EXTENT OF shankys SELFISHNESS! - Page 8

Originally posted by: Ramy25

But my major confusion is that if Riddhima has absolutely NO feelings for Sid....and if she is considers the marriage and their relationship a mere "societal pressure", then why the heck did she carry her wedding frame with her to her place?

If she never felt anything for Sid, then why would she carry her marriage's memory with her?!

If someone else were to be in her place who didn't want the marriage, then she would definitely not carry anything that reminds her of that phase of her life!

Riddhima's angry at Sid not just because he sent her the divorce papers, but because he decided to end "their" relationship without asking what she wanted!

There is no "societal pressure" or "parental pressure" involved in this!

Riddhima is married and she is developing feelings for sid.

for me Riddhima never loved armaan she only cltched to him as a pose boyfriend so that something exciting happens to her. She was afraid she would be sitting like a Naive Virgin her whole life so she choose armaan for a little fling and now she is married to sid and she is to be faithful to her husband. May it be India or US one thing is sure marriage has to be faithful.

tada matter solved! 🥳

Originally posted by: zainab25

Since no one will bother to reply to that, I will. 😃

No, no, Amy. The society waala people have installed hidden cameras in her room to observe if Riddhima is a Hindustaani wife, and her act was full on there to. Donchaknow? 😛

She's hurt to know that Siddhanth doesn't trust their relationship, and has left her mid way, when she truly wanted to weave her dreams with him. Siddhanth is hurt as he believes she still loves her ex, and his last hope shattered when Riddhima signed the Divorce notice. They both are victims of miscommunication, and imagine how frightening it would be if a divorce only occurs due to failed communication? Thankfully Shashank wants them to work their massacred relation for a few more days, till any drastic step is taken.

awww thank you zainy for replying to my post!

oh! now i see...so it is still shashank's pressure and the "society"s" pressure that made her look at wedding pic?😳

If someone else was Riddhima, she would have dumped that pic in the trash can or never "stole" it from her husband's place!


@miscommunication---true that! their "divorce" seems more due to lack of communication then anything else! if it was meant to be "freedom" for ms.nightingale, then she would have never lashed out at Mr. Hakuna matata like so!
Ms. Nightingale and Mr. Hakuna matata need to talk...spend "proper" time together! Earlier too, right after their wedding, they were having similar "divorce" talks and miscommunications....but then Shanshank sends them two to honeymoon...and Say Whaaat?!😲 They start to communicate and the "divorce" talks vanish and they start understanding each other and decide to give their relationship a chance!

Now look at the situation now......they are again having miscommunications...and the divorce talks are not just "talks" now...but are on the verge of actual implementation!So now too, Shashank tries to be the mediator and instead of sending them on honeymoon...he's asking them to give their relationship some time...give each other some time.

Hmmmm.....whatcha say?😃

Originally posted by: zainab25

Since no one will bother to reply to that, I will. 😃

No, no, Amy. The society waala people have installed hidden cameras in her room to observe if Riddhima is a Hindustaani wife, and her act was full on there too. Donchaknow? 😛

She's hurt to know that Siddhanth doesn't trust their relationship, and has left her mid way, when she truly wanted to weave her dreams with him. Siddhanth is hurt as he believes she still loves her ex, and his last hope shattered when Riddhima signed the Divorce notice. They both are victims of miscommunication, and imagine how frightening it would be if a divorce only occurs due to failed communication? Thankfully Shashank wants them to work their massacred relation for a few more days, till any drastic step is taken.

@zainab...they arent gonna reply to this...

AR fans are just gonna keep blaming evryone who utters even a word against Armaan...

anyhow i am outta here...i can have discussions only, where 'logic' and 'reasoning' prevail...and obviously goin by their comments these two words are alien to them...

hey hold on....i have a life....and a real world which might need me...replies will be forthcoming....kindly wait n watch 😊

Originally posted by: mystic_dunes

@blue-in that case arrange marriges dont work *shock*😲

if you go by the statistics...arrange marriages are more successful than love ones

and obviously a marriage can only be successful if you are happy!!

its ridiculous how people twist statments to suit their arguments...this is sooo not about love or arranged marriages....all arranged marriages dont have the AR background for god's sake...u think all the girls enter marriage under ridhima's circumstances and have the same background....god forbid !!!

But my major confusion is that if Riddhima has absolutely NO feelings for Sid....and if she is considers the marriage and their relationship a mere "societal pressure", then why the heck did she carry her wedding frame with her to her place?

If she never felt anything for Sid, then why would she carry her marriage's memory with her?!

If someone else were to be in her place who didn't want the marriage, then she would definitely not carry anything that reminds her of that phase of her life!

Riddhima's angry at Sid not just because he sent her the divorce papers, but because he decided to end "their" relationship without asking what she wanted!

There is no "societal pressure" or "parental pressure" involved in this!
[/QUO..did u see any of my replies...where have i written that she has no feelings for him ??? pray point out...on the contrary i have been saying that the emergence of some attraction arose unnaturally swiftly....just a ceremony and bang we have a new ridhima....😃

Originally posted by: zainab25

Do watch the Mat Jaao scene then and then we will know who qualifies, and who doesn't. Then after that you can watch the countless scenes of Riddhima mouthing how Sid is her present and future whilst Armaan is her past.😃

I am sorry to know that many are frustrated because Riddhima is not in love with anyone anymore lately. Lets say I believe Siddhanth is not the right choice for her, and she may never be happy with him, but what makes people think Armaan is where her happiness lies? Lol. She accuses him of breaking her marriage, she hasn't said she still loves him during their innumerable encounters, and neither has she hinted of going back to him or marrying him even if she divorces Siddhanth. Last I recall, she even said that Armaan wasn't worth her. *shock*

Armaan is still delusional after the recent fiasco and encounters with Riddhima to believe she would move on so quickly with him. Plus he has seen her break down for Siddhanth, and he has seen Siddhanth do the same....so he definitely should calm down there, and give it some time before he starts to weave marriage dreams again. Lol. And don't blame S-R or Shashank when he's left shattered, because he choses this time around to assume. Assumption ke samandar mein doob raha hai. Things are not how they were in 2008, so it wouldn't hurt if he chatted with Riddhima about his feelings. Aur abhi toh divorce bhi nahin hua hai, and he expects Shashank to hand in Riddhima's hands right into his hands? Wowzaas. 🤔 His character is so butchered right now by the CVs (don't worry I am not delusional, I realize it's the cvs who sketch him) that it worries me.

This post is about shanky's pressure in regards to the divorce...not about armaan...and if armaan needs to give her time and talk to her...what does sid need to do...actually the very next day after the marriage..when this whole girls life was turned upside down...somebody was sulking coz she was not in love with him..

Originally posted by: Evita.

Riddhima is married and she is developing feelings for sid.

for me Riddhima never loved armaan she only cltched to him as a pose boyfriend so that something exciting happens to her. She was afraid she would be sitting like a Naive Virgin her whole life so she choose armaan for a little fling and now she is married to sid and she is to be faithful to her husband. May it be India or US one thing is sure marriage has to be faithful.

tada matter solved! 🥳

i am glad life does not adhere to ur principles and way of thinking

Originally posted by: mystic_dunes

@zainab...they arent gonna reply to this...

AR fans are just gonna keep blaming evryone who utters even a word against Armaan...

anyhow i am outta here...i can have discussions only, where 'logic' and 'reasoning' prevail...and obviously goin by their comments these two words are alien to them...

being abusive is a cowards and fools weapon....Confucious