Should Samrat be forgiven ???

In the context of the show - it is that much more important to show that he does not receive forgiveness. By showing Urmi forgiving him and Samrat turning a new leaf so quickly - it would really be sending a wrong message to the masses. This show is high-lighting reality - of thousands of victims of domestic abuse - the message should be to empower women and give them the courage to stand up and raise a voice against evil. The show took one step in the right direction by showing Urmi filing a police complaint and getting Samrat arrested. Personally I wish they had shown that she did not take the complaint back but i am happy to see that she has FInally started answering back to both Shashi and Samrat.

Ideally even if Samrat does "change" Urmi should not accept him - I'd like to see her maintaining her distance and living life on her own terms - finding work and supporting herself and raising her son.

With all due respect - I agree to a certain extent - that if someone has done bad and TRULY repents, understands the severity of their actions and honestly wants to change and better themselves then yes - they should be granted a chance to prove themselves.

In the case of Samrat - he is NOT repenting or sorry for what he has done. He does NOT understand the severity of his actions and truly speaking - men like Samrat who are so narrow minded, egoistic and an over all MCP who treats women like dirt - they don't really change - so the concept of giving him another chance doesn't even arise. If he starts to behave "nicely" with Urmi - its not coming from a true realization of how he's been ill treating his wife - he's doing this because he wants to prove a point and satisfy his ego - its not about Urmi it's about his EGO.

In any case the topic maker has asked if Samrat should be forgiven - first of all I don't think his actions even render a possibility for forgiveness and even if he is (this is a show after all) forgiving a person doesn't equal giving him another chance. Forgiving is more for the person who does the forgiving - for them to be able to let go and move on and if Urmi does move on - it wouldn't even matter if Samrat repents or changes - she's already past that point from what we are seeing.

To quote an old chinese proverb "if you hurt me once - that is your fault, if you hurt me twice - that's my fault"

Urmi has given Samrat enough chances, she's tried very hard to maintain peace in the home but at every step Samrat has just taken her silence as weakness and walked all over her. He does not deserve any sympathy or chances.