Ek Duje Ke Vaaste' ShravanSuman ShraMan'-Ek Khoobsurat Ehsaas❤️
ShraMan-They have gone through all phases of friendship-close childhood friendship to one-sided love phase to frenemies to a newly blossomed matured & sensitive friendship.
During childhood, Suman in Sumo's avatar was very outspoken, bindaas, my way or highway type girl & also a rebel. She acted chilled out about everything just to cover up her loneliness, fears, pain of losing her parents so young. On the other hand, Shravan was very soft, sensitive, caring & responsible. It is true, opposites attract be it friendship or love! Sumo loved to cook for her bestie Shravan & Shravan loved to do his bestie Sumo's assignments, clean her room etc. Basically, during childhood, ShraMan completed each other & complemented each other by compensating for each other' weaknesses. ShraMan childhood friendship was pure, fresh, unconditional & selfless.
Due to teenage issues be it peer pressure or immaturity, Sumo unknowingly & unintentionally hurt her best friend Shravan. Shravan on the other hand, who always secretly loved his Sumo was completed broken into pieces when he felt his bestie Sumo left his side when he needed her the most, let others mock at him, never read his letter nor reciprocated his love but only took him for granted.
Due to so many unfortunate circumstances, immaturity, teenage feelings which drives everyone crazy & where logic never works, & due to lack of guidance & support from families & friends, misunderstandings between Besties ShraMan grew. These strong-rooted misunderstandings, anger, pain, loneliness, frustration, helplessness, restlessness, guilt, so many unanswered questions, unsaid feelings, bitter feelings took away their rationality to such an extent that two best childhood friends entered tit-for-tat revenge mode'. In the process, Two people who were meant to heal each other' pain actually ended up hurting each other the most.
ShraMan had a lot of past baggage, so giving a peaceful closure to past was very crucial to rekindle a beautiful special precious friendship which would last for now & forever!
Coming to ShraMan, I feel Shravan is very much aware & conscious of his feelings for Suman but he does not want to impose his feelings on his Sumo, his Suman. During childhood, Shravan fell for Sumo but now meeting her after 10 years, & seeing & knowing the sensitive, soft side of Suman, he is understanding Suman's hidden secrets, her pain, the unmasked Suman, the real Suman, & hence, he is respecting not just Sumo but also Suman. Shravan admires Sumo's chilled out behaviour & Suman's strength, her independent nature, her self-respect, her concern & love for her family as well as his family, her work, & ofcourse their friendship'. Finally mutual trust respect understanding concern between ShraMan is blossoming into a new fruitful friendship tree with green leaves, colourful flowers with fragrance spreading everywhere, outside as well as inside their hearts. Shravan has always loved Sumo but now he is loving Suman also & he will always do. At the same time, he does not to impose or force his feelings upon Suman nor does he want her to accept his love due to indebtedness. Shravan has let Suman free as it is said if you love someone, set them free, if they come back to you, they were yours or else you both were not meant to be'. He has let Suman choose whether she wants just friendship or something more than that. Shravan has already been hurt during teenage due to one-sided love & somewhere that ruined their beautiful & precious friendship. So, now Shravan is taking extra care & trying to make things normal, nothing awkward or uncomfortable between them. If Shravan loves Suman more than a friend but if Suman loves him just as a friend, then both are right in their respective places afterall dil pe kisika zor nahi chaltha'!Sometimes, the pain & fear of losing your close friend due to one-sided love is greater than happiness of being with the same friend whom you love deeply, purely, truly, madly. So, Shravan has friendzoned not just Suman but also himself just to ensure neither Suman nor himself are hurt in the process.
Suman is matured & sensitive now compared to her childhood days. Now, she thinks & feels for Shravan from her point of view & her heart & not depending on what friends or family or society think of him. Now, she has realized unknowingly she has hurt & lost her best friend her gem her Shravan but she will never repeat those past mistakes. Now Suman respects, understands & trusts, adores her Shravan & is so proud of him. Suman is surely affected by Shravan's absence & presence, his words & his actions. But, She is still confused whether she just likes him as a friend her best friend or something more. Similarly, Shravan has realized that in the revenge mode he has actually hurt & insulted his Sumo his Suman the most-his best friend whom he cannot see in pain in tears even for a moment. It is true anger, grudge, ego, misunderstandings can kill any relationship.
