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yattri

@yattri

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: ka7eela

wow what an answer!..so you actually enjoy a married woman romancing with her ex!..and about that post of AR making love you go check it again and check all the absurd answers!..before claiming that they wanted her to get divorce first!..!..

excuse me but i couldn't get your point regrding the ex bf!!!..so what are you suggesting here!?..are you saying it's ok for a married woman to be with her ex, like meeting him or hanging out with him?!..and all that matters is trust between her and her hubby!!DUH!..wah kia modern khialat hai?!..but the last time i checked even a modern person feels this is wrong!..which world do you live in anyways?

i don't know how old are you sweets! but ask any boy/man if he agrees with you on this matter?!..in any society such behaviors are forbidden!...

now excuse me so i can go and bang my head with a wall for bothering yet once again to reason out with an AR fan!.. 😊

i dont think you read my reply properly so let me highlight it for you kay?
and i think i am old enough. thank you for your concern.
and as far as the demands are concerned.. i sincerely dont know about every posts written.. i just read the post by the TM.. idk bout others.. if there are thn i cant do anything bout thm now can i..
it is forbidden to be good friends with your ex? errrmmm..🤔 thank you for tht piece of info i did not know tht!

kay am done here... if you dont agree i cant do anything bout it.... you can sure go bang your head or as might as well give up :)

Edited by yattri - 15 years ago

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Payal <a href="http://www.glitter-graphics.com"><i

@lighteningbuzz

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: ka7eela

@ lighteningbuzz...wonderful BOV payal!!👏!...but it makes pure love sound so unrealistic!..doesn't it?!..and maybe it is unrealistic and doesn't exist at all! ..it's a myth if you ask me!..i believe in true love and not pure love!. pure love as you said means to be totally selfless, divine, perfect!..

i believe no one is prefect hence the whole concept of pure and selfless love doesn't exist!..i believe love has some selfish aspects in it ..love is never prefect because people are not prefect..everyone has flaws..it's how we accept these flaws and how the other person tries to become a better person just for you..that what makes him perfect for you and only you!

i believe in true love in sense that one has to be true/honest to himself and to his love...to understand love first we have to understand what it means as a concept..why do people fall in love with certain person?!..it is hard to have one concept that everyone can agree on..as we all have our own difination of love!..and we have our own ways to express our love!..but i am sure that we all would agree that love is something very beautiful..love is a strong feeling that bonds two hearts and souls and make them be one..

its the feeling that make you want to share the rest of your life with this person and him/her alone! its that deep and strong feeling that you have for someone, who you feel is very special to you..when you love someone you want to make them happy and you feel sad when they are sad and will do whatever it takes to make things better for them love just happens..

it's beyond our control to choose when to fall in love or who to fall in love with!..it just happens!..but how to keep this love and how do we behave is totally in our control!..and here rises a question of right and wrong!

i believe that love can happen any time any age..it can't be measured by time spent!..some times it takes you a long time to realize that you are actually in love with a person who you knew all of you life ..and other times it will take you just a little while to realize that you actually in love with someone who you just get to know!

people get confused between love, infatuation, admiration, crush and lust!..thats why they may think that they are in love with someone for long..and then when they find their true love they discover that it was mere an infatuation or a comfortable relationship of mutual interest or a convenient companionship that they shared all a long!..at least from their side thats why people break up even after so many years..

maybe i am drifting from the topic sorry 😳

I totally agree with your insight! 😉 You are right "pure love" is unrealistic. Because at the end of the day we are all human and are prone to make mistakes. Humans can never be perfect and we all have our flaws. I really liked how you stated that love isn't perfect either because we humans aren't perfect and we tend to love because we see an imperfect person perfect in our eyes. I believe that "true love" is like you said far more deeper, requires understanding, maturity, but at the same time loving someone unconditionally.

