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Posted: 15 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz

Hotmess,

Well Said! I completely agree with you. I liked how you took it from a reality perspective. Instead of like other people saying its only becuz, its Armaan. You are right their relationship should've been given some more time and the makers rushed it. Good insight.

I feel that since they had the news of Armaan coming back they goofed up their Sid and Ridz relationship

they wanted ti rush it so that they stop at a stage where Sid starts liking Riddhima and she is now in a position to decide whom she wants to spend here life

@topic maker very well put Things make a lot of sense, and personally marriage is somthing which should be respected . Riddhima if she believes in an institution like marriage she should take the right decision and be with her husband, Siddhant is a very nice guy and she will grow to love him as a husband, friend and soul mate and be happy !
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Posted: 15 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: shanti05

I feel that since they had the news of Armaan coming back they goofed up their Sid and Ridz relationship

they wanted ti rush it so that they stop at a stage where Sid starts liking Riddhima and she is now in a position to decide whom she wants to spend here life

@topic maker very well put Things make a lot of sense, and personally marriage is somthing which should be respected . Riddhima if she believes in an institution like marriage she should take the right decision and be with her husband, Siddhant is a very nice guy and she will grow to love him as a husband, friend and soul mate and be happy !

ditto

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Posted: 15 years ago
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For me, SidMa does not "rule." Yes, you do have some valid points (not saying AR fans don't, because we also do). But a couple who's making a mockery of their own married relationship - a relationship that SR fans told AR fans is so pure, and shouldn't be made mockery of via a divorce.

Well, to be honest, divorce is much more realistic in today's times than polygamy, or "fake" polygamy is. This couple can't even stand up for their OWN marriage (a rishta which is so sacred) against Mrs. Modi. They can't even tell the truth to Armaan.

They say they're doing this natak for a good cause - apno ke liye kar rahe. But at the end of this game their "apne" are the ones who are going to end up hurt; Mrs. Modi being lied to by his own son, and Armaan being lied to by the love of his life, and his new-found friend. I don't understand what's stopping them. They can at least tell the truth to Mrs. Modi since Yuvi has passed his internship exams now. And Riddhima is running around, away from Armaan trying to find ways to push Armaan away - even though telling him the TRUTH might as well be a good way to actually push him away.

Now.. all the SR fans telling AR fans that marriage is NOT a joke. Tell Sid that (well CVs, since Sid is a fictional character). Divorce is okay - it happens. A situation similar to DMG has happened in my OWN life (well, not my life; cousin's). But polygamy?

Okay, so the precap we saw might be a dream; but still.. pretending to be someone else's wife is still bad. This couple is making fun of their "oh so sacred" relationship. Sid telling his own wife to pretend to be someone else's, Riddhima pretending to do so; Riddhima not having the guts to tell Armaan, "yo gtho, I'm married to someone else," and Sid doing the same. When the couple themselves can't blurt out the truth about their marriage - can you really blame the AR fans for thinking divorce can happen?

Edited by HotMess - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#64
totally agree with you topic maker. everthing you said was top



some people seem to keep saying that this marriage is forced dnt knw from what angel did this marriage seem forced from the way i saw it sid gave ridz countless opportunity to stop the wedding still she decided to get married as soon as . then sid wanted to end it but she begged him to marry her . i dnt see the force that most AR fans seem to see.


sid and riddima are an amazing couple who have displayed what true love is suppose to be like . A guy like sid only appears once in a lifetime.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: cleopatra123

I mostly stay away from all SR topics but just wanted to say this. Please take no offense because thats not my intention at all.. Why do u need to put down Armaan to prove why u prefer SR?? In all ur points there was no mention why SR rules,all u mentioned is why armaan and riddhima should not be together.well..IF i agree or not with ur points is another matter all together. So i wont get into that. Its a request, this is a SR post,So please come out with points as to why SR rules without getting Armaan into it as that would just lead to more fights in the forum.

i totally agree wid u!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: HotMess

For me, SidMa does not "rule." Yes, you do have some valid points (not saying AR fans don't, because we also do). But a couple who's making a mockery of their own married relationship - a relationship that SR fans told AR fans is so pure, and shouldn't be made mockery of via a divorce.

