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Posted: 11 years ago
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Get rid of this Daadi pehhle toh.. Half of Urmi's problems have stemmed due to the negativity in Daadi.. And now she wants Urmi to take her police complaint back! KYUN?? Was Daadi the one who was beaten by Samrat?

I don't understand the mentality of such women (in real life as well). What do they want- that a woman should sacrifice her life serving such an 🤬🤬?? I don't believe in old sayings much but it really reminds me of, "ek aurat hee doosri aurat ki dushman hoti hai".. DISGUSTING Daadi.. Disappointed in Urmi's father as well, but he's like a puppet at his mother's hands! Same goes with Rudra.. And yes Samrat is being brought back from jail at this family's insistence.. And we are back to square one! 🤢 🤢

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is plain disgusting and a very wrong message being sent across!🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is nothing but the reality of what women face everyday - in real life. Urmi's father would insist that she remain in her husband's house till he gets the news that she died in a kitchen fire and then he would go and give a statement to police that his daughter was extremely careless in the kitchen or was mentally unstable. Her father and Daadi might even insist that Anu then marry Samrat in order to take care of Shaurya. That's the way this world operates.

It is not a question of being a "dushman" - Daadi comes from a generation where the women's place was her husband's house. Hr father at the end of the day is a man - when he doesn't respect his own wife why will he understand his daughter's "irrational" demand for respect? All of this stems from lack of financial independence. Had Urmi had her own professional or social standing she would not have to live through this.

What she needs to do is to break the shackles that her Daadi, father and MIL seek to tie her in and find her own identity.

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