Originally posted by: thrower
I agree with you Shegu,
Tara should step back and let it all play out. She was always the one to fight for her rights, fight for his innocence, fight to defend the marriage to him, to her mother, to everyone, so this time around, it's too dumb to ask her to keep fighting.
Fighting does not mean one should not be silent. Sama, daana, bheda, dhando, upaya...five types of fighting, samam= peaceful, daanam=by piety or by grace or by mercy, bheda=by differentiation, or by opposing, dhanda=punishment, upaya=with intelligence...
A man who was inhumane to Tara in the first few weeks of marriage "JUST TO KEEP HER AWAY FROM A CONDEMNED MAN's FATE" and has always been closed to her without expressing any love, and who never encouraged Tara's love or care, who always asked her to "GET LOST" when she showed care, now has been expressive in his love, concern, care for Radha. Should that put a doubt in Tara's mind?
Of course, it has to! It has always been she who put her efforts either in proving him innocent, in the Radha alive matter, or in defending him to her mother, or even with him, in trying to show it to him that she was committed to this marriage in letter and spirit.
So, now given a scenario where his "love" for her is "nonexistent" in her mind and where his "accpetance" of her as his wife is "dubious," it's best she takes a step back rather than jump all over him.