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Posted: 15 years ago
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@shimz - You don't move on in a day. It takes time. If Ridhima thinks about her ex after an intimate moment with her husband now, she won't after a month or so. The point here is - She is trying. Why don't you see that? Why would she put in so much effort to forget Armaan if she didn't want to in the first place? Oh let me guess, they're bonded by some sort of an imaginary kismat connection, right?

I said 'WE', not AR fans specifically. None of us are aware of what true love is.

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Posted: 15 years ago
#32
@Aish - Omfg where have u been? :O
I so agree with each and every word. I have nothing else to add to what you said. I'll just repeat what you said - Welcome to the real world!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: -Edelweiss-

Neetu meri bacchi...🤗 Kaisi hai tu??
Now that I am done with being weird, I shall comment on this topic, I just came on line after a few days and finally I see a decent topic of discussion in this forum, or else tau mostly its filled with AR=DMG, without AR=No Air, AR= eternal love and AR this and that. Yadi yada.. Jeez, I wonder if half of them even known what being in a relationship entails. I say relationship and not love, because there is no novelty in the word love, it's worn out; that word has become so saturated, its become stale. And love or being in a relationship does not mean having thousands of eye locks, or trip catch and fall routine every other day.

So back to topic in hand, Neetu, there is nothing called eternal love or tragic or legendary couples, it exists in books and movies. Neetu don't u know that this programme is way above the likes of classic literature, it is way more special and means much more than that, its a way of living for some. But jokes apart, its a blasphemy to compare this **** with the likes of Shakespeare and other classic literature. I pity people if they actually take this show to heart.

Neetu, I have always had problem with people when they use the word eternal, there is nothing forever in this world. And people do move on, they find love again, this funda about loving once is complete BS, if you don't succeed in a relationship first time around, why not give it a second try? If we can fall and get up again, why cant we move on?

And you're right, taking bullets for each other is not love, and since we are talking about realistic, I have seen many couples moving on coz for one reason or other their relationship didn't work out. So I don't suppose why they can't show that in the show. Why everybody is being so persistent in getting AR together, for god sake, they're a fictional couple. Move on...

Can't be bothered to type any more, lost my momentum now..blah blah.. but u know my thoughts about this locha called love.😆

Btw Neetu off topic, but you should definitely watch Rishta.com, if you don't. Its a freaking fabulous show, fab actors, concept and production value. I am sure you'll love it.

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Kambakht Ishq Hai Jo Sara Jahan Hai Woh
Kab Aata Hai Kab Jaata Hai
Par Rehta Hai Jab Tak Yeh Kambakht Jannat Dikhata Hai
Kambakht Ishq Hai Jo Sara Jahan Hai Woh
Kab Aata Hai Kab Jaata Hai
Hai yeh locha :P
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Posted: 15 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: -Edelweiss-

@Neetu: I am completely jhakaas (Anil Kapoor ishtyle..) lol. Sahi hai boss 😛

I wish everybody your age was as sensible as you, the world would have been such a wonderful place. But then again, this place would have been so dead..;) Free ka entertainment kaha se milta..lol. AR ki jai ho.. they give new meaning to love; their trip, fall catch routine has taught Ekta maiya so much as well. Don't you know?? AR are pyaar ke idols, their statues will be put out in lovers park to mark their eternal love.

🤣 LMFAO. Wait and watch Ekta Maiyya give birth to another AR in one of her trash shows. Everything will be the same, except of added effects - earthquake and freeze on faces, red flash and 'Kya ?' echoeing 1000 + times 😆
Haha. Armaan ka ek statue, aur Ridhima ke teen. 😆

Don't get me started on twilight, that is one other piece of rubbish and the eternal Ed-wella love I fail to see.
*Zips mouth* I wish I had never heard of trash called Twilight.

Neetu, ditto to everything you said, I guess we are the weird ones, who fail to see this mohabbat marne ke baad crap..its all about finding an individual who you form a good companionship with. There is nothing more than that..its companionship that one needs to maintain. We find a companion, if that doesn't work, we move on and find another compatible source. That is life..
Exactly. All you need is a companion who can understand you. There is nothing beyond that.

