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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-

@latha

You have valid points...

What is point discussion when we think the same...

When woman says no it means no... The same applies to men too

Equality is what we all fight for so why not in relationships as well



really I don't understand...when a man refuses a women...sympathy goes for her...but when a girl refuses a boy...it is like that boy is a goon...trying to spoil the girls life...


even I saw a little biased discussion here from yest epi...I totally agree that sumi was very cheap in yest epi ranting abt her SR...which never happened...she has used valgur language agree..that is her standard...she comes from a low class...as per her class she talked...


But shivani also did same thing after spending a ni8 with R on picnic ni8...she taunted sumi...abt her one ni8 stand...with R...where in fact what all she faced there is hurt...but with sumi she spoke differently...shivani is educated and comes from a hi class society so language is diff...but underlying meaning of both sumi and shivani is same...

but we clapped for shivani for humiliating sumi...when sumi did same...well we know wht hapnd yest...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Latha.I

nice post jo...nice epi too...

so finally shivani realized there is no place for her in the house...yes she is strong and need to leave now...

I'm liking the way the cv's showing the decency of Raghu and arrogance of shivani from the beginning of the show...

even Raghu was humiliated to the core...and was taken to the edge of his death by shivani...but when he came back he forgave her so decently without one single harsh word...either by him or by his family... and that too when he is totally not at fault...

here also it's not his crime not able to love shivani...or not able to realize his love...but shivani is looking at him like a criminal...

he also bought divorce papers and asked very politelyand decently to sign the papers...did not throw on her face...but shivani showed her arrogance again...

yes Raghu did marry sumi without telling to anyone...but at least he is faithful enough to tell sumi that it is fake...the main person whom he is faking with knows it...

shivani disclosed to the whole world...but to the main person to whom she should be faithful with karan for the rest of life...is not aware that for her that marriage will also be fake...well he have to understand here that she said everything just to hurt Raghu...šŸ¤”...she is clearly fooling karan...

I know no one like this post of mine...since shivani is in grief...we have to stand for her show sympathy...for her...that's the thumb rule here...find fault with men...and spare the women...

I would call shivani strong...if she had walked out of the house taking Raghu's sign...and did not express openly her defeat in hands of sumi...as an anger towards Raghu...

I don't think not able to love a person just because they r loving us...or not able to realize our won feelings is a crime...anyhow...this is just my POV...



šŸ‘ šŸ‘ I agree 100%with u. A Man's no is as important as a woman's no. Its not Raghu's fault he has not fallen head over heels in love with Shi. Forcing urself on a man is wrong. I think love and respect go hand in hand ,both are equally imp. Shivani only loved Raghu , she never respected his feelings. Loving sum1 is not abt wat u want, its more abt wat the other person wants.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sheena-

I agree that shivani was good today with how she handled the divorce and announcing her marriage to karan. .. she did the right thing under the circumstances. ...

yup agree šŸ‘šŸ¼

But I feel shivani is using karan more than raghu has so far because karan has always been aware of raghu intention to unite him with shivani... If he wanted to he could have refused but he hasn't... raghu did without realising his feelings where as shivani in seeing raghu said everything to pierce raghu but at the same time assuring karan that she is happy... to me that is a dangerous game to play when it will backfire...

I agree .. I too dint like the way she gave those dialogues to Karan just with the intention of hurting Raghu .. though Raghu deserved all that but in the process she is not realising that she is actually playing with Karan's feelings and keeping him in dark ... I want her to meet up Karan and actually clear it with him about why she is marrying him ...


Shivani can honestly not marry anyone as she she is not promised bound to anyone but her willingness to fulfil her promise and using karan to keep raghu happy...

I guess she is doing it for Raghu in a way though she wants to show as if she is doing it for herself to take revenge from Raghu ..

If karan does go negative then shivani will be to blame as she is doing it purposely to hurt raghu... raghu too will be at fault but he hasn't used karan... karan had a choice always...

hmm I actually blame both in this case .. because Raghu sort of started the whole game by pushing Karan and then Shivani is continuing the play the game further by keeping him in dark


Gini crush seems little overboard and getting brainwashed was bit far fetched... I think she needed someone to put some sense in her that marriage is not imp as studying and a career...

I agree .. she is still a kid afterall

so raghu is already thinking of shivani as a habit and soon her absence will make the heart grow founder. ..

yeah mayb just the beginning šŸ˜›


Just my two cents. ..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post Jyoti.

N nice episode too. Today's episode was watchable, wherever sumi's evil smile wasn't the focus that is.
I wonder what shi was actually gonna tell Karan befoshe saw Raghu coming towards them.

