Why is suman behaving like this??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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hello everyone...i just wanted to share my thoughts abt suman's behaviour...i read many posts abt suman being selfish & not undrstanding shravan's situation or abt not giving him space
suman's parents luvd hr a lot esp her mother which became clear aftr the childhood home wala episode...but suddenly dey died & she lost not only hr parents bt d luv too...her nanu took her wid him into a house where she wasnt wlcmd as a family member...she was seen as the child of the prsn who took loan from dem & died before returng it...but she didnt receive any love...smthng she craved for...being a 6 yr old who lost hr parents

She grew up in dat atmosphere & slowly realised wat d family felt abt hr & hr mother...this s wen she decided to take a stand fr hr mother's self respect & decided to return d money

But amidst all dis...d feelng...d craving for love...for a prsn she could call as her own was still dere & dis s wen she decided to bcm sumo...a preson wid whom evrybody wantd to b friends with...she used to bully to get rid of all d pain & frustratn she felt

Then shravan came into her lyf & she opened up a bit bt still didnt show all hr scars & pain to him...she didnt trust anyone wid dat...if u ppl rmbr abt shravan finding abt hr mother's jewellry...dat s d only tym she talkd abt hr pain in front of him cuz she alwys used to hide suman behind sumo's mask

Whereas for shravan she was his sumo...his protector...his best friend. Suman didnt value their friendshp in d past coz she thought she had so mny ppl who luv hr & considr hr their friend...but wen shravan went...their was no one she could share hr thoughts wid...& that s wen she realised wat he truly meant fr hr...if u ppl rmbr she told shravan d same that she thought she had left behind d loneliness she felt wen she had so mny friends in school but once he went...d loneliness was bck

Therefore she wantd to apologize to him...she waitd fr him... sm ppl say she could hv contactd him bt she was afraid...afraid f bng rejectd...what if he didnt respond bck ...hw wld she deal wid d pain den...pain f losng ht best friend too lyk hr parents ...& she .afraid f loosng him forever...& d same hppnd...wen he was bck he behavd as if he dsnt rmbr who suman is & so she retreatd...she didnt talk to him hrslf...acceptd his invitatn only wen he called hr sumo...coz d hope was bck...hope fr deir friendshp

& wen she came to knw he luvd hr...suman became alive...sumo was suppressed...coz finally she realised dat may b dere s smone who truly luvs hr...d luv fr which she craves & i evn read sm ppl calling hr selfish fr nly caring abt his luv fr hr & nt his situatn & abt bng desperate...d thing is she s dsperate...fr d luv she finally found...she dsnt want to let go of dat luv coz she hs been hoping & prayng fr it all hr lyf

i think this s d reason y she s behavng lyk dis...doing all she cn to find out if he still luvs hr or not coz she has lost everyone she luvs...the same was said in d promo...jise chaha use kho dia & she dsnt want to loose him...as she said tere naam ka dhaaga bhandhenge ab...khuda se tujhe maangenge ab


p.s...sorry jyaada lmba ho gya😆😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Everyone needs someone in their lives who will pamper them. Fulfil their wishes even if those wishes are unreasonable. Shravan has been that only person for her. Poor thing lost parents at 6. She has Nanu but he is the who protects her. No one she has, she can go and let her heart out on how horrible it feels to be alone. Shravan lost his dad for few hours and see how he felt. Summon has no parents for most her life. If she is little unreasonable with Shravan, I can understand.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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But is this shravan the same? She is clueless about the mcp that he is. .. She is deeply in love Wyeth the young shravan. But this one. ...?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss

But is this shravan the same? She is clueless about the mcp that he is. .. She is deeply in love Wyeth the young shravan. But this one. ...?

Hey 😊 Shravan definitely has changed..he dsnt need hr to b his protector anymore...d same was depicted in today's episode too...& suman is responsible for dis too...suman luvs young shravan & is yet to know d changed prsn he s...young shravan was shy & too naive but dis one isnt...i think she would move on just wen she fully realises dat he s nt d same shravan anymore & really considers hr only as his best friend
similarly i think shravan also has a lot to know abt suman
Edited by riddhimaaa - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This Shravan is an altered one who has changed with time... Suman is still in the past with younger one, Sumo hasn't witnessed this altered Shravan much and now its time to deal with the present personality of his, who's a bit more practical and unvalues love... He respects women even now but doesn't consider loving someone
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Amulya--

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This Shravan is an altered one who has changed with time... Suman is still in the past with younger one, Sumo hasn't witnessed this altered Shravan much and now its time to deal with the present personality of his, who's a bit more practical and unvalues love... He respects women even now but doesn't consider loving someone

this realisation is going to b vry difficult for suman coz smwhere she is not able to believe that he could change...for her he s still that swt caring shravan he was who pampered her a lot & therefore she still tries to boss around him( cmng into her sumo avtaar) lyk she did earlier coz she wants to b luvd & pampered...she enjoys his attention...& somehow till now she has seen only his caring side & not d inner scars he has ...& getting to know what he feels abt women was d frst step towards d realisation tha he actually has changed...therefore it was important fr her to knw whether he feels d same abt hr & she couldnt wait...so barged into his office fr askng dis
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sumo please 'move on' for now..shravan has changed into a demon ☢️ Apni shaadi pe focus karo..naya ladka dhondo aur aish karo 👍🏼 Is shravan ka abhi kuch nahi hone wala

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