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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sorry Guys because of lack of time I watched yesterday episode, today.
Talking about the precap where Bella pick up the mangalsutra of Shivani and told her off that she should respect it at least till she gets her divorce and she was in her sense while marrying...
Did you feel bad for Shivani???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nope did not see the precapšŸ˜•
Bela is talking sense , shivani can't just use Raghu like a tissue paper😔,

show him some respect girl, he is your legally married hubbyšŸ˜† not your grandad,s assistant😔

Well ! Raghu does not give her chance to think anyway beyond that with his ho jayeega Babyji 🤣

Was wondering if shivani did say " Raghu Mujhe pati chahiye " would he blindly say " ho jayeega babyji"🤣🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: brat2008

Nope did not see the precapšŸ˜•

Bela is talking sense , shivani can't just use Raghu like a tissue paper😔,

show him some respect girl, he is your legally married hubbyšŸ˜† not your grandad,s assistant😔

Well ! Raghu does not give her chance to think anyway beyond that with his ho jayeega Babyji 🤣

Was wondering if shivani did say " Raghu Mujhe pati chahiye " would he blindly say " ho jayeega babyji"🤣🤣
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@ Bold just like it...šŸ‘šŸ‘
I also did not feel bad because if an European girl is married to a man born outside her country slowly she also adapts to all the rituals and customs. Here being an Indian Shivani is acting as
someone who does not know what are the rituals and customs of her own country.. she does not know the value of any festivals nor a marriage so what does she know??

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Posted: 11 years ago
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A little bit.but i think she deserves it..actually iam quite happy that atleast bela has opened up.waiting for tonights episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i did not feel bad for shivani.
what bella was said made complete sense.

shivnai may not acccept the marriage as a real one butthe truth of the mateer is that she and raghu are married. the rituals were completed.

the sindoor and mangal sutra are very important. i agree with bela for scolding her. she should scold raghu a well fro taking baby ji's side..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Jenelle--

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3" color="#00cc00">i did not feel bad for shivani.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3" color="#00cc00">what bella was said made complete sense.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3" color="#00cc00">shivnai may not acccept the marriage as a real one butthe truth of the mateer is that she and raghu are married. the rituals were completed.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3" color="#00cc00">the sindoor and mangal sutra are very important. i agree with bela for scolding her. she should scold raghu a well fro taking baby ji's side..</font>

no jen i cant bear people scolding raghu
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very gud post šŸ‘ nope dint feel bad for shivani ,she is being really a brat n unreasonable n Bela was ri8 šŸ‘..someone should show her the mirror n make her understand that she is using Raghu like a doormat n is like punishing him for his loyalty .😔May be she is not doing it intentionally but she has to understand the truth n realize she is actually married n now she is a DIL n a wife ,though its temporary.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: heera1702

Very gud post šŸ‘ nope dint feel bad for shivani ,she is being really a brat n unreasonable n Bela was ri8 šŸ‘..someone should show her the mirror n make her understand that she is using Raghu like a doormat n is like punishing him for his loyalty .😔May be she is not doing it intentionally but she has to understand the truth n realize she is actually married n now she is a DIL n a wife ,though its temporary.

Good answer.She should be shown the mirror instead of being kept at the back.
Yes she's using him now if she gives it a thought why should Raghu do all what she wants he's no more working in her family so why is he doing all what she wants...
Shivani has no money has no place to stay but still she wants to rule.
You can't say that she's not understanding what she's doing because initially she was understanding everything well now she turns out to be too demanding.
Excuse me she does not know the value of a wedding she thinks it is a sort of game when she wants and feels like she just enter into the character of a wedded woman and when she's in no mod she just say the wedding was fake if so she should not have called the priest to celebrate the wedding.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think I felt bad but I can understand both of their views.

Bella's is right that Shivani and Raghu are married therefore she should respect all the customs that come with it. When Raghu and Shivani came back to his house they gave the impression to the family that they were going to stay together until the divorce so in front of society she should respect the customs . It's her brother and I think her and Raghu are close and she doesn't want any bad thought about him.

But in Shivani's mind she doesn't think of Raghu's as her husband it was a marriage of circumstance and at the present it is fake. Therefore these symbols don't mean anything to her currently, once she accepts Raghu as her husband she will wholeheartedly keep all the rituals of a wife.

In my opinion Since Rashi have decided to stay together and not dissolve the marriage in front of society they should keep up appearances. I just want the CV's now to show Shivani's slow growth, instead of showing her naivete all the time.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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No not feeling bad...
Bella being the sis of R is only one in that family (of course mom too) who is really concerned for R...his emotions and future...and given her character I don't think she can react more smoothly...her outbreak is more of her love for her brother rather than being angry on shivani...


and as for S...she has grown up such a way...that she doesn't understand anything apart from Daju's love...and she seems to still think of R as a servant...and for her this marriage is just a small act of escaping from abhi...and nothing more...once she said to panna thai...that if her mother is there then she would have explained her abt the rituals and meanings of marriage...

there need to be some one who can bring her to reality and understand what she has done in the name of escaping from abhi...to make understand the word "marriage" and what it means...yes maybe Bella is going to be the 1st person to seed in her the feelings for R...

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