Is it Love or Attraction or Loyalty from Raghu ?

Originally posted by: rekrn

Wonderful post Jyoti

I think it is a combination of Attraction and Loyalty, it is not love from Raghu's standpoint yet.

Yes I agree in this case .. I feel even if its love but its not the typical ishq wala love yet but more of respect wala love

Agree Raghu is attracted to her and has been since the beginning. They both have been attracted to each other. They always had a special bond and deep liking for each other. It was obvious when Raghu brought about Abhi's true nature to Shivani, she didn't believe it but she was deeply hurt that Raghu was the one that blamed Abhi... don't think she would have been so upset if it was someone else.

Yess whenever Raghu did something , we hv seen Shivani feels affected the most and whenever Shivani asked Raghu to do something wrong (for example joker act) , Raghu felt deeply hurt .. so there is that underlying connection and emotional attachment between both 😳

After Shivani realized the truth about the MU between them, that is when she started questioning why he did what did, why did it effect her. When she was talking to Meghna, she was the one that made Shivani realize that she is in love with Raghu, she even denied it and then slowly accepted.

Yeah and I remember Meghna even told her Raghu is in love with u after joker act ... so somewhere Meghna too did put in her head that he loves her ... and when a third person can feel it matlab there is definitely something between both that is special 😳

Too me the taxi ride after the picnic when Raghu to himself was saying if anything would have happened shows that now he slowly opening up his heart. So maybe like Meghna helped Shivani admit her feelings maybe someone will do the same for Raghu, and I'm thinking it just might be Latha.
He values her opinion very much and may really listen deep down to what she has to say.

Yes Raghu needs a friend or some guide in his life who can make him see things beyond his duty and promises ... Bela did but because she is younger to Raghu , so it dint hv much effect .. he needs advice from someone who is either his buddy , that is same age grp or someone who is elderly like his mother mayb 🤔

I too want Shivani to make Raghu realize his feeling for her as a woman and not with using the "wife" status all the time, because she is just pushing him away IMO. Like the TUG-OF-WAR game they played at the picinic don't use this type of gimmick to get Raghu, one time Sumi wins, then Shivani. She is not even trying to expose Sumi, she is just letting her play her games and fortunately something happens that SUmi's plans eventually fail. She needs to stop thinking that this is a true marriage, because When they got married the commitment factor was not in play, they did it to protect Shivani and the understanding was it was fake. That's why Raghu doesn't consider her is wife. So she needs to understand that and not use the "wife' tag as her right to him..he doesn't feel that way. As a woman she needs to make him realize that what he feels for her is more than Duty

I guess exposing Sumi is never her priority mayb because she feels If Raghu accepts his feelings , then Sumi automatically will b out of picture ... thats where Shivani got to make attempts to make sure Raghu accepts his ffeelings instead of running away from it and the only way she can do this is by trying to win him as a woman first and not a wife ... let him fall for her naturally without any marital or other pressures ... 😳

Originally posted by: poiu123

Beautifully expressed and very nice pics. Attraction, loyalty and liking - Raghu has all these feelings for Shivani. But its love too and a very different kind of love I feel. This love is not accompanied by a desire to own. Its not a head over heels kind of love. Its a selfless kind of love in which the thing that matters most in the world is that one person's happiness.
i have a feeling that even when Raghu realises his love he will still try to hide it and still not want to make shivani his own.
Because he will think she cannot b happy with him in the long run.
I think this is the case becoz when raghu had brought ice cream for shivani , he had said, he always wants to see her happy. If she is sad then he feels that something is notcorrect.something he is doing wrong. And he is unable to explain it he said. These are very deep feelings.
What can one call this ? I am not sure.
if some has seen the movie rab ne bana di jodi, when tani tells suri she can never love him. The only thing suri wants is to
get back her smile , remove all her sorrows and make her life beautiful again and he was ready to do watever it takes for that minus any expectations at his end I think this is sumwhat similar.