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Posted: 9 years ago
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"Aisa ho saktha hain ki tumhein kuch pasand ho aur main na banao " this one line of Suman showed how she can do whatever he likes !! If he goes out and says, "I love you " Suman would reciprocate that she loves him...but Shravan would only feel that she loves him because "aisa ho sakta hain ki usse jo pasand hain aur woh na karein ?? "


Shravan needs clarity, he doesn't assume things..he is logical.. he looks at the bigger picture.. where one's thoughts end, Shravan's starts.. like any guy would go on with ILU ,.. but Shravan didn't .. even though it's easy . he thinks beyond the normal thinking . his love for Suman is much more deeper.. beyond the normalcy . ..

he knows his effects on Suman.. how she feels with his touch and with his closeness.. but did he equate it to love ?? No, because despite knowing his effect on her and her reactions.. he is still unsure of the feelings of "love"in Suman.. he can't ask..either.. if she loves him .. as that would be forcing his love on her in the name of fees.. it could come out as her ehsaan chukaana for the fees .. and Suman would reciprocate it either way .. but Shravan doesn't want any condition, majboori, ehsaan, to seal their love , So lets start this journey from where we stopped 10 years back and it's beautiful !! The respect he has for their bond is beyond beautiful .

Take a bow again creatives and Shravan Malhotra,👏👏 He gave her the space, he gave her the lead... on the front it might look like Shravan took the lead when he sealed that beautiful ehsaas as "Dosti" but what I see is he is letting her take the lead from there...from where they started, their innocent friendship which they left 10 years back . If Suman wants to be friends for life, he would be,..and this is not being mahaan or being sacrificing. it's just that... "aisa nahin ho sakta ki Suman ko jo pasand hain aur Shravan na karein ..." he didn't say that word.. but it's written all over the place... it has been an unsaid protocol between them.. just like him always being the one to wait...here also he would wait for her , without tagging their relation with "love" he is giving her the space and lead to do what she likes...

Once you tag your friendship with LOVE, it becomes awkward for both of them...the innocence of friendship will be lost, the comfort level will replaced by awkwardness..which he didn't want...


His stressing on "dost" "dost" is quite evident that his love for her has gradually grown for her, he is just controlling and telling himself, she is dost ... he will take it from where he left... that innocent, beautiful, teenage friendship with a gap of 10 long years of anguish, misunderstanding and pain... cannot be sealed with love.. you have to erase that gap, you have to let go off all those 10 years of separation and how would you seal with it ?? not with love, you have to join the ends .. the end 10 years back was friendship and it has to be tied with friendship ... which can gradually transform into more than friendship... and it's amazing to see how precise and intricate is the writing when it comes to these two ...


that dosti ki shuruaat is beautifully shot,,, it's like they carried forwarded from where they left.. scene with teenage shravan and sumo along with adult shravan and sumo is brilliantly done bye the creatives... 👏👏👏 like they erased those 10 years of separation in that moment !!


10 years back Shravan couldn't confess his love, he wrote a letter.. he wasn't confident.. but now that he is confident, suave, smart , hero type .. can he just go and confess... NO, that will all be related to "HIS" and not THEIRS , it would be his confidence.. what he feels what he thinks. what he does.. what he aims.. it's not love but his confidence which would come out .. and no where would suman and her wishes be in the picture and Shravan wouldn't want that anyday...


...For any guy it would be breezy to confess and win over the girl when you know the girl has feelings for you...but taking a step back and recreating the friendship, despite being in love.. takes a strong strong dil and character !!!


You fall in love, but rise in friendship...I loved the little details they showed.. he stood up and held his hand out , "dosti ki shuruat " as opposed to going down on knees for "love" confession

Amazing one once again Doc D👏, it's pleasure reading your views .. Indrani once again wonderful ⭐️ great views everyone :)

And these writers are fabulous and soo realistic⭐️ ..and i better stop here !! 😆




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Posted: 9 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: puba



Hahaha...he bangali...I actually kind of guessed that you are one...your name is Riya right?...usually a bengali name...

