyone. The change has to come from within. The realisation needs to hit Shravan that both his parents were wrong. And that they were two individuals not just his parents. Young Shravan didn't have the maturity to deal with that but older Shravan needs to start understanding this slowly. Step by step.

Regarding Suman's love, I feel that she loves adult Shravan for his looks & personality while she loves the person within (teenage Shravan). I don't know when is it that she fell in love with him. And I really want that to be revealed..it will clear a lot of things.

There's a difference like what Shravan pointed out..Suman lost her parents at an early age where she probably didn't understand death so coming to terms with it wasn't as difficult. Unlike Shravan who saw his parents fight, blame each other, drift apart & ultimately break away. It didn't help that Ramnath poisoned Shravan's mind against his mother. So yes there is a lot of negative parenting there. And you're right.. all the happy memories Shravan had were at Sumo's house & that's the reason why she's always been more family to him than his own real family. He's always been happier & involved in Suman's family, unlike his own family where he always took a step back to watch them.
Edited by AyeChavanni - 9 years ago

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