Also Raghu's self-talk was unexpected. I mean wen he started addressing maliksa, I thought he was gonna say the same thing that how he is doing all this for her happiness n stuff, so his confession that his life would seem incomplete without babyji was a pleasant surprise.

I feel sorry for Karan. I too think this track is gonna go the same way wer after feeling cheated (which in a way would b true if shi keeps giving him false hope), Karan is gonna turn negative...

N if I c sumi now plotting with ginni, I m gonna lose control.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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as usual wonderful analysis jyoti.. noticed how you make it a point to reply every comment,
that too without prejudice, shows your positivity & leadership quality.. your gesture is most
appreciated..
Superb episode..
Whatever little remorse raghu felt today is a good sign towards rashi's reunion..
I must say that I felt a surge of satisfaction when shivani threw the divorce papers at raghu's
feet.. oops sory..
admirable performance by shivani.. powerpact dialogues..
im so excited for tmrw..
shivani can really wreak havoc during her pursuit of true love..
(all is fair in love and war.. you go get your man, girl!)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Uma-Arhaanfan

Completely agree jyothi di.
Iam really proud of shivani today.she simply proved that one should not continuously be a victim and now its raghus turn.let him feel the void in his life without shivani.till now shivani has been close to raghu and raghu dint feel that void.now its high time that she gives a reality check to him.its even good for him too.he should realise his feelings towards her which his mind is not ready to accept.So now RaShi are divorced so when raghu finally confesses his feelings to shivani will we get a marriage track.hope we get a grand one..wanted to see RaShi doing all rasams




I m happy finally they r officially divorced ... at least the whole I m your wife rant and I m your naukar rant will go away and now when they come together , it will b purely because of love and not any relationship burden 😳

I want Raghu to feel that void in his life now when Shivani wont b 24/7 around him but will spend more time with Karan ... Raghu should start missing her now .. I would hv preferred if Shivani left the house actually but then CVs want RaShi to stay under one roof for some reason .. so well


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanitha7

'for ur post & Mansi she really steal the showšŸ‘

Loved Raghu genuinely he was thinking how he is going to cope without
Shivani his eyes were wet that's love Raghu
Wait for ME šŸ˜‰ What store for us



yeah he just could not stop his tears thinking about his life without babyji .. he even said what m I gonnna do without u babyji ... and then he says its not love šŸ˜‰šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Latha.I



really I don't understand...when a man refuses a women...sympathy goes for her...but when a girl refuses a boy...it is like that boy is a goon...trying to spoil the girls life...


even I saw a little biased discussion here from yest epi...I totally agree that sumi was very cheap in yest epi ranting abt her SR...which never happened...she has used valgur language agree..that is her standard...she comes from a low class...as per her class she talked...



I think that's what life is about... certain things women do seem more acceptable than if a man does the same thing...

We teach boys to respect women and when she says no it means no...

I mean had it been the other way round where raghu had fallen for shivani and shivani refusing then we would have said that raghu should respect shivani decision and not force but as it's the other way round, so it's different...

I don't think anyone really understood where raghu came from and where his fears lied... even Bela too did not understand his hesitation and supported shivani... I am not saying it's wrong but someone neutral would have been good for both shivani and raghu...

I think shivani is not such a saintly female lead as we are used to seeing so it's natural to always defend the female lead... but shivani has her faults which I think most accept...

Also raghu too has made a blunder in this whole sumi fiasco but if we can see if when shivani makes a blunder as human tendency then raghu too is human... so both have faults...

Like how karan is being piggy in the middle of rashi. ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Latha.I

nice post jo...nice epi too...

so finally shivani realized there is no place for her in the house... yes she is strong and need to leave now...

yup Latha agree with you.. Shivani has to be strong and leave Raghu's house..

I'm liking the way the cv's showing the decency of Raghu and arrogance of shivani from the beginning of the show...

even Raghu was humiliated to the core...and was taken to the edge of his death by shivani...but when he came back he forgave her so decently without one single harsh word...either by him or by his family... and that too when he is totally not at fault...

Hmm.. well.. Raghu's family did blame Shivani, especially after fire stunt.. but agree that Raghu was very forgiving to Shivani.. šŸ‘

here also it's not his crime not able to love shivani...or not able to realize his love...but shivani is looking at him like a criminal...

he also bought divorce papers and asked very politely and decently to sign the papers...did not throw on her face...but shivani showed her arrogance again...

