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Shanti

@shanti05

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

I thought she decided to commit suicide and then when Siddhant removed the poison from her body he said he refuses to marry her but she pleaded and asked for forgiveness and still wanted to go ahead So where was she blackmailed?

She was freed then itself

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: termi
agar ridz can forget ammy in matter of hours then she should sign divorce paperz in matter of seconds lolzzzz

My memory appears to be faulty. Please do tell me how many " HOURS" in exact did Riddhima take to forget Armaan?

Before She married Sid she had lost all hopes of Armaan's return. The girl didn't betray him even for a second. When Armaan returned her only fault was she wasn't strong enough to tell him the truth. But lol fans would find fault in that too.

Edited by Perfangel5655 - 15 years ago

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Pree

@Cookies01

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: mandy1024

Even mutual respect and trust account to feelings and Sidma's marriage was based on that. Love is not everything in life. If there is love without trust (in AR's case there are many instances wherein neither had enough trust on the other person) what's the point in that love? How strong is that? Eyelocks and passionate moments don't alone suffice for classifying love but silence can speak volumes about it too. In SR's case, marriage was a decision taken by both of them and Armaan came at a point when Ridz was getting feelings for Sid. At this point should she crush those feelings and run back to her love? If she does that, then it'll be an insult to the love AR had earlier on as it wasn't selfish way back then.

I absolutely agree! When we're young, its so easy to mistake romance and love together. And thanks for replying!

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Simone

@-simi-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

wow

i salute you for putting it in such a proper manner!

i really wish more people understood the meaning of marriage!

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yattri

@yattri

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Nargis, good point, but did u see in yest's epi, Ridz actually dreamt of Sid.. That it's Sid who is wearing her the mangalsutra.. Putting aside my happiness regarding her dream, I'd say that shows that Ridz has already been a part of this commitment now.. If it's mere compromise, she can't dream Sid with mangalsutra😊 Though they have started their journey with compromise, it's not necessary it will always be constant.. Like the topic maker said, Change is inevitable😛Ridz's and Sid's feeling for each other shows and proves that😳

i dont think she dreamt of Sid.. she remembered him.. 😆 and the so called marriage they had..

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ramsha

@-SilentLove-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

I totally agree Cookies!

Especially with so many love marriages on a fail bit.. many people do love marriages but they just don't have that maturity in my opinion which a normal arranged marriage shall does.

They don't have that commitment and hence divorces happen and they part ways due to their arguments and problems instead of trying to fix them

In arranged marriages.. you don't know the person at first BUT you are committed to them and slowly love comes.

And i request people to put there opinions forward in a proper manner..

Please enough with blaming Sid and how is wrong for Riddhima. He is no saint and there is no doubt that Riddhima won't be happy with him.

Edited by ramsha247 - 15 years ago

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Nargis, good point, but did u see in yest's epi, Ridz actually dreamt of Sid.. That it's Sid who is wearing her the mangalsutra.. Putting aside my happiness regarding her dream, I'd say that shows that Ridz has already been a part of this commitment now.. If it's mere compromise, she can't dream Sid with mangalsutra😊 Though they have started their journey with compromise, it's not necessary it will always be constant.. Like the topic maker said, Change is inevitable😛Ridz's and Sid's feeling for each other shows and proves that😳

I don't think she was dreaming...she was simply remembering when SID put the mangalsutra on her...and she looks at him them too...pleading with her eyes for him to say something...and still he does not....she is disappointed with him...and that's when she draws the line and says 'BAS'.

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@--Nargis--

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ramsha247

Riddhima was very much committed and she was almost on a verge of starting her new life fully but BANG she met Armaan.

But that should not affect her commitment and her marriage.

This commitment should have been made and accepted before they married....now accepting this commitment afterwords....is just like living up to the obligation of staying married.

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Pree

@Cookies01

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Sue101
i think nobody on SR angle spoke about feeling ok..now u r saying if the girl develops a feeling for a guy it is with whom she should lead a happy life with happy feeling for him. the phone conversation between ridhimma and naina all that happened before armaan came back..i could now say strongly that she has feeling only for armaan now and commitment towards marraige for sid.

so who ever supporting this feeling angle please have this in mind, as i'm sure ridhimma will be shown very soon to have lot of feeling for armaan which was so long hidden, i just want to see what people talk at that time..they would just talk about the marraige commitment and would only bash ridhimma for that feeling of hers??

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Thanks for replying! I may be a bit slow but I'm not sure where you're getting at so I'll reply to the part I understood 😆

Yes, I agree with you..and it is completely normal and understandable for Riddhima to feel that way for Armaan...after all, she had dreams of spending the rest of her life with him. However, even married couples in real life will at some point think about their ex or get attracted to someone new they meet but it does not mean they forget the commitment they've made to their spouse. That's why I said earlier if marriage was based on feelings alone, everyone would end up divorced because we're all human and our feelings change every second.

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ramsha

@-SilentLove-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

AKANargis she did.. she burned Armaan's pics on her wedding day and from that day onwards she was committed truly from her heart and thats why she never remembered Armaan either.. she has been trying since then to work out the marriage..

But it really does not matter now.. many shows have shown marriages to be not so successful at first but as time passes.. things work out and thats exactly what shall happen in a real life situation especially with how Siddhima were shown.

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