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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Hiral ji's comments--Makes complete sense. I can never get over two Suraj scenes.They fit your explanation so very well. The first one when he runs around on roads trying to find out why Sandhya's photo is in the paper and the way he feels being betrayed and helpless and the second one when he sees the divorce papers and imagines how much his life is filled of Sandhya during the shinjara nite. They moved me.

And now We are back with the Suraj we love and adore!! Haappy days are here again!⭐️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I absolutely love your post npk... Its no secret i love surajg too... How do i love thee? You have counted the ways...But just to put things in perspective and to not let myself be carried away, let me tell myself a few of his teeny weeny flaws too 😆... Occasionally dopey ( but this so cute), near worhips his mom ( but stands up to her when its important), repeatedly covers up for his sly siblings ( but is wise to their kartoots too), he puts his wife on an impossibly high pedestal ( yet will gently correct her like he did today)Like it or not, he will always be less knowledgable about academics than sandy, but this is peanuts...HEY! Wait a minute, i'm supposed to be listing his weaknesses not his strengths!

I guess the main kami in surajg is that he gives too little importance to his own needs ( except for shaving, he gives his 110% attention to that 😆)... It is as important to think of one's own reasonable needs as much as others... I remember when he told chhotu his dreams of marriage , they were mostly of bhabho's happiness not his own...or maybe he didnt want to share them with a 10 yr old... But he does seek romance advice from him... A little bit of his growth was stunted when he took up responsibilities of a grown adult at 14... Koi baat nahi, he can take up those romantic dreams of holding hands where he left them all those yrs ago with sandy... But he is surrounded by such strong women like bhabho and sandy that he needs to do something for himself too to be in balance...

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Not that he is weak... He has such strength... It's the easiest thing in the world to throw tantrums or sit around saying woe is me... Some of it is his nature: Bhabho's decency and work ethic but thankfully not her dramatics, babasa's love of peace... Some of it is the diamond being formed under pressure... Some girls like bad boys but i love good guys... And surajg, you are the goodest and best!!!❤️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyaalex8

I absolutely love your post npk... Thankoo Navy 😊 Its no secret i love surajg too... How do i love thee? You have counted the ways...But just to put things in perspective and to not let myself be carried away, let me tell myself a few of his teeny weeny flaws too 😆... Occasionally dopey ( but this so cute), near worhips his mom ( but stands up to her when its important), repeatedly covers up for his sly siblings ( but is wise to their kartoots too), he puts his wife on an impossibly high pedestal ( yet will gently correct her like he did today)Like it or not, he will always be less knowledgable about academics than sandy, but this is peanuts...HEY! Wait a minute, i'm supposed to be listing his weaknesses not his strengths! Yeah,you started with trying to list his weeknesses but ended up doing the other way round..koi baat na hai,It's about Suraj afterall!😆


I guess the main kami in surajg is that he gives too little importance to his own needs ( except for shaving, he gives his 110% attention to that 😆)... It is as important to think of one's own reasonable needs as much as others... I remember when he told chhotu his dreams of marriage , they were mostly of bhabho's happiness not his own...or maybe he didnt want to share them with a 10 yr old... But he does seek romance advice from him... Yeah,there were moments when I thought how can anyone be soo selfless and had started to doubt if I would ever like Suraj.But he removed all such doubts by helping Sandy complete the sweets in muh-dikhai rasam.His selflessness is one of his major weeknesses.I agree. A little bit of his growth was stunted when he took up responsibilities of a grown adult at 14... Koi baat nahi, he can take up those romantic dreams of holding hands where he left them all those yrs ago with sandy... But he is surrounded by such strong women like bhabho and sandy that he needs to do something for himself too to be in balance... You said it all. He is surrounded by Bhabho or lets say Sandy Sr on one side and Sandy or lets say Bhabo jr on other.Will be interesting to see how will be go ahead and maintain his identity.

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Not that he is weak... He has such strength... It's the easiest thing in the world to throw tantrums or sit around saying woe is me... Some of it is his nature: Bhabho's decency and work ethic but thankfully not her dramatics, babasa's love of peace... Some of it is the diamond being formed under pressure... Some girls like bad boys but i love good guys... And surajg, you are the goodest and best!!!❤️ ⭐️🤗

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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏 Excellent post.
Suraj is what first attracted me to this show. Never have I seen a male lead this pure and good-hearted. Normally you have the maahan girl and the angry young man. But here it was the opposite.
What can I say, you've analyzed him perfectly. He's just 😍. (and no i'm not just talkiing about his handsome looks 😆 those are just icing on the cake! 👍🏼)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Priya-Thanko,glad you liked my post 😊 Suraj is just😍
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well written post Naina... You have described the man Suraj is and what he is to his family members...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Naina...what a post yaar...i saw it and the first thing that came to mind was omg itna lambha...but once i started reading i just kept going...

suraj - u described him perfectly - i have nothing more to add... he is by far the most interesting male lead on indian tv - he has numerous shades all of which just leave us in awe...and like u aptly titled - asking is he for real 😍
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Juna04 -- Thank you Juna,glad you enjoyed my post.😊

@Sidra-- I didn't myself realize the post was this big until I saw it after I posted Sidra.😆I still have soo much to say and talk about Suraj and his love for his mother,family and Sandhya! But glad that you made it to the end!😆
Edited by nkp007 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post Naina!
I was trying to wean off of IF for a bit, but all these SurYa scenes, Sidra becoming DOTW and your great post have lured me back I am afraid! I think it is futile to resist this till I know what is gonna happen with SurYa!😆
You have described Suraj to a T. Although this show is supposed to be about Sandy, I hope Suraj is inspring young men to be more like him too!
I think also that Suraj loves his family and the people he cares about unconditionally. From the moment he got engaged to sandy, he completely accepted her as his own and started loving her that way too.😃 How lucky is she?
There are guys like Suraj for real too!. I am lucky enough to be married to one like him. I know from personal experience that men like Suraj, nice as they are, do command respect and care from their wives and people around them from the sheer goodness of their nature. Sandy is already showing signs of it - ( What a precap for the next episode 😃). I hope she will not torment him much longer😆😆
Edited by dabhdeewani - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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naina... this is a block-buster post👏👏👏... unfortunately i missed it yesterday😭... you deeply understood him... now I dont need to tell anything more on this as u already did it... ❤️I read it a couple of times & replying now... each and every word you said is so true... Im speechless...


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