I believe that in love a person has to sometimes be willing to give the other person instead of taking. And I agree "true love" is hard to find too because many people confuse it with infatuation, admiration, crush, lust or puppy love? And I agree with you there that love can not be defined in any capacity of how long you've known a person nor can love be measured to how you fall in love with someone. I agree with all your points there dear! 😃 Magnificent post!

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sakshiluvskaran

@sakshiluvskaran

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#43

okay i agree and whatever happens between AR should happen after sid-ridz divorce and not now and this fact I have already stated in my previous post...... I do not want AR to make love.... and i am an AR FAN...... i want the divorce then remarriage and then love making....Everything should proceed gradually or if ridz loves sid then she should go back to sid and tell this straightly to Armaan.... I have no problem in either ways...... But Ridz should decide soon and end this boring drama *yawn*😆... And relax dear

Edited by sakshiluvskaran - 15 years ago

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: nikka0809
riddhima has already signed divorce papers i guess...and i guess respective fans enjoy love scenes between their favourites...and if situations were opposite then even u guys mit enjoy such scenes

We or should I say I wouldn't, My opinion seriously reflects who I am as a person. I find it funny how some members would would state they don't support AR because they were forced to marry, it is not out of love but they have been fans of other couples whose marriage state was worse than SR's. I stick to my beliefs.

The divorce has not gone through. Sid hasn't signed those papers. Rid is as attached to Sid as she was on the day they got married.

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Pree

@Cookies01

Navigator

Posted: 15 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz
Now that's what I call a logical answer! I don't care if you are a Sidma fan or an AR fan. I loved your answer! I liked how you didn't take any sides either jodis and basically answered the TM's question on only explaining love's impurity and purity through other valid explainations! Great job! 😉

Haha, thank you! It's so nice to be complimented for my objectivity by an AR fan. Why can't they all get along like we do! 😆

~Cookie

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Payal <a href="http://www.glitter-graphics.com"><i

@lighteningbuzz

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Cookies01

Haha, thank you! It's so nice to be complimented for my objectivity by an AR fan. Why can't they all get along like we do! 😆

~Cookie

Lol. Your welcome. But, I am not an AR fan 😆 I am a hard core Siddhima fan. 😃 I was thinking that you were an AR fan?😆

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Pree

@Cookies01

Navigator

Posted: 15 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

Lol. Your welcome. But, I am not an AR fan 😆 I am a hard core Siddhima fan. 😃 I was thinking that you were an AR fan?😆

🤣 I am a Siddhima fan too! 😆

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Payal <a href="http://www.glitter-graphics.com"><i

@lighteningbuzz

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Cookies01

🤣 I am a Siddhima fan too! 😆

Lol. And you were actually wondering that AR fan and SR fan were actually getting along?!? 😆 AR fans can only understand each other. And we Siddhima fans can understand each other. I am not surprised to find me and you both Siddhima fans. 😆

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bheegi

@bheegi

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#49

I haven't read all the replies, but here is my view on your question.

I think it depends on the two people involved in the relationship, whether it's a marriage or a love relationship. As long as the two people are happy and not guilty or regretful about what step they take, it should be okay whether the society approves of it or not. The moment one party is guilty or unhappy with the step they are about to take, it is not legitimate.

I know Ridz well and she will NEVER cross her limits as long as she has the tag of marriage attached to her. In other words, she will never commit infidelity even if she is not committed to her husband by heart or soul yet.Similarly, Armaan would never do that because he knows Ridz well.

The day, AR take the plunge willingly, without any guilt attached to it, then it will be legit. It's not a question of pure or impure love, it's a question of two mutually consenting adults who know exactly what they are doing and ARE comfortable with their decision.

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desire_20

@desire_20

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#50

lol ur examples made me laugh... n i've never encouraged AR to "make love" while riddhima is still married to sid, n i dont think any actual intimate moments have occurred between AR, n all i want is for riddhima n sid to realize that their relation isnt goin to work out because AR's love is stronger than forced ties.... i dont mean to offend anyone, its just my opinion that the show started with AR and should end with them as well, im really not interested in love triangles and riddhima crying 24/7

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