I am Puja btw...


yep riya it is.. 😃 doc is also bengali. mone hochchilo dyotana sune 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33
Puja, Riya.. yes bangali😉
Puja amar jodi kichu bhaal lage tokhon hi likhte mon kare.. aar Dyotona eto bhalo likhe chilo .. ki rukhte par laam na
Thank you

Je tor bhaal lege che
🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: indranigupta

Puja, Riya.. yes bangali😉

Puja amar jodi kichu bhaal lage tokhon hi likhte mon kare.. aar Dyotona eto bhalo likhe chilo .. ki rukhte par laam na
Thank you

Je tor bhaal lege che
🤗



Tomra chaliye jao... 😊 😃...khub bhalo lekha!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#35
Amazing. It is a perfect combination of heart and brain.
nicely written.
👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


"Aisa ho saktha hain ki tumhein kuch pasand ho aur main na banao " this one line of Suman showed how she can do whatever he likes !! If he goes out and says, "I love you " Suman would reciprocate that she loves him...but Shravan would only feel that she loves him because "aisa ho sakta hain ki usse jo pasand hain aur woh na karein ?? "


Shravan needs clarity, he doesn't assume things..he is logical.. he looks at the bigger picture.. where one's thoughts end, Shravan's starts.. like any guy would go on with ILU ,.. but Shravan didn't .. even though it's easy . he thinks beyond the normal thinking . his love for Suman is much more deeper.. beyond the normalcy . ..

he knows his effects on Suman.. how she feels with his touch and with his closeness.. but did he equate it to love ?? No, because despite knowing his effect on her and her reactions.. he is still unsure of the feelings of "love"in Suman.. he can't ask..either.. if she loves him .. as that would be forcing his love on her in the name of fees.. it could come out as her ehsaan chukaana for the fees .. and Suman would reciprocate it either way .. but Shravan doesn't want any condition, majboori, ehsaan, to seal their love , So lets start this journey from where we stopped 10 years back and it's beautiful !! The respect he has for their bond is beyond beautiful .

Take a bow again creatives and Shravan Malhotra,👏👏 He gave her the space, he gave her the lead... on the front it might look like Shravan took the lead when he sealed that beautiful ehsaas as "Dosti" but what I see is he is letting her take the lead from there...from where they started, their innocent friendship which they left 10 years back . If Suman wants to be friends for life, he would be,..and this is not being mahaan or being sacrificing. it's just that... "aisa nahin ho sakta ki Suman ko jo pasand hain aur Shravan na karein ..." he didn't say that word.. but it's written all over the place... it has been an unsaid protocol between them.. just like him always being the one to wait...here also he would wait for her , without tagging their relation with "love" he is giving her the space and lead to do what she likes...

Once you tag your friendship with LOVE, it becomes awkward for both of them...the innocence of friendship will be lost, the comfort level will replaced by awkwardness..which he didn't want...


His stressing on "dost" "dost" is quite evident that his love for her has gradually grown for her, he is just controlling and telling himself, she is dost ... he will take it from where he left... that innocent, beautiful, teenage friendship with a gap of 10 long years of anguish, misunderstanding and pain... cannot be sealed with love.. you have to erase that gap, you have to let go off all those 10 years of separation and how would you seal with it ?? not with love, you have to join the ends .. the end 10 years back was friendship and it has to be tied with friendship ... which can gradually transform into more than friendship... and it's amazing to see how precise and intricate is the writing when it comes to these two ...


that dosti ki shuruaat is beautifully shot,,, it's like they carried forwarded from where they left.. scene with teenage shravan and sumo along with adult shravan and sumo is brilliantly done bye the creatives... 👏👏👏 like they erased those 10 years of separation in that moment !!


10 years back Shravan couldn't confess his love, he wrote a letter.. he wasn't confident.. but now that he is confident, suave, smart , hero type .. can he just go and confess... NO, that will all be related to "HIS" and not THEIRS , it would be his confidence.. what he feels what he thinks. what he does.. what he aims.. it's not love but his confidence which would come out .. and no where would suman and her wishes be in the picture and Shravan wouldn't want that anyday...


...For any guy it would be breezy to confess and win over the girl when you know the girl has feelings for you...but taking a step back and recreating the friendship, despite being in love.. takes a strong strong dil and character !!!


