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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: MagicalKash

Hey Sidra,You made a topic!!🤗

Absolutely beautiful post....Thank you!🤗,I agree with whatever you said ,It even helped to clear my mind which had suddenly become a little clouded due to sid's resignation to his fate....same here Parul.After watching HDDCS,my confusion regarding SR and their actions right now did become clear.
I especially loved this paragraph..
Both Nandini and Riddhima went crazy without their first loves....both travelled far to seach for their loves.The difference is that when Nandini realized her feelings for Vanraaj,she embraced them with open arms.She just needed Sameer to let her go.Like her dialogues in the last scene,"Mujhe ijaazat do Sameer."

Here Armaan and Riddhima have said their goodbyes...Armaan has let her go but Riddhima is holding back.....not because she is still in love Armaan. But because she needs some reassurance from Sid.
Rather than questions about Armaan,she needs to hear Sid say that he wants her in his life....that he wont leave her.


Yeah she is not afraid to let go of Armaan,she's afraid to fall in love again,to make her heart vulnerable again.........



She let go of Armaan along time ago.She just wanted him to let her go and he did that.What she wants now is to hear Sid say that he will never let her go.😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: hewascool90210

Love it, every word and thoughts are perfectly done. Yes, ridz is ready to leave her past and move forward with her husband sid, but sid needs to tell her that he is there for her and always will be. She is defenitaly scared to tell sid how she feels, b/c she dosen't want to get heartbroken again. She does want to tell sid really bady not to leave her and go away from her life, but she is confused what does sid wants....Right.Sid's silence is confusing her...even though he has told her that he likes her...she needs to hear more. Does he want me to be with him or not. She is ready to take the two steps toward sid but she gets confused whn sid dosen't react to her and that is when she takes those step backward. All sid has to do is put his hand on ridz hands and promise her that he is here for her only and he will always be here for her without any condition. Yes, i think deep down she knows what sid feels for her, but it is not enought now, sid needs to tell her that he wants her and only her. And ridz will take those two steps to forever steps toward sid. She will hold his hands for eternity after eternity. Just a reassurence once again like the heartmelting mat jao scene, she will close there door to her past for forever now, if sid says that again. She wants sid and is scared to even think about loosing him at the cost of her past. She can bear to let her past go as a beautiful memory, but she is devested to let go her future with sid now. She wants this future and no matter what she wants this dp stop at any cost. Even if she has to beg her father for it.



Great post! Agree with every word.You said all the things I left out.😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: princess1

Sid wonderful wonderful wonderful written 👏 In order to love Sid and Riddhima characterization --why they are SR ----this post is amazing to read !! Wonderfully said----Both have gone through bad phrase and SR need each other support, love and yes open communication!! CVS lacks their scene limited to telepathy and keeping them apart created mess. Situation can be handled realistic way with dealt past together with Sid, Rid and Armi together. They have failed in certain circumstances to where SID and RIdz have strong potential to confession happens.......

Yes, I also felt that SID ---who has remained quite to give Ridzie choice, but unable to handle the situation, going without asking Ridzie ----DP !!
Anyway, Ramy --has said it all ........SID and RIDZ need to be there for each other to first thing called trust and support!!



Thank you for commenting. 🤗 Loved reading your post.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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amazing post sidra............so beautifully writen...HDDCS is one of my favorite movies and even when nandini chose vanraaj which i wanted my heart cried for sameer............the last scene ,he crying asking his dad to hug him just once.............salman was brilliant there
now back to SR i agree with your points hun....riddhima has to chose between sid and no sid ...........armaan is not a part of it now,she has made her choice.............her indecision is becasue of lack of any assurance from her husband who has furthered himself away from the time armaan returned...............riddhima is vry scared to love and lose again and that is what is holding ehr back from accepting and opening the gates of her feelings...............as you aptly said sid taught ehr how to live without armaan but he has not taught ehr how to live without him..............a mere paper can remove siddanth from riddhima's life but how does she remove him from her heart and soul.........
the girl who spun fairy tales and lived candy floss romance has grown up into a woman who understands that the story does not end with falling in love ,the journey starts from there
Edited by sun29 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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brilliant posts...another brilliant writer in the sidma brigade...i likeee 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Aw let me droool and read this article again and again 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Riddhima : I wont deny that this is one very confused soul...not to mention her biggest problem is that she doesnt communicate her feelings.But this is how I understood her actions and feelings.
tell Armaan that he doesnt want to come between them since they are each other's first love
The scene where she decides to leave Sid's house because of his mother's taunts,Sid tells Both Nandini and Riddhima went crazy without their first loves....both travelled far to seach for their loves.The difference is that when Nandini realized her feelings for Vanraaj,she embraced them with open arms.She just needed Sameer to let her go.Like her dialogues in the last scene,"Mujhe ijaazat do Sameer."

Here Armaan and Riddhima have said their goodbyes...Armaan has let her go but Riddhima is holding back.....not because she is still in love Armaan. But because she needs some reassurance from Sid.
Rather than questions about Armaan,she needs to hear Sid say that he wants her in his life....that he wont leave her.

Because,
Sid has taught her to live without Armaan but has not taught her to live without him.


Would love to hear from you all........😳
Very very well written , i think she is looking ahead also.
Armaan has kind of accepted it as per todays epi. Ridhima will after Shanky lectures her and Sid after after he confessed to Armaan it be very difficult 4 him to retrieve!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Great post!!!
That is the essence of the problem..
Armaan and Ridz had the closure - but SR problem still persists..
Sid is waiting for Ridz to come forward and say she wants to stay in this marriage not for an obligation but will be committed with her heart and soul.. Thats a normal and practical thought - how can anyone live in a marriage without that commitment!! He is hiding her love from her thinking the divorce will eventually bring Armaan and Ridz together..
Ridz on the other hand needs that same assurance from Sid inspite of her feelings for Armaan - her wounds are not completely healed..The same man who stood by her and said he would marry her inspite of her love for Armaan, now wants a divorce and pushing her away..
Isn't this ironic??? Sid is doing what AR fans always wanted and Armaan is trying to get SR fans what they want..!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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This is a very clarified and beautiful awesome meaningful post..hats off sidra...lovely thoughts..and i really hope that wat happened with and nadini and vanraaj will be with sidma...as that is the most wanted and right way! sid cant think without ridz but at the same time cant see her destroyed..and same is ridz ..cant see him in pain and cant be away from him too..this is love!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Awesome post Sidra!!!!!
That is so true.........although time and time again...she has she has shown what she wants ...she has not said it....and Sid is refusing to understand that ...I dont blame him coz he knows her past and he himself has been heartbroken......he needs a verbal reassurance from her.
Just like she needs a verbal reassurance from him that he wants to stay with her......and I dont blame her either.......her past is a lot to contend with.
Dr. Shashank was right today to when he said that she needs to face her past to move towards the future

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