Sid, the gentleman is Not testing Rids

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parishima

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

i do not understand your question sjain, what do you think that the person who sacrifice his life for a person who even not his friend. he tried before and now to give her a chance to choose because his love is selfless he wants ridhhima to decide, is doing some wrong thing which you can not digest.
i read other post where people are calling ridhhima names, those who then wants ridhhima to unite with Arman and if she does than she will be devi of love. who do not want to let go ? the one sided viewer or ridhhima or siddhant ? and yet Arman does not know the truth.
and what is marriage. it is not a game for ridhhima . it is very difficult to pass through for getting divorce from the person who she knows that done so much. for her.

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sjain

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Actually I wasnt speaking of their marraige only.Sidma had a relationship which somewhere between friendship and respect before she married him.And maybe love is multi-dimensional and Sidma has seen many dimensions of it:jealousy,respect,trust,anger,submission etc.

Many couples married for 50 years do not see many of the dimensions or nurture love-not because their love is not true but merely because the circumstances never really caused them to examine the different dimensions.Life and circumstances have thrown Sidma time and again into facing all these dimensions and grow up as individuals.

I would say ..friend ship and respect ..but after marriage ...very sorry ..but sidhant and ridz have not seen these dimensions ... ..and now suddenly when sidhant is scared that this relationship will break ..then he is putting himself under so much of pressure 😕😊

If u have not seen luv completely ..then I won't say it as "luv"..it is just current sate of ur mind ..and that is what sidhant is facing currently !!😊

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sjain

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: parishima

i do not understand your question sjain, what do you think that the person who sacrifice his life for a person who even not his friend. he tried before and now to give her a chance to choose because his love is selfless he wants ridhhima to decide, is doing some wrong thing which you can not digest.
i read other post where people are calling ridhhima names, those who then wants ridhhima to unite with Arman and if she does than she will be devi of love. who do not want to let go ? the one sided viewer or ridhhima or siddhant ? and yet Arman does not know the truth.
and what is marriage. it is not a game for ridhhima . it is very difficult to pass through for getting divorce from the person who she knows that done so much. for her.

my thought is ..does sidhant luv ridz ??..thats it !!😊...According to me luv needs time lot of time !!

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: sjain

my thought is ..does sidhant luv ridz ??..thats it !!😊...According to me luv needs time lot of time !!

He admitted in one of the scenes.he loves riddhima.yes i believe love takes time but at times when we know that the person is kind,somebody whom u can share a great comfort with,feel at ease when hes around,love his company..slowly love will happen on its own.Love is not about the duration of ur relationship,its more than that.i guess when we get married or when are in love we will understand that LOVE word better.

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ekthatiger

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: lovene
How does the fact that he wants to find out who Ridhimma loves translate to him testing her? Poor guy. His wife's ex-lover turns up. The one she wanted to kill herself for on several occasions especially on the day of their wedding. And now all he wants to know is what Ridhimma really wants - Sid or Armaan. He wants to know who she is in love with now. I don't see anything wrong in trying to find an answer to this question. In fact I think it's noble because before Armaan turned up Rids had given him all indications of being in love with Sid and wanting a new beginning so he can't just walk out of this marriage straightaway and tell her to go back to Armaan knowing that she has feelings for him. If he didn't know how she felt about him, then sure. But things have changed now. I think he is at least man enough to let her make the decision. He wants to know what she wants and importantly wants that to be the decision maker in terms of where they go. All signs of a gentleman. He is making sure that it's right to let her go and fair on her to let her go. If she comes back, then she was always his - they don't say "marriages are made in heaven" for no reason . 😉

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lovene

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

sjain,

Your question - ODes Sidhanth love Ridhimma? Yes he does. Love is a feeling and it depends entirely on the personality. It doesn't have a fixed time limit over which you have to fall in love within or fixed time to fall in love - no incubation period here. It's like any other human feeling- for eg anger. Some people get angry rather quickly or slowly things pile up which lead to their anger. All of which depends on the personality and circumstances. So yes, Sid is in Love with Ridhimma and that's what the CVs are doing to his character right now - I don't think there are any doubts there from the creators' POV.

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Blessing

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

if i were him i will do more than testing her and what ever he is doing is not wrong in my book but if other thinks he is then let them because no one else can ever be right in their eyes but what they love.

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