You fall in love, but rise in friendship...I loved the little details they showed.. he stood up and held his hand out , "dosti ki shuruat " as opposed to going down on knees for "love" confession

Amazing one once again Doc D👏, it's pleasure reading your views .. Indrani once again wonderful ⭐️ great views everyone :)

And these writers are fabulous and soo realistic⭐️ ..and i better stop here !! 😆




Munni, what a lovely post.👏
Agree to what you have said, particularly in bold
Isnt it beautiful that you give the chance again to someone to rewrite and reread whats already been there
Giving her a blank slate and yet not so blank
Trace lingers on
The flavour remains
Space
To understand
the spaces to cover, to hide the past hurts
To travel
To bring all those spaces
Left empty and bereft
To be filled again with love
Care
And
Friendship

Shravan and CVs take a bow🤗


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Posted: 9 years ago
#37
I really liked your writing and again an amazing post.

I absolutely agree with what you said shravan to start again from where it started before ...friendship ...seal their friendship especially after all the bitter moments they had and the gap 10 long years needs a new beginning...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: indranigupta

Copying from another post

Why would Shravan go ahead and reveal his feelings to Suman?
Why would he ask her or rather demand from her to accept him in the name of his fees.. to accept her love?
Why?
Because he followed his heart
His true calling
Understood the real meaning of success
Understood that there is more to the tagline of 'winning is everything'
Winning is where your heart is meant to be
Winning is putting a smile back into a girl's face
Winning is the realization that house is also a home

In the name of fees, in the name of gratitude (on Suman's part) if Shravan Malhotra went ahead to declare his love wouldn't that be forcing his love on Suman? Isnt that demeaning his own love for her?
Was his love only a matter of give and take?
Yesterday, he just asks her to be my friend and in effect, to retrace their steps.. to rewind their lives ten years before, isn't it adding a new meaning, a new layer, a new sidenote 😉


Not starting from scratch, not being evasive about their past, not negating what they have both felt for each other during those ten years and before
But
Adding, re-reading, rewriting their relationship anew
Traversing down the memory lane
Forming and writing new sidenotes
To compare and yet to not to let all those sidenotes be erased

Shravan Malhotra's love for Sumo is not static❤️
It has grown gradually, eventually
And shall grow
Into something far more beautiful
For that this journey is required
Journey where both are equals
As they were in the past
No gratitude
No sympathy
But
Only companionship
Where what matters
Is the fact that

Whatever they do, think and feel
It shall be together
Always
And for ever
And this journey is not forcing Sumo to announce her love for him
It is a journey to understand
That Shravan's love
Can be felt, experienced, valued
In all forms
In all shapes
In all colours
Love means acceptance
But it is also means letting go
Of our insecurities
To value our pain
Our struggle
And the small voices
which question our beliefs
Shravan's Love will undergo these battles and conflict
Again
But,
This time
make sure
He wont be alone
Suman's path will cross and intersect his
Not because this is what he has planned
But, this is how it shall be

And then, again a new journey will begin

CVs have excelled themselves👏
Shravan Malhotra take a bow,
You are all what i would love to see in an ideal man

Dyotona, this is the best you have written till date
Amaar onek onek bhalabhasha🤗
Kalker episode was special
Probably shall write more
When I have recovered my senses

Hey Indrani, you wrote so well... you should've made a sepperate post, then it would've been accessible to many... as its in the 3rd page here, many may not read it... I wish you make a seperate post on it atleast now
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39
As always, enjoyed reading your post, Doc. 😃

Glad that the writers did not jump to the lovey dovey stuff. These two need to process their feelings before proceeding further... particularly Suman.

Must add, your thread is a goldmine of brilliant posts. Days like this... just want to sit back and enjoy reading the analysis. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#40
Oh when I read these posts I fall in love with this show all over again!!! A total EDKV addict!!!
But I do have a different "why did he?" question to ask...

While I understand why Shravan asks for dosti - it's the most rational, beautiful place to start for him.
that is his safe zone, he knows there is no risk of heartbreak there. But why is he flirting with dear old Sumo!!! Why tread those waters?
Edited by an_chau - 9 years ago

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