Well, to be honest, divorce is much more realistic in today's times than polygamy, or "fake" polygamy is. This couple can't even stand up for their OWN marriage (a rishta which is so sacred) against Mrs. Modi. They can't even tell the truth to Armaan.

They say they're doing this natak for a good cause - apno ke liye kar rahe. But at the end of this game their "apne" are the ones who are going to end up hurt; Mrs. Modi being lied to by his own son, and Armaan being lied to by the love of his life, and his new-found friend. I don't understand what's stopping them. They can at least tell the truth to Mrs. Modi since Yuvi has passed his internship exams now. And Riddhima is running around, away from Armaan trying to find ways to push Armaan away - even though telling him the TRUTH might as well be a good way to actually push him away.

Now.. all the SR fans telling AR fans that marriage is NOT a joke. Tell Sid that (well CVs, since Sid is a fictional character). Divorce is okay - it happens. A situation similar to DMG has happened in my OWN life (well, not my life; cousin's). But polygamy?

Okay, so the precap we saw might be a dream; but still.. pretending to be someone else's wife is still bad. This couple is making fun of their "oh so sacred" relationship. Sid telling his own wife to pretend to be someone else's, Riddhima pretending to do so; Riddhima not having the guts to tell Armaan, "yo gtho, I'm married to someone else," and Sid doing the same. When the couple themselves can't blurt out the truth about their marriage - can you really blame the AR fans for thinking divorce can happen?

I totally agree.... what kind of a marrige is a marrige when u cant even tell to UR OWN MOTHER that ur married....... sid is such a mama's boy..... he says he's doing to for their "apno ke liye".. but really they are doin it for themselves........ 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
#67
@Lightingbuzz Excellent points!

@Hotmess(aditi) and Hannah Loved your points as well and they are valid as well! Thanks for putting them in a respectful way 😊

Ok here is what I think forced marriages are a big no, no I think I have had huge fits about it myself 😆 on other shows. But for SidMa, I mean social pressures forced them to get married and Riddhima was backed into a corner but she still went into the marriage because she had a chance to back out but she went a head with the marriage. So I don't see it as forced because she was on that Mandap with her mind accepting that marriage!

SidMa in love well not yet, I would be shocked if they were as well, but yes their feelings have been rushed but that was because they knew Armaan was coming back so they rushed SidMa story but a few more weeks and then Armaan's come back then the story would be different!

As for Riddhima forgetting Armaan, I don't think its true but she wanted to make her marriage work and in order to do so she had to leave her thoughts of Armaan behind in order to move, she hasn't fully moved on yet which shows her confusion at the moment but she had as well. As for her forgetting Armaan it will never happen and I would not want that to happen because her time spent with Armaan was an important part of her life as well! There is no point denying that.

I think that's all I think of saying! Its too late to think at the moment!

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Posted: 15 years ago
#68
Aww Niks, I love your post. <3

So true, I guess! But I still think there's SOME force involved. I fully blame it on Riddhima, "OMG HE RAPED ME!" - that one little lie has forced her into this dilemma she is at the moment. But, she did this for her parent's sake - you know khandan ki izzat. She still loved Armaan and was ready to commit suicide, but the societal pressure was still there. Even after Sid saved her and insulted her and told her he'll break off the marriage, she begged him to take her because of that parental/societal pressure. If the marriage broke off right then, she'd be into deeper trouble with the society. So.. that "force" was always there.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: rosette80

@topic mkaer..in short u have spoken the bare truth whether one likes it or not...they need to accept that this is life and has to go this way...i am completely with u in this matter...not as a SR fan..or AR fann..but as generally...want the reality to happen ...in todays world..




wow..............very nicely said.....👏👏👏👏👏👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Oh dear, i agree to every single thing you mentioned lighteningbuzz.
I just hope the CVs think like you and never separate our loving sidma jodi. They suit each other perfectly!!!

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