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Posted: 15 years ago
#71

i agree on one thing - riddhima has changed now.

its true sid saved her life, and thats why she exists. But its not a very valid reason for her to go back to him..
he's done a lot for her..but if she has to go back to him, it should be based on love, thats what i want!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#72
I Perfectly Agree with Perfangel5655.👏😃
Well If today Riddhima is living a new life,it's only coz of Sid.
Riddhima's Smile,Tears& every emotions are attached only to Sid.
Well Riddhima would have died earlier if Sid would'nt had come to her rescue.Riddhima also Admits the truth that she wants to spend her future with Sid so no point of AR debate.
Well Armaan left her at her lowest & Sid helped her at her lowest.
Sid was with her at every point of time when Riddhima needed help & Sid stood for her every time like her shadow.
Well,
Acche waqt main toh koi bhi khush reh sakta hai,
par insaan woh hai jo bure waqt main khud khush rahe na rahe par dussro ko khush rakh sake.
Sid keeps Riddhima happy.
Sid & Riddhima deserve to be with each other.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#73

i dont mean any offense but how in the world is this an AR post? lol! Honestly, this is a true SR post in my opinion, the only point i agree with is that the riddhima we see today is NOT the one armaan fell in love with! her soul is not the same, she has changed, she is a different person!

FINE, sid helped her through her bad times, i wont comment on tht coz i wasnt following the show then, but i am sure as hell tht he could have done nothing in 6 months or in a whole lifetime to compete with what armaan did for riddhima in the 2 years they spent together and is still doing.
i am not going to present infront of you the millions of things armaan has done for riddhima coz honestly why should i??? i love AR, no matter what and i dont need to prove armaan being a better option to anyone! i think u ppl shud stop doing this too, there myt be some peace in the forum then, make SR topics, support SR, praise sidhant, do whatever u want to, but kindly dont put the positivity of Sidhant Mohdi infront of the AR fans, if u had not named the topic over SR and AR both, i wud not have bothered opening it, but u did, and i dont see in what way u call this an AR topic!
even i respect SR as a couple, because they r married, but thts the only reason! i dont think the SR fans shud put forward wht all sidhant has done to give ridhdima a reason to live for, infornt of us AR fans, its a useless issue to reason with!
i really do not mean to offend u in any way, i respect ur post but i wrote whatever i felt, so pls dont get offended
cheers
sonia
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Posted: 15 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: mandy1024

Hi lnmdjrocksss,
Even I haven't fallen in love so far but I have seen many of my friends in love. Some survived and some didn't. Agreed love is a beautiful feeling but is that all there is to love? Love doesn't restrict itself to just love from a partner in a romantic sense but also love that you get from your family and friends. A few friends who were dating, are now happily married while some of them who were in love before have now moved on in life. It depends on how you'd look at it. One of my close friend was in love before. But for some reasons their relation didn't work out. She ended up getting married to someone else and now she's very happy and content in life. Thats only because she embraced her present rather than brooding over her past. Not that her love for the other guy wasn't true but they both had realised that it wouldn't work for certain reasons. If your love is true, it'll surely survive the test of time. Its easy to say that your parents won't agree. True, its hard to convince your parents but if your happiness truly lies with that person and if he/she is capable of standing by you through all your good and bad times, your parents will give their consent coz even they would want your happiness. It lies in your hands to make your love a success. But in most of the cases, I have seen people go astray in the name of love. I believe that you should love a person for what he/she is rather than what he/she appears to be. If you in fall in love for frivolous reasons then its bound to result in a heart break.
Sorry maybe I do not qualify to be the right person to answer your question but your post was interesting. I have seen people in love around me and some love stories were truly inspiring 😳 whereas some didn't work out 😭

Words nicely put in👏
@bold
That's a beautiful line.....i completely agree with u
One of my cousins,she was madly in love wid a guy,but due to certain reasons they couldn't be together....now she is happily married to someone else.
There is no doubt she loves her husband very much but I have always wondered whether she has completely forgotten her ex and are there times when she still thinks abt him.....obviously i can never ask her these questions,so needed someone from the forum to answer them
Thanks a lot for replying.....but still that din't answer my question,i'm not denying the fact that u can fall in love the second time,offcourse u can and sometimes the 2nd love will be much stronger than the first one.My question is whether it's possible to forget ur first love completely,can u get over the feelings u had for that person once?
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Posted: 15 years ago
#75
I love this post and all the replies too!Great going!!

