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Posted: 18 years ago
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actuall she is pissed at him because the thought of lossing him would kill her! She mad because she loves him and to think he could have been shot 😳 😳

She right to be protective over him as there are 2 in this relationship not just armaan

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veiledbeauty

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Yes, I totally agree with you, never been in such a situation, unless you count situations when your friend does something wrong and you try to correct them, but then they attack you and tell them to leave them alone 😡.

Their one of them seem to realize how much the other loves the other... They both just keep getting angry at each other all the time 😭 😭 😭

Zainab

I haven't either really...but yeah things like this can happen in any relationship....I think Armu's act is not neccessarily selfless just cuz he saved Muskaan, but not completely selfish either...I just think he needs to understand Ridz more!

thanx for responding Zainab! appreciate your thoughts keep them coming! 😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aliza*

Exactly...i agree...she didn't hav a valid reason to get angry like that na...it jus sounded so unjustified.........i thought she'd be proud of him....but it turned out something unexpected.😕..........the way she said it, didn't really show that she cared abt him....it was as if she didn't like the way he tried to become a superhero.

anyways, jus my opinion...i hope u guys don't take me wrong here...😛

I understand your perspective, but like Ridz said that there was another way to save Muskaan...so I think her anger is justified in that sense...and I think Armu is just saying sorry because she is upset...not because he understands...I hope he ends up understanding her point of view...that will make their love grow stronger!

And Please keep your thoughts coming. No offense taken. We all appreciate a good discussion! 😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonia_dmg

i think shes only angry cz she loves him... she was scared tht wht if anything happnd to him 😳 😳 😳

I agree! 😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: hira_786

well from my point of view.. i think wht Ridz did was right..
i mean like u said Shweta Armaan noes tht Ridz loves him but doenst know how much?? meinu vi oh hi lagda!
wah she did was right because she cares for him and dun want to loose him.."If I wud be at her place i wud have done da same thing.." me too I would get angry if my Dr. Armaan did that! And I wouldn't forgive him till he understood why I was upset! 😉
i noe Armaan also did the right thing to save Muskaan but he cud have done in another way..
U shud always thing bout negative side more then positive..
wah if Armaan got hurt.. cuz they had gun..

well thtz wah my opinion is
btw Shweta!!
nice topic yar...we all needed it😳 No problem thanks for participating in this discussion! I love you thoughts Hira darling! 😊

Lotssssa Luv:Hira😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: if.addict

shweta ji ikko hi lovelogy class vch inna improvemnet !!!
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Kanu ji tuade vargi teacher ho ve tha koi vi era ghera nathu kehra pyar di baasha sikh jave! 😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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ya ridz luv dis guy so she is angry bcooz he didnt thought of her b4 takin such step
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Posted: 18 years ago
#18
yaa ur rii shweta dii....if i wud be ridz i wud also be worried cuz i wud be like wht if he got hurt an wht if sumthin happened to muskaan..

very well said..an realli nice topic.😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

After today's episode I thought it would be nice discussion topic to have!

Time and time again we often find ourselves in a situation(like Armu's) where we have to save someone else from something, whatever it may be...often we think we are doing right, and usually at the spur of the moment we don't think of the consequences!

Well said Shweta Di. I agree we usually dont think at that time..but we usually tend to think it over later and wish to change everything!

Today's episode Ridz is angry with Armu because he risked both his life and Muskaan's life without thinking...Armu I don't think clearly understands why she is upset...

I actually think that Ridhima was afraid to loose Armaan..her life would be over without him!! You could just see how worried she was when the goon pointed his gun at Armaan..she was soo worried! Yes,I think Armaan doesn't understand that Ridhima is angry because she was afraid of loosing him..the poor guy is clueless!

I think Ridz anger is justified because there was another way out without risking lives...what do you think?

I thnk Ridhima's anger is justified..symoblizes how strong Ridhima's love for Armi is..it isn't weak anymore..is it? I dont think it is because if it was then her reaction would have been different..lol! But I totally think her anger is reasonable..she is expressing her grief through anger! Don't u think?

Also do you think Armu was only thinking about becoming a "Superhero" and saving Muskaan at the same time? Or should he have at least thought about Ridz, who loves him so much?

Nah..I don't think Armi was thinking of becoming a superhero..he was just thinking about his friend who was in trouble at the moment..if it was Ridhima then he would do the same..but perharps wouldn't dare rely on anyone else because she is his life! Yes Armi should have thought of how much Ridhima loves him..afterall it took a long time for her to realize the love blossoming inside her..when she did..he begins to basically lie to her..unwantingly it maybe! Also, he cares for her..but doesn't realize that her love matters a lot! He should..and everything would have been!

I think it's been shown so many times the extent that Armu loves Ridz, but I don't think he is fully aware of how MUCH Ridz loves him! what do you guys think?

I think the same..I don't think Armi realizes how MUCH Ridhima loves him..he is yet to realize it..maybe when he does he will think of her love before putting his life in peril and hurting her or himself anymore! It has been shown many times how much Armi loves Ridhima, but rarely shown how Ridhima loves Armi...this is the time when that will be shown and Armi will hopefully realize it!

Hey Shweta Di,

Great topic! Really enjoyed answering these questions..even if they made me think a bit!

love ya,

Kajal 😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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shweta tusi great ho! kinaa vaadyia topic banayaa tusi! shabash putaar! 👏

well i pretty much agree with everything you said 😆 we think so alike, seems like what i want to say, you say for me!!! bhot chaangi gaal aa

i too feel ridz is justified. i would be pissed off to if the man i loved so dearly risked his life like that. especially when the whole mess could have been solved without just jumping in like that! thats what the police are for!

and ridz even said on the bus, that they are new to the city and its late night, they should not take the risk. but armaan was being the macho man and said 'life mein kabhi kabhi risk lena chaaie'!!!! so he asked for it!

and wasnt he the one yesterday over reacting about ridz talking to rahul? wasnt that a silly reason to be mad? i think it was. so now ridz too has the right to be mad. i just hope her naarazgi doesnt stay for too long!

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