A very serious question crossing the limits - Page 4

Originally posted by: BlueSoul

<font color="#000099">I Loved your POV and doubts. But I'm sorry I'm too young to handle all such mature discussion. Incest??? 😲</font>

<font color="#000099">Currently I'm a kid.I will come back when I'll grow up. </font>

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<font color="#000099"><strong>Cya after 1 day. </font>

Originally posted by: Painted_Lady

lol..look who is talking? 😲 you and immature?i dont believe you... 😆

anyways lets see how much of maturity you have gained in one day! c ya..

@ Topicmaker,

❤️Very good topic and what a interesting concept you questioned. What is "pure love?" and what is "impure love?" Again I do believe that adultery is wrong both morally and ethically. To me "impure love" means when you want something from the other person I think impure loves would be termed as lust, adultery, selfishness etc etc. And pure love is just something in which your love for the other person is unconditional, divine, and understanding.

❤️It's patience, compassion, and not selfishness. Pure love is where lust is not involved and two people truly want nothing from each other but, just loving each other makes them happy. You will never find this in today's society! And no money, greed, riches etc. in the world can impact their undying love for one another. I will definitely not refer "pure love" in DMG becuz, in my personal opinion I don't think any of the DMG characters' love come anywhere near "pure love." They don't come to that level of pure love as AR & SR lack understanding in their relationships.

❤️According to me pure love is in complete different plane it is not within every person's reach. It is very rare to find but, yet it does exist. It is an aspect of the divine and what is infinite. In my eyes "pure love" is what Heer Ranjha, Soni Mahiwal, Laila Majnu and many others historical true lovers shared. That's "pure love" right there and their love was beyond the measures of any religion, morals, or society. And for them love wasn't touching each other or being with each other either it was being endorsed in each other's love in platonic sense. Their love was an personification of God's divine love itself. And the DMG characters like AR and SR don't even anywhere come near these "pure love" jodis as all these characters can't even stand up for their love or even let alone understand each other?! Each person Ridz, Sid, and Armaan demonstrate normal human behavior as selfishness, not understanding their partners, anger, jealousy, insecurity etc. That's my take on your question. And its my opinion. So, if someone didn't agree with me then I am sorry I am just stating my opinion. As like I said you are using the word "pure." And that is a very strong word as "pure" is something that is untouched and divinely perfect. "Pure love" cannot be attained by everyone it comes in the fate of only those lucky ones that are chosen by destiny and it is truly God's gift.

Originally posted by: BlueSoul

You don't believe me? I'm hurteded 😒

When did I said that I'm immature? I said I'm a kid and not fit for 'such' Mature Discussion. 😳

And I'm taking special and extra lessons from my Teacher Ji's. Once I complete my course, I'll come here and state my POV too. 😊

Originally posted by: shamil

Ok, now all of u come here and listen to this song.. serious baatein baad mein karna..

Isnt this song soothing😍

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awGRK9eBWm0[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: shihij07

and regarding AR, so here i am at it again. well, i position humans much above the societal norms. i respect my traditions only until they are not hindering someone's happiness.
when armaan was trying to woo riddhima, was too close to her people started bashing him and called it an extra marital affair. but extra marital affair is something not a chance incident but a gradual controlled behavior.

Originally posted by: kripsy

Although i agree with a lot of what you have to say I STRONGLY DISAGREE with the above notion that an extra-martial affair is something pre-planned or "gradual" when almost anyone involved in such a situation will tell you they "never meant for it to happen" "it just did" "it was out of my control" "I don't know what i was doing" "Yeah i had feelings for him/her but I'd never intentionally hurt (other person)" NO ONE WANTS TO DELIBERATELY CHEAT ANYONE!!! This behavior is impulsive- never controlled, it is out-of-sync and you never intend to hurt the other person especially someone as close as a husband/wife or boy/girlfriend. If all "accidental" or "non-gradual" cheating was not counted as cheating or an affair then the term adultery would not exist!

Cheating is cheating whether it was "gradual" or accidental. There is a line that is crossed and from that there is no going back....

Nowadays people acknowledge there are two forms of cheating - emotional and physical. I don't think Riddhima has comitted either yet considering she has never discussed things with Armaan to that extent even he asked why she felt more comfortable sharing stuff with Sid then she did with him and because we haven't seen the situation behind the precap incidents I think it's too premature to comment.