Noooo.. you have to watch R.com again, trust me, give it some time and you'll sure fall in love with. I swear I have never loved a fictional character as much as I love Rohan. He is such a sweet kamina.. and the show's ending soon. And I am upset, coz there is no second season.. damn you Sony Tv.
Okies. Me will watch it soon 😃

Neetu, I love seeing you around too. I love commenting your topics, its very hard to find decent topics around, whenever I am around.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#35
Don't say everyone moves on in real life too.
I have seen people who once loved someone dearly could not find the same feeling for any other person. To generalise moving on is not right.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36
awesome post ..i totally agree with you..😊

I truly believe that everyone deserve a second chance not only in love, but also in life and everything that related to it!..

people need to move on and have a fresh start whenever they are hurt!..and they should be forgiven if they did something wrong or took some wrong decisions..no body deserves to be hurt and punished forever..everyone has the right to be happy again and have something to look forward to..bottom line is everyone deserves to have a second chance..

anyways unlike you!..i don't believe that love is a fiction that exists in books or fairytales only..i do believe in true love!..it's a real feeling and it does exist in our world!..i have seen it so many times all around me!..

although it's hard to have one concept that explains love that everyone can agree on!..as we all have our own definition of love!..and we have our own ways to express our love!..but i am sure that we all would agree that love is something very beautiful..love is a divine feeling that bonds two hearts and souls and make them be one..

its the feeling that make you want to share the rest of your life with this person and him/her alone! its that deep and strong feeling that you have for someone, who you feel is very special to you..when you love someone you want to make them happy and you feel sad when they are sad and will do whatever it takes to make things better for them..love gives you the strength to overcome the hassles..and makes you face the ups and downs of life with more courage!

love just happens..it's beyond our control to choose when to fall in love or who to fall in love with!..it just happens!..but how to keep this love and how do we behave is totally in our control!..and here rises a question of right and wrong too!.. and when you love someone you got to love the whole package and that too unconditionally!

i believe that love can happen any time any age..and it can't be measured by time spent!..some times it takes you a long time to realize that you are actually in love with a person who you knew all of you life ..and other times it will take you just a little while to realize that you actually in love with someone who you just get to know!

people always get confused between love, crush/infatuation, admiration, and lust!..thats why they may think that they are in love with someone for long..and then when they find their true love they discover that it was mere an infatuation or a comfortable relationship of mutual interest or a convenient companionship that they shared all a long!..at least from their side thats why people break up even after so many years!

I find that the whole concept of one true love to be a myth!..because only some people are lucky enough to have one true love their whole life ..other might fall in love more then once!..and they move and life goes on..

the concept of second chance in love is something very special on its own, its unique..because its like a medicine to a heart that was broken before..it's a new hope for someone's shuttered dreams..it's like a bright sunshine that dissolves a dark night of bitterness!

some people believe it's much deeper, stronger, and more mature then the first love because they claim that the first love is always a mere crush or infatuation..

I beg to differ!..I don't think that the first love is always a crush!..sometimes people are lucky enough to have only one true love their whole life and they get to be with them for the rest of their lives ..

Other times they part due to circumstances beyond their control even if it was the love of their lives!..and then both find another person, whom they might love more or less as their first love..and they move on and life goes on..

however I agree that second love might be more mature because it's a second chance..so the person has grown a bit both physically and emotionally!...also because they must have learned a lesson or two from their past mistakes!..

p.s sorry for the long post😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: olive_green

Kambakht Ishq Hai Jo Sara Jahan Hai Woh
Kab Aata Hai Kab Jaata Hai
Par Rehta Hai Jab Tak Yeh Kambakht Jannat Dikhata Hai
Kambakht Ishq Hai Jo Sara Jahan Hai Woh
Kab Aata Hai Kab Jaata Hai
Hai yeh locha :P
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P.S. Neetz, I am not spamming your topic, just this one reply. Don't mind, majboori hain😆



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Nahin... u found me!!!
Ho nahin sakta.. ye ho nahin sakta..

I swear I was trying so hard to hide away from you, to just get caught in the act. *Hides her muh*

Ok ok... I am sorry *holds ear and does sit ups*, would 50 do??? *Pouts like a baby*...Is baar ke liye maaf kar de yaar.. I was suppose to comment, but I got busy here and then my mind is on a short vacation at the moment.. and I was being lazy as well.*sssshhhhh...'u weren't suppose to mention that'* Sowieee, bachche ki jaan mat lena pwease!!😳
I'll comment, this weekend, pakka.. I pwomise..pretty please...😭

Kya kya karna parta hai..😆 Jaan bachane ke liye..

PS: Neetu.. don't mind us!! It is my fault! We'll be off.


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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: rimitra

Don't say everyone moves on in real life too.

I have seen people who once loved someone dearly could not find the same feeling for any other person. To generalise moving on is not right.



true!!..and its really sad!!..and believe me these people will live a miserable life and die alone!!..thats why people should move on!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@aria and humz - u guys can spam as much as u want to in my topic. i'm not the one to go on a reporting spree. i've always maintained my distance from that button 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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completely agree. Despite the fact its a indian soap opra. Every show needs a realistic element to it. Marriage isn't a joke... and it was right for her to choose her marriage...

Like you said.. "moving on" isn't a bad thing. ITs not the end of the world. Mistakes happen and we learn from them.

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