I have a lot of respect for AR love.What they shared was beautiful and classic-I dont deny this and neither do the DMG characters.But sometimes life plays cruel tricks on us and that is what happened with AR-They separated for whatever reason,for whoever's fault.There was a problem which led to them being separated and left Ridhima bitter,broken and unrecognisable.I mean do you honestly see Ridhima as we know her,faking tears and pain to get her enemy kicked out of Sanjeevani knowing that it would ruin his career?What Ridhima did when she used the photos to manipulate Sid made me realise-that Ridhima had changed in ways that was not comprehensible.

Many people blame Sid solely for the marriage-I disagree there.The entire Sidma hate-revenge track was always instigated by Ridzy-she was the one who slapped him first,she got him arrested,she threw that black thing on his face,she made his life hell in Sanjeevani,she got him arrested again,let lil Tamana watch her genie bhaiya being beaten up(I kinda lost respect for her as a human in there-why torment the lil girl),got him arrested and then screamed molestor loud and clear so that people could despise Sid.

What was Sid supposed to do?Bear it without any reaction.He is only human and he retaliated-by a majorly wrong decision-I dont support him taking the pictures and never will-but you have to see the act in context,rather than highting its awfulness only.And the intial picture fiasco by itself didnt cause the marriage-

Then Ridhima discovered she is mentally ill-the girl was literally crazy.She kept on walking infront of trucks,jumped into lakes,talked to random strangers-she was literally walking to death-both mentally and physically.Her mental balance was crudely at stake-and that is where Sid helped.He helped her believe that he was there-he saved her countless times from the truck,drowning or hypothermia but mostly he save her from herself.Ridhima calmed down as she knew he was there-he slowly made her believe that he would take her to Arman.

The hypothermia incident-I dont know want to talk about it-but according to DMG it was the only to save her!!And we are seeing DMG so we have to accept what they say just like we accepted Arman losing and regaining memory in a few months;we have to accept their explanation!!

Sidhant Modi is the sole reason Ridhima is alive today-that she is not rotting dead somewhere.He is the sole reason she is not a crazy loon staring at the walls of some mental institution but mostly he is the reason Ridhima is what she is today.He took the shattered pieces of her soul and re-constructed her and as he did that he left his mark.Ridhima is truely Sid's because she is what she is because of him.

Another side point-Arman affects Ridhima.When she first saw him she was torn and crying.There was a lot of hatred at fate too-but if you see clearly she always drew lines and stuck to them.She was ready to say goodbye to him and she still is!But now what we see is a pure friendship between two people who would always mean a lot to each other.

Please dont put all Ridhima;s actions to obligations-if she was so burdened by obligations she wouldnt have signed those divorce papers or time and again sought to prove her loyalty to a hubby who just wanted her out of his life.This is so not obligations
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Posted: 15 years ago
#76
@Fatz i love yur topic .

To all the delusional kajar fans A isnt god so please dnt make him out to be one he is a human being what he did was unforgiveable he left ridz to die if thats how he shows his love then i wouldnt want to be ridz just being with that heartless person will end up killing me people who cnt seem to see through the picture there is no point in commenting because yu all comment the same thing anyways. Patni chor is the reason why the happy ridz we saw to meet her husband has become sad again. Yeah once apon a time he was the reason why ridz was happy but that disappear after his "lowe" nearly killed her then her knight is shinning armour came and gave her the reason to be happy again.


During the dostana track i kinda liked armaan but nw after seeing some of the kajar phans comment i really dislike him again you guys really make people want to hate on armaan.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: amaira

ermm i beg to differ. if sid was not in the picture then Ridhima would have waited till her last breath for Armaan! if i may remind u that sr marriage only happened becasue Ridhima was getting defamed because of sid. he made those disguisting pictures, and then the hypothermia natak. any Dr knows hypothermia does not happen that quick and if Ridhima was a guy or an aunty would he have still done the same?? NO! anyways sid didnt do any ehsaan on Ridhima by marrying her but repentance for defaming her. IF sid never entered the picture AR would have been happy today. Ridhima would be smiling whole heartdly instead of all the rhona dhona. and if Ridhim and sid share a love trust relationship then Armaans return should not make any difference to them. Ridhima would not avoid meeting Armaans eyes. she would not cry everytime she sees Armaan practically. his words would not have soo much of an effect on her and nor wud she feel his presence.


to remind you again. Only reason Ridhima chooses to be with sid is because they are 'married' like i said before, up until the last phere of sr marriage ceremony, had Armaan returned Ridhima would have ran from the mandap to him.

and the new ridhima u are talking about is not the REAL Ridhima!

you said it all!!! you literally took words out my mouth and i don't think it could have been explained better than this!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#78
it would have bin much appricated if yu have put "being Sr fan" aside and jus talked in general..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Fatima Awesome topic!