Shravan has always been very sensitive & an introvert since childhood but Suman in Sumo avatar' is an extrovert but in Suman avatar' is an introvert. ShraMan both have some similar & some different approaches to deal with situations & feelings their special feelings. Title track of EDKV sums up their feelings beautifully! Shravan has suppressed his one-sided feelings for so many years & acting like he has moved on but in reality he has not & he can never...Similarly, Suman's slow realization of special feelings, mixed feelings...these special feelings given the name of Ek Khoobsurat Ehsaas-Kabhi kushi bankar toh kabhi gham bankar, kabhi doori bankar toh kabhi nazdeeki bankar, kabhi khwab bankar toh kabhi haqeeqat bankar ya phir kabhi kathi meethi yaad bankar'.
Honton pe tere shikwo ka shor hai
Par yeh nigahe kehthi kuch aur hai
Jo hai mile lamhe kahi
chuthna jaaye haath se
Kyun hai dabi si khwaishein
Dil mein tere bewajah
Jaake zara usse bolde chahtha jisse tu raha
Kahi teri khamoshiyan jeet na jaaye pyar se
Mil jaane de dil jo bane hai
Ek Duje Ke Vaaste'
ShraMan are atleast lucky enough that they could self-reflect, realize, accept, repent & correct their past mistakes & start a new phase in their life-whether it is friendship or love-it is a special feeling, as Shravan says sabse khoobsurat ehsaas-dosti'. Whether as friends or lovers, ShraMan Mil hee jaayenge jo bane hai Ek Duje Ke Vaaste'. Time Distance Life Death cannot separate people who are together in hearts. Until then, let us relax & enjoy ShraMan's cute beautiful nok-jhok friendship-love in friendship. Let us cherish ShraMan's smile through tears' moments! Only destiny will tell whether this love in friendship' turns into friendship in love'!.
Kuch Kuch Hota Hai dialogue- Agar woh meri sabse achi dost nahi ban sakthi toh mein usse pyar kar hee nahi saktha is so apt for ShraMan'!
ShraMan's stages of friendship & love described in songs-
ShraMan's childhood friendship-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCfvYo3ILG0
KK - Yaaron
yaaron dosti badi hi haseen hai
yeh na ho to kya phir bolo yeh zindgi hai'
Shravan's one-sided feelings-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eqs_3gfgqmQ
Pyar Kar - Full Song - Dil To Pagal Hai
4.36 mins to 5.49 mins
"Jispe hum mar mithe usko pata bhi nahi,
Kya gila hum kare woh bewafa bhi nahi,
Hum ne jo sunn liya, usne kaha bhi nahi,
Yeh dil zara sochkar, pyar kar, haa haa haa pyar kar"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpHp-9F9aL0
Tu Ne Jo Na Kaha - Song - New York
Tune jo na kaha
Mein woh sunta raha
Khamakha bewajah Khwaab Bunta raha
Jaane kiski humein lag gayi hai nazar
Is Shehar mein Na apna tikana raha
Koi chahat se na ab apni chalta raha
ShraMan's feelings when they were away for 10 years-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlWlGlvN4L4
Lyrics from ladki badi anjaani kuch kuch hota hai
3.35 mins to 4 mins
Bheed mein bhi thi tanhai
Yaad har pal teri aayi
Roke koi mujhe zara
Bhar na aaye ye dil mera
Behke behke mere kadam hain
Aise mein tu sambhaal to zara
Now, present newly blossomed friendship-
http://www.hotstar.com/tv/ajeeb-dastaan-hai/1650/shobha-turns-down-vikram/1000053183
from 17.36 mins to 21.12 mins
Ajeeb daastaan hai yeh
Kahan shuru kahan khatam
Yeh manzile hai kaunsi
Na woh samajh sake na hum
Guzar gaya jo kal gaya,
Jo ayega woh kal naya,
Hame kya bulayega, tumhe hai na muje pata
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kceO1AMi-mE
Darmiyaan Jodi Breakers
Benaam rishta woh, bechain karta jo
Ho naa sake jo bayaan, darmiyaan
Darmiyaan Darmiyan
Kuch toh tha tere-mere darmiyaan'
Credit goes to original song composers & uploaders
I'm not good at making vms so please imagine Our Beloved ShraMan in these songs!
Don't know if & when ShraMan's friendship will turn into love!
Thank you!🤗
Love,
Spandana
P.S
Index
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4612864#p133224557
A New Crazy EK DUJE KE VAASTEian ShraManian' in town!
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4612864&TPN=3
Ek Duje Ke Vaaste ShraMan'-Ek Khoobsurat Ehsaas-updtd p3
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4612864&TPN=3
ShraMan-Tu mera humdard hai-OS on upcoming track! P3 updated
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4612864&TPN=4
Episode Analysis-ShraMan-Adhuri si Poori Kahani-updtd p4
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4612864&TPN=5
A Memorable & Beautiful Visit to Our Beloved EDKV sets!!
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4612864&TPN=11&#p135967876
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