Bhabo is the only one to be blamed??? - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know why Sandy loves Bhabo so much. It has never been logically explained or justified. It's just a fact of the show and so Suraj's love of Bhabo is far easier to understand.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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^^Amma, may be because that she lost her mother. Sandy is kind of a person who depends upon her fate when she is emotionally drained. They say, a lie becomes a truth when it is repeated a hundread times. Also there had been instances when Bhabho showered her all love over Sandy, long back, before the IPS dream track started.

May be that Bhabho trusts Sandy & she doesn't want to break that trust. (Don't ask me why she never does the same with her husband. That is still a mystery).

It can also be that she is just following the typical indian tradition of believing, loving and respecting elders in every sense.

She loved her own mother a lot and for a person like Sandy, it would be difficult to hurt another mother in name of whatever it is.

After all Bhabho is very weak by heart, though she never shows it outside. Sandy knows it well.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jam, perfect analogy for Bhabho and her children.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: b2011

Jam, perfect analogy for Bhabho and her children.

thank you akka.🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
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OMG Shirin inna lamba Bhashan woh bhi Bhabo pay 😲
pehlay batao where had u disappeared 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post
all the comments are 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Jamy-

^^Amma, may be because that she lost her mother. Sandy is kind of a person who depends upon her fate when she is emotionally drained. They say, a lie becomes a truth when it is repeated a hundread times. Also there had been instances when Bhabho showered her all love over Sandy, long back, before the IPS dream track started.

May be that Bhabho trusts Sandy & she doesn't want to break that trust. (Don't ask me why she never does the same with her husband. That is still a mystery).

It can also be that she is just following the typical indian tradition of believing, loving and respecting elders in every sense.

She loved her own mother a lot and for a person like Sandy, it would be difficult to hurt another mother in name of whatever it is.

After all Bhabho is very weak by heart, though she never shows it outside. Sandy knows it well.


Yes all valid explanations and probably all true but true according to us. We end up writing the back story for Sandy bitiya. Only one thing I'm certain of, she has a loyalty to Bhabo that surpasses that of Suraj's sense of duty. It's fierce and I wouldn't want to mess with it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks 4 all wonderful comments... 🤗 Missed u all... 🤗 About my disappearance... Well dont have the enthusiasm like b4 for the serial... 🤔 But watching it still... Became a habit I guess...

Its not only DABH.. All hindi serials I watched... They always shows the leads unnecessary mahan n smiling n enduring while tortured... Well most of the time its saas who is torturing the bahu... I believe the whole industry is giving the audience a wrong msg... I am not against showing bad things happening to the women cause in real life they do happen... But I have problems when they show instead of taking a strong step they choose to remain silent... Thats frustrating to watch...!!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Too much intimidation from babu the bully.. she a b...
Edited by telenovelle - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice to see you back Shirin. Forum is back with a bang!
I think Sandy felt guilty early on when she was lying to bhabho. Bhabho always had the aura of honesty and truthfulness then. Suraj putting her on a pedestal also added to the aura for Sandy. Then she tried also to find her lost mother in her.
You have to love your family unconditionally but to turn blind to their faults is wrong. Suraj has taken this big step now although him saying he would be back in 15 days is not helping Bhabho correct her faults. Her ego still remains sky high. Suraj being indifferent might only make her think twice. Yes, to answer your question, Suraj is equally to blame. But he can't help it. He sees only the good in everyone in his family.

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