I can't believe I missed it, ok one thing is certain you Sid and Armaan are awesome guys and any girl would be lucky to have them.

As an SRian I can never deny AR's love because if I did what was I watching in DMG for the last two years. AR's love story was beautiful and I loved watching it up to a certain point till the CV's butchered and ruined it for me but nevrtheless it was great to watch. Their love was pure and innocent.

With SR it went from hate to liking to care to well love, I have to say I think SR saved each other Riddhima's hate for Sid stopped him brooding about Tammana which in turn saved him from being a sad charater and even though Sid has saved Riddhima physically many times, he re-joined her shattered soul, he showed her what she had really become, this can be seen post Holi - esp after the neck kisses. He never wanted anything from their relationship, he wasn't looking for anything but he knew she was a nice person he had seen that in her. He thought at least they can be friends, and that was enough for him at that time, it still was when Armaan came back but in between all this angst they became connected that neither of them realised.

As for R not feeling anything for A, of course she does, I mean how can't she even in Pune of course she was happy to see him but then everything hit her, and how cruel fate had been she broke, she had a man she loved, killed herself for and a man who picked her up re-joined her soul, taught her that life still has a meaning. But I think as time has gone on she has realised she is not the Basket she was, she has changed and now she is Riddhima Modi. A new Riddhima was born on the day of the wedding, she moved on from her past, when she burnt the photos and walked into Sid's house, but she fully didn't move on till Sid opened her eyes, saying she has become a puppet, he opened her feelings again and she realised that she had an amazing guy by her side and she started opening her heart to him, she made a connection with him.

There is a stronger obligation to stay with Sid but if she wanted Armaan, she knew Sid would let her go and her father would eventually accept her decision, she was allowed a choice exclude society because what ever she does they will never forget it! So either way she is going to have to hear stuff I mean Armaan's attempts to say sorry what society wouldn't speak about them? Her divorce with Sid everything she does people will talk!

There were some awesome posts earlier can't remember who but for everyone who debated well 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikita_88

Fatima Awesome topic!

I can't believe I missed it, ok one thing is certain you Sid and Armaan are awesome guys and any girl would be lucky to have them.

As an SRian I can never deny AR's love because if I did what was I watching in DMG for the last two years. AR's love story was beautiful and I loved watching it up to a certain point till the CV's butchered and ruined it for me but nevrtheless it was great to watch. Their love was pure and innocent.

With SR it went from hate to liking to care to well love, I have to say I think SR saved each other Riddhima's hate for Sid stopped him brooding about Tammana which in turn saved him from being a sad charater and even though Sid has saved Riddhima physically many times, he re-joined her shattered soul, he showed her what she had really become, this can be seen post Holi - esp after the neck kisses. He never wanted anything from their relationship, he wasn't looking for anything but he knew she was a nice person he had seen that in her. He thought at least they can be friends, and that was enough for him at that time, it still was when Armaan came back but in between all this angst they became connected that neither of them realised.

As for R not feeling anything for A, of course she does, I mean how can't she even in Pune of course she was happy to see him but then everything hit her, and how cruel fate had been she broke, she had a man she loved, killed herself for and a man who picked her up re-joined her soul, taught her that life still has a meaning. But I think as time has gone on she has realised she is not the Basket she was, she has changed and now she is Riddhima Modi. A new Riddhima was born on the day of the wedding, she moved on from her past, when she burnt the photos and walked into Sid's house, but she fully didn't move on till Sid opened her eyes, saying she has become a puppet, he opened her feelings again and she realised that she had an amazing guy by her side and she started opening her heart to him, she made a connection with him.

There is a stronger obligation to stay with Sid but if she wanted Armaan, she knew Sid would let her go and her father would eventually accept her decision, she was allowed a choice exclude society because what ever she does they will never forget it! So either way she is going to have to hear stuff I mean Armaan's attempts to say sorry what society wouldn't speak about them? Her divorce with Sid everything she does people will talk!

There were some awesome posts earlier can't remember who but for everyone who debated well 👏



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Brilliant!You are so right....There is an obligation to stay with Sid but it isnt absolute.And now no one can even blame her for the failed marriage-Sid has taken it upon himself.He is the one distancing himself for her yet she is striving to go back to him.

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