Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
"Aisa ho saktha hain ki tumhein kuch pasand ho aur main na banao " this one line of Suman showed how she can do whatever he likes !! If he goes out and says, "I love you " Suman would reciprocate that she loves him...but Shravan would only feel that she loves him because "aisa ho sakta hain ki usse jo pasand hain aur woh na karein ?? "
Shravan needs clarity, he doesn't assume things..he is logical.. he looks at the bigger picture.. where one's thoughts end, Shravan's starts.. like any guy would go on with ILU ,.. but Shravan didn't .. even though it's easy . he thinks beyond the normal thinking . his love for Suman is much more deeper.. beyond the normalcy . ..
he knows his effects on Suman.. how she feels with his touch and with his closeness.. but did he equate it to love ?? No, because despite knowing his effect on her and her reactions.. he is still unsure of the feelings of "love"in Suman.. he can't ask..either.. if she loves him .. as that would be forcing his love on her in the name of fees.. it could come out as her ehsaan chukaana for the fees .. and Suman would reciprocate it either way .. but Shravan doesn't want any condition, majboori, ehsaan, to seal their love , So lets start this journey from where we stopped 10 years back and it's beautiful !! The respect he has for their bond is beyond beautiful .
Take a bow again creatives and Shravan Malhotra,👏👏 He gave her the space, he gave her the lead... on the front it might look like Shravan took the lead when he sealed that beautiful ehsaas as "Dosti" but what I see is he is letting her take the lead from there...from where they started, their innocent friendship which they left 10 years back . If Suman wants to be friends for life, he would be,..and this is not being mahaan or being sacrificing. it's just that... "aisa nahin ho sakta ki Suman ko jo pasand hain aur Shravan na karein ..." he didn't say that word.. but it's written all over the place... it has been an unsaid protocol between them.. just like him always being the one to wait...here also he would wait for her , without tagging their relation with "love" he is giving her the space and lead to do what she likes...
Once you tag your friendship with LOVE, it becomes awkward for both of them...the innocence of friendship will be lost, the comfort level will replaced by awkwardness..which he didn't want...
His stressing on "dost" "dost" is quite evident that his love for her has gradually grown for her, he is just controlling and telling himself, she is dost ... he will take it from where he left... that innocent, beautiful, teenage friendship with a gap of 10 long years of anguish, misunderstanding and pain... cannot be sealed with love.. you have to erase that gap, you have to let go off all those 10 years of separation and how would you seal with it ?? not with love, you have to join the ends .. the end 10 years back was friendship and it has to be tied with friendship ... which can gradually transform into more than friendship... and it's amazing to see how precise and intricate is the writing when it comes to these two ...
that dosti ki shuruaat is beautifully shot,,, it's like they carried forwarded from where they left.. scene with teenage shravan and sumo along with adult shravan and sumo is brilliantly done bye the creatives... 👏👏👏 like they erased those 10 years of separation in that moment !!
10 years back Shravan couldn't confess his love, he wrote a letter.. he wasn't confident.. but now that he is confident, suave, smart , hero type .. can he just go and confess... NO, that will all be related to "HIS" and not THEIRS , it would be his confidence.. what he feels what he thinks. what he does.. what he aims.. it's not love but his confidence which would come out .. and no where would suman and her wishes be in the picture and Shravan wouldn't want that anyday...
...For any guy it would be breezy to confess and win over the girl when you know the girl has feelings for you...but taking a step back and recreating the friendship, despite being in love.. takes a strong strong dil and character !!!
You fall in love, but rise in friendship...I loved the little details they showed.. he stood up and held his hand out , "dosti ki shuruat " as opposed to going down on knees for "love" confession
Amazing one once again Doc D👏, it's pleasure reading your views .. Indrani once again wonderful ⭐️ great views everyone :)
And these writers are fabulous and soo realistic⭐️ ..and i better stop here !! 😆