The truth about Siddhima and AR (topic for all) - Page 7

Originally posted by: Kajenaliya

As everyone said
Sid did do a lot for Riddhima
I appreciate what he did
However Was he not the one who got Riddhima in this marriage mess in the first place
Anyways lets forget that
I think what happens in Dmg should not be forced If she loves sid and thinks she can stay with him her whole life and not think about armaan or be affected by him then good
If not then forget society

Originally posted by: mandy1024

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OK do you think it was Sid alone who was responsible for this mess?

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What about the countless times when Ridz humiliated him without bothering to give him a chance to explain himself? She humiliated him in public. Doesn't that count for anything? True he shouldn't have stooped to her level by taking those horrid pics but did he intend to put them all over Sanjeevani and make people say bad stuff about her? NO.He just wanted to get rid of seeing her face, so he wanted to threaten her. But when it did leek out bcoz of his friend's stupidity he had the guts to face everyone and tell the truth despite the fact that in doing so he might lose his friends. So y blame him? Also the hypothermia scenario it was Ridz who overreacted and messed up the situation. Even when Sid told her what her condition had been like couldn't she have given him a chance to explain rather than jumping to conclusions?

<div>But this is something most of the AR fans blissfully like to ignore. So according to most of you this marrriage was forced. But who really did force whom is something that even you guys need to think over before blaming a character point blank. Just becoz they showed 2 years of AR it doesn't mean that they should end up together no matter what the circumstances be. Then there's no point to the storyline itself. Even if it turns out be AR in the end the present circumstances should justify that and not the past.

Originally posted by: RandomSquared

I dont deny everything Sid has done for Riddhima. and to be honest when Armaan wasnt there I wasnt totally against Sid and Riddhima together either. Until their marriage since their marriage happened for all the wrong reasons (credit goes to Dr. Shashank). I do believe Riddhima had begun moving on in a sense with Sid, she accepted Armaan wasnt coming back and Sid is a good man. But I also believe its alot easier to move on when the person you love isnt there and all hopes of him returning are gone. But Armaan did come back. He recovered and came home.

Im not saying Riddhima couldnt have fallen for Sid. But with Armaan back and right there, I very honestly feel it is impossible for Riddhima to fall for Sid NOW. Because Armaan is back and with him all those emotions too. If you think of DMG from the begining, the love AR have is so strong, love like that doesnt fade. Esp when you have that person right there.

It not about who save who how many times because I mean riddhima would have died like long long ago back in the vicky days if Armaan hadnt saved her. But thats not the point, who you love doesnt have to do with who saved you. Armaan and Sid are both good men who saved Riddhima, good for them and she shud take self-defense classes. Riddhima didnt fall for Armaan because he saved her from stuff. But i do feel Riddhima feels like she owes her new life to Sid and so she should be with him, which again is the wrong reason to be with someone. And I just feel the SR relationship is so forced. First they get married for Shashank, and then are happy for like a week. Then Armaan comes back, and without Armaan even doing anything, the marriage begins to break. And now one has to admit that Armaan is literally holding this marriage together. Riddhima doesnt want a divorce, neither does Sid, but still they cant seem to make this marrige work. Armaan has to make a big game plan to get them to even talk to eachother. That just goes to show you that this marriage isnt working...which is practical considering this marriage never happened for the right reasons. Like if you think about it if Shashank hadnt ask for the 6 months and if Armaan was trying to get SR together, they would have just gotten divorced.

The whole foundation of SR marriage was that Armaan isnt coming back and so Riddhima has to move on, who better to move on with then Sid. But with Armaan back that foundation is broken and the marriage is bound to break. Its not anyone fault, thats just what happens when you do things for the wrong reasons.

Yes Armaan leaving left Riddhima broken. Her fathers lies left her broken. Sid helps put her back together but I still dont get why that suddenly results in Riddhima should be with Sid. Its not a trade off. The heart wants what it wants, and I truly feel Riddhims heart wants Armaan.

I hope this doesnt offend anyone. And I'd really like to say we all get frustrated, even me and say means things at times. But SR and AR fans admit that you both do it. Both fan groups get carried away with insecurity and say means things.

I don't deny Rid's love for Armaan. Not for second. But why do I feel people deny everything and anything related to Sid?? Riddhima preaches about Sid day and night. She has mentioned numerous times the only reason she is living today is Sid. Is it not possible to love a man who you care for the most, who you admire so much that he is the reason you live, the man whose feelings matter more than anything else', the man who you are very much attracted to that you don't want to see him with another woman? With all bias aside is it impossible for Rid to love Sid?

TM very good post you brought out both Ar ans Sr relationship very nicely.The last para 👏👏👏

Originally posted by: Kajenaliya

I was going to mention that but was lazy to edit
Anyways well Ya she made a big deal out of it
But she dint know what actually happened
Poor girl thought she was raped and when that happens you dont know how someone feels

Can you give me reasons to justify why she should choose Sid
Just because she and sid are married
Armaan-riddhima still love each other
Do not tell me Riddhima does not love him because it is visible in her eyes
As to marriage being forced it was society who forced it plus the picture thing added. riddhima was at fault also but some circumstances added to it but it was society

Originally posted by: lnmdjrocksss

Exactly!!!!u have said it all👍🏼

@TM

Though i disagree with ur POV,i have to say that it's a very well written post.

I have one question.....If someone(TM,AR,SR or neutral fans) could answers this please

Is it possible to completely forget a person whom u loved once....or does something like "loved once" actually exist.

I have never been in love.....so i really don't know what it feels like to be in love with a person and then lose that very person!!!!

I want to know from someone who has loved,lost and then got a second chance in love...Even if u have moved on,does ur feelings for that person die just like that?Is it possible to stop loving that person

This is a not something related to the show,it's a genuine question and i really want someone to answer this....need an honest answer

Sorry TM i know i'm going off the topic with my silly question