Kudos to Shivani today *Claps* - Page 6

Originally posted by: Latha.I

@ Jyothi...

Its about POV ... just how u feel Raghu dint intend to make it a real marriage and so now he should not b forced to accept this marriage , same way others feel Raghu did put sindoor and managalsutra knowing well that those r part of real marriage rituals only and not fake , yet he did it all and so now he should take the responsibility ... the point is if the marriage was for name sake , then he could hv well did the fake act with Shivani like he did with Sumi today without going through those real rituals.. why go through whole sindoor and mangalsutrra rituals with Shivani that time ? noone put a gun on his head to do all that na ...

Agree that Raghu did put sindoor and mangalsutra and they both had the marriage as per all required rituals...the same applies to shivani also she also went through all those rituals... but she did give value to marriage and accepted it as real only after she fell in love with Raghu...all the time after marriage when she is in Raghu's house she did not act as a bahu she was in a malkin mode only thinking that she will go back to haveli in couple of days...even in MU track she never considered R as Hub...she always treated him as naukar...only...and even worst than that...

Raghu also will give respect to marriage only after he falls in love with her...y are we looking at both of them differently here?...she can give value to marriage only after she is in love but Raghu should be a Husband and should take her responsibility even if he is not n love with her...not fair...R always respected her and treated her as malkin...coz he always considered himself as her naukar...he can treat her as wife only when he falls in love with her...

I never really said that .. in fact I hv same opinion too that Raghu should value this marriage only after he truely believes that he is in love from his heart .. I never wanted him to accept this marriage out of force or any other factor and I still stick with it

my point is simple .. Shivani is at fault then Raghu is not innocent too .. both hv their share of flaws in the past and present ... Shivani forcing her love on him using the marriage factor was wrong and I hv always opposed it ... similarly Raghu trying to decide Shivani's fate with someone else using the whole Maliksa promise factor is also wrong

For me both stand at crossroads and flawed in their POVs

and R going through all those rituals is not wish it's malkin's order...becasue she needs her property at that time...for that the marriage should be legal...for shivani at that time it is not saving herself from Abhi but it is to save her property she used him... now also she is doing the same thing...in her anger against Raghu she is using Karan...she has an option of refusing the marriage with karan then y is she not doing it...for shivani marriage is never a respectable thing...she is just using it...as a weapon...

here as per Raghu who was his boss mainly when daaju was alive 🤔 .. I m sure Maliksa is his first boss and then comes babyji as he himself said maliksa used to pay him and she was his job .. thats where the question arises that how he went by his malkin's orders which was indirectly going against his maliksa ... a loyal practical servant will do things as per his maliksa's wish without feeling emotionally for anyone but here Raghu did hv the emotional feel for Shivani reason why he listened to her orders and went for the marriage to protect her from Abhi knowing well that by doing this he might loose Maliksa's trust and his job forever ...

And yup Shivani has a choice to back out from the marriage but so did Raghu months back during Abhi's case .. he went ahead still to protect Shivani and here she is going ahead to keep Raghu's promise

at least with sumi R never kept sindoor and mangalsutra for real...but went is going to all through those rituals for the 2nd time...she needs to respect the concept of marriage 1st and then stop using men for her own goals...

I m not sure I agree to this .. Raghu always had a choice to back out that time during Abhi case but he dint ...

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Originally posted by: jyoti06

@Latha : I do agree with your points about that time Raghu did save Shivani from Daaju's anger by himself taking all the beating from his Maliksa but yet Shivani was shown the door along with Raghu .. in this case Shivani never told anyone that Raghu selected Karan for her but took it on herself because of which Ginni will turn against Shivani now .. I guess thats where the favour talks came from 🤔

Though in my opinion I feel both dint do any favour on each other .. their weaknesses as human got to them ..simple 😆

Originally posted by: Latha.I

yeah...looks like this ME is going to take Ginni and karan track forward...unless there is a improvement in that track we cannot really consider ginni's anger on shivani a big thing...it can always end up like a teenage crush...but CV's r taking that track forward... so only I thought shivani should have added that small sentence wile giving back mangalsutra to R she should have told him...as per u r wish I'm marrying karan...

Originally posted by: jyoti06

True .. it would hv saved another character becoming a villain 😆

but today it might happen when Karan and Raghu will clash or Raghu might ask Shivani not to marry Karan and then Shivani might say I m doing it as per your wish only and then Ginni can overhear it because in spoiler pic it does look as if Ginni is overhearing their confrontation 🤔