Sandhya... in my eyes!!!! - Page 2

Nice post and I absolutely agree with you. She is a very clever girl and nothing can be hidden from her for so long. But the bad thing about Sandy is she always takes the blame for someone else's crime.

After two of the matkas broke she does know that it was because of Emily and Chavi they broke and she does have proof against them but she didn't tell the family!

Sandy is a very truthful girl and she is a very nice girl but she always takes the blame for someone elses crime! She shouldn't be doing this.

Umdu ji, u have stated exactly my sentiments and concerns regarding sandhya n this IPS dream!

her emotional fragility, letting few matters/crimes under law committed by family members slide, tolerating domestic violence n bhabo's emotional n mental toture... these have been my concerns as law enforcement dsnt have any place for these emotions!

furthermore, suraj's vow of non-consummation! husband-wife relation n physical intimacy is an extension of expressing love for ur partner!

why treat this as some kinda deal that suraj will help/support sandy pursue her dream, sandy becomes IPS, N THEN WHAT? seal d deal n consummate?

iv still to see sandy take 1st step towards suraj without hesitating/running away on some pretext!
these long eyelocks n romance wit channa, rice etc is so unrealistic!

does sandy not realise importance of spousal relation?

Originally posted by: kritikakk

Umdu ji, u have stated exactly my sentiments and concerns regarding sandhya n this IPS dream!

her emotional fragility, letting few matters/crimes under law committed by family members slide, tolerating domestic violence n bhabo's emotional n mental toture... these have been my concerns as law enforcement dsnt have any place for these emotions!

yes, we all do take time to sit back, reflect, n decide matters of priorty to us!

but in sandya's case she has be oscillating like a pendulum, she lacks assertiveness n is indecisive!
i personally didnt like her dropping her IPS dream of her parents, but i did understand her responsibilities as a bahu, so i overlooked it!
but sandy hasnt done this just once for me to be able to ignore always!

like u said, i also want sandy to get assertive, stand her ground, ignore all emotional toture, n stick to IPS!

Originally posted by: kritikakk

furthermore, suraj's vow of non-consummation! husband-wife relation n physical intimacy is an extension of expressing love for ur partner!

why treat this as some kinda deal that suraj will help/support sandy pursue her dream, sandy becomes IPS, N THEN WHAT? seal d deal n consummate?

iv still to see sandy take 1st step towards suraj without hesitating/running away on some pretext!
these long eyelocks n romance wit channa, rice etc is so unrealistic!

does sandy not realise importance of spousal relation?

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@kritaak Sandhya didnt know that it was Sooraj's dream to see her IPS before second MP. Till that point Sooraj was a husband who was supporting her dream , a dream her parents has seen for her. She had every right to break that dream as it was hers alone.

But what Sandhya didnt anticipate at 2nd MP was that along the journey of supporting her , somewhere along Sandhya becoming IPS became Sooraj's dream.

He tells her that only in ghat after 2nd MP, at that point 2nd MP was done and dusted with. Now Sandhya is clear that if she will become IPS it will be for him only.

If she gives in to emotional blackmail that result in 3rd MP , then we can say she gave importance to Bhabo over Sooraj.

I agree great observation and so true Sandhya takes too much blame on herself ppl always take her for granted, but with a husband like Sooraj she is sure to succeed and go far

@NeelMon.. cvs protray sandya as a person with genius IQ in studies n mystery solving, but at domestic n marital matters she is apperently very niave n has mind of a toddler and cant do anythg right!

sure may be some girls like that, my own example, my family never felt need to teach me domestic chores, i was 21 when i went overseas alone to study n cldnt even boil an egg literally! but you know, i learnt everythg the hard way, thru trial and error!
sandy atleast has suraj who helped her to learn cooking!

furthermore NeelMon, if u read my previous comments above! iv clearly stated sandhya needs to strengthen up n start standing her ground, way she is right now, i cant see her as police officer!
she is too fagile emotionally n wil never survive in service as law enforcment is cutthroat!

yes, sometimes i do feel sandy takes adv of suraj's love n support, she never broached sub of suraj's vow, just accepted it!

birth control wont be shown again by cvs, they used it on meena, such a waste in social msg