Don't agree with you here.. when Raghu brought the divorce papers he was still in servant mode.. he wanted to remove himself from her life.. Shivani on the other hand, has accepted Raghu with her heart and soul... which he shattered to pieces ... .. a broken-hearted person is well-justified in showing anger and lashing out.😭. it would be too strange it she was cool with Raghu-Sumi marriage..

yes Raghu did marry sumi without telling to anyone...but at least he is faithful enough to tell sumi that it is fake...the main person whom he is faking with knows it...

Raghu is not marrying for the sake of Sumitra, but for the sake of Shivani.. the main person for whom he is faking is Shivani and she DOESN'T know it..

shivani disclosed to the whole world...but to the main person to whom she should be faithful with karan for the rest of life...is not aware that for her that marriage will also be fake...well he have to understand here that she said everything just to hurt Raghu...šŸ¤”...she is clearly fooling karan...

Yup.. this is true.. right now Shivani is not looking at Karan's feelings at all.. šŸ˜•.. I hope she makes her feelings clear to him in the coming episodes...😲

I know no one like this post of mine...since shivani is in grief...we have to stand for her show sympathy...for her...that's the thumb rule here...find fault with men...and spare the women...

Disagree with you here.. during MU track everyone was supporting Raghu...

I would call shivani strong...if she had walked out of the house taking Raghu's sign...and did not express openly her defeat in hands of sumi...as an anger towards Raghu...

I don't think not able to love a person just because they r loving us...or not able to realize our won feelings is a crime...anyhow...this is just my POV...
Agree.. its not a crime to not return someone's love..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Latha.I

nice post jo...nice epi too...

so finally shivani realized there is no place for her in the house... yes she is strong and need to leave now...

I'm liking the way the cv's showing the decency of Raghu and arrogance of shivani from the beginning of the show...

even Raghu was humiliated to the core...and was taken to the edge of his death by shivani...but when he came back he forgave her so decently without one single harsh word...either by him or by his family... and that too when he is totally not at fault...

here also it's not his crime not able to love shivani...or not able to realize his love...but shivani is looking at him like a criminal...

Latha the criminal thing happened because of the way he suddenly married Sumi and brought her home which is too much to take for any married woman ... yes I know she only kept this bet but mayb she thought Raghu will at least inform her before marrying Sumi instead of sudenly going and doing this act ... .. Also today when Shivani declares her marriage with Karan , we saw Raghu remained quiet and so it looked as if its Shivani's wish when reality is its Raghu's wish .. Shivani could hv told all in his family how Raghu wanted this but she dint because she does not want to make Raghu look like a villain in front of all , end result Ginni misunderstood Shivani thinking she snatched away Karan from her when reality is her own brother wanted this ...

So though Shivani's nature might still come out looking like a malkin but no way she wants to present Raghu as culprit when it comes to her marriage with Karan .. she made it look like its her decision ..


he also bought divorce papers and asked very politely and decently to sign the papers...did not throw on her face...but shivani showed her arrogance again...

I see it more as her hurt .. a person who repeatedly got rejection in love will act frustrated .. Raghu is yet to go through that kind of rejection from a woman because he is yet to fall in love with anyone , the day he falls for Shivani and gets rejection in return , will he still act decently , remains to b seen šŸ¤”

yes Raghu did marry sumi without telling to anyone...but at least he is faithful enough to tell sumi that it is fake...the main person whom he is faking with knows it...

shivani disclosed to the whole world...but to the main person to whom she should be faithful with karan for the rest of life...is not aware that for her that marriage will also be fake...well he have to understand here that she said everything just to hurt Raghu...šŸ¤”...she is clearly fooling karan...

I agree here .. I wish Shivani clears it out with Karan and does not go around playing with his emotions ..

I know no one like this post of mine...since shivani is in grief...we have to stand for her show sympathy...for her...that's the thumb rule here...find fault with men...and spare the women...

I for once believe both r at fault ... Shivani still carries the malkin attitude somewhere and Raghu wants to b the decider of everyone's life ,.. but thats the beauty of this show .. none is perfect here

I would call shivani strong...if she had walked out of the house taking Raghu's sign...and did not express openly her defeat in hands of sumi...as an anger towards Raghu...

hmm I agree here but then again CVs want to keep RaShi under one roof for some reason .. so well šŸ˜•

I don't think not able to love a person just because they r loving us...or not able to realize our won feelings is a crime...anyhow...this is just my POV...

of course its not a crime .. but if u dont realise your feelings or dont love the person who loves u , at least set her free without setting any conditions on her .. I would hv preferred if Raghu left the choice of marrying Karan on Shivani instead of indirectly pushing her towards him in reunion party and then declaring it to her as his ultimate wish šŸ¤” ... Shivani too should not hv gone with that silly condition either ..

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