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Posted: 15 years ago
#11
Agreed....
Siddhant is a true gentleman....😳
He is just trying to know whether Ridhima is truly his or not and I don't think its a bad thing...
Sid has always displayed heroism and I think he is a great guy to have given his wife go back to her first love...it indeed is a very courageous thing to do...👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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first of all why this marraige have to happen because of all those pictures and my question is if tamanna would havee been there..would he really cared about Ridhimma? ..And again he was so against Ridhimma even after marrige..suddenly when the true love of Ridhimma came back,even after knowing howmuch both love each other, he wants to know who she loves still????
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

I m having headache seeing sidhant attitude ..sach me ...kya soch raha hai vo ??...what??...sidhant ki batein ....bohot ajeeb hai...he know ridz from 3 months ..and 3 maheene me itna pyar ....that he is testing his luv ??

No offence to sidhant fanzzz....par CVs r trying to show him ..toooooo generous...which can not b digested ....!!

don't get me wrong ..!!

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Firstly, Love is a feeling. There are no time limits attached to it. 3 months or 3 years, once you feel it stays. Secondly, marriage is even significant feeling. It binds two people together and gives an additional sense of belonging to one another. No time limits again. Thridly, I find it amusing how when other characters in the show are shown to be unrealisticaly generous , people are able to digest it. Only when Sid realistically wants to know if his wife loves him or his ex-lover it cannot be digested. There is nothing generous about his behaviour. I don't think any man would want to be in a marriage in which his wife is more in love with someone else. He's being practical. and real.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sue101

.suddenly when the true love of Ridhimma came back,even after knowing howmuch both love each other,he wants to know who she loves still????



Let's not takethis out of context. He (and us,the audience) don't know if she came back because she loved Sid. It could be because she is just married to him and feels the obligation to do so. Or it could be love for Sid. That's what Sid wants to find out.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nice topic n totally agree withu
Sid is not testing her at all...he is neither being to possesive nor being totally selfless...he has merely left the decision to ridz...
its now upto ridz with whom she wants to spend her life with n whatever decsion ridz takes.... Sid will accept it!
theres no point in forcing her to stay or making her go....unless ridz wants to!... cuz for him Ridz haappiness is all that matters....so if Ridz happy then hes happy 😳 ....n thats the greatness of his love!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovene



Firstly, Love is a feeling. There are no time limits attached to it. 3 months or 3 years, once you feel it stays. Secondly, marriage is even significant feeling. It binds two people together and gives an additional sense of belonging to one another. No time limits again. Thridly, I find it amusing how when other characters in the show are shown to be unrealisticaly generous , people are able to digest it. Only when Sid realistically wants to know if his wife loves him or his ex-lover it cannot be digested. There is nothing generous about his behaviour. I don't think any man would want to be in a marriage in which his wife is more in love with someone else. He's being practical. and real.



but I still feels ..does sidhant luv ridz ??....or he is just feeling bad becos of the fact that they r married ...before testing ridz arm luv ..he should test his luv !!!

shaadi hui ..yes..agreed ..but ..till now ...they have been able to talk to each other ..openly ??....then pyar ....koi 2 minute noodle nahi hai ..which will happen so quickly !!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain





but I still feels ..does sidhant luv ridz ??....or he is just feeling bad becos of the fact that they r married ...before testing ridz arm luv ..he should test his luv !!!

shaadi hui ..yes..agreed ..but ..till now ...they have been able to talk to each other ..openly ??....then pyar ....koi 2 minute noodle nahi hai ..which will happen so quickly !!😊

I hope lovene doesnt mind me answering this.Love is not about talking.It isnt about falling into each other's arms .Neither is it about knowing a person for 50 odd years-its not about a single thing.Its a compilation of all those or some.

Sid and Ridhima may not have had intense eyelocks but they have both been through the trials and tests of life together.They have seen each other's worst side and their bond is a mixture of respect for each other,implicit trust and a friendship that doesnt need words.
The ups and downs of the relation have given them a great forum to love and they are already in slope of love-Passionate attraction may be missing but everything else is there.

And love can materialise in a moment.Remember ROMEO-JULIET-One sight was enough and here Sidma has been on a journey of a lifetime.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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no love is not all about eyelocks and etc (what u have mentioned )...but ..what ever u have wriiten ..needs a time ..and unki shaadi ko time hi kitna hua hai ??...luv is multidimensional ..and they have not seen even 1 side of luv completely ..one can not define luv in words ..but a "time span" defines ones luv for someone ..becos ..a person discovers alot in luv !!!😊

and about ups and downs...they have not seen ups and downs in luv !!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain



no love is not all about eyelocks and etc (what u have mentioned )...but ..what ever u have wriiten ..needs a time ..and unki shaadi ko time hi kitna hua hai ??...luv is multidimentioanl ..and they have not seen even 1 side of luv completely ..one can not define luv in words ..but a "time span" defines ones luv for someone ..becos ..a person discovers alot in luv !!!😊



Actually I wasnt speaking of their marraige only.Sidma had a relationship which somewhere between friendship and respect before she married him.And maybe love is multi-dimensional and Sidma has seen many dimensions of it:jealousy,respect,trust,anger,submission etc.

Many couples married for 50 years do not see many of the dimensions or nurture love-not because their love is not true but merely because the circumstances never really caused them to examine the different dimensions.Life and circumstances have thrown Sidma time and again into facing all these dimensions and grow up as individuals.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Every woman deserves a choice whether she be a wife, a daughter, sister, a mother grandmother.......or an aunt...... or a girlfriend...does not matter
He has give her the freedom to make the choice ...whoever she chooses...decision will be hers to make.....
He has stoically stood by her........putting her happiness above his......He is a gentleman..and he has my vote.......😊

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