My grandpa was in the Indian Army. From the stories I've heard, he was very mischievous and care-free as a teenager but was deeply affected after India lost the Indo-China war. Despite his family's wishes, he decided to join the army. Although he could've had a secured government job as his father and uncles did, he wanted to do more for the county. Later on, he fought in the India-Pakistan war. He doesn't like to talk about his army career much because there were a lot of painful memories, although he has no regrets, but he didn't want my father or uncles joining the army. My dad and uncles didn't go to an army school but grew up in an army colony and moved around a lot to wherever my grandpa was posted. Sometimes he would be away from family for a long time too. It's really interesting to hear about the difference in family culture between my dad and my mom, who grew up in a civilian family and never moved around.
Another connection: My childhood best friend who was very shy and timid grew up to become a US Army Nurse and it's hard to believe that she's the same girl! I always feel really proud of her when I see her Army posts. We lost touch afterwards so I'm not sure what made her join. I knew that she wanted to be a nurse but had some financial hardships. The US army pays for education as long as you serve also so maybe that was it but I'm sure there must be more because joining the army is a big decision.
One of the things I want to them to show about the army is the hardship soldiers go through not being limited to being away from family. My grandpa told me that we are only shown the glitz and glamor of the army and not the internal politics and discrimination. So, I would like to see this also. I don't think showing the negative side along with the positive is disrespectful but it is more realistic.
Edited by alina.b - 5 years ago