Why doesnt anyone see Ridhima's fault?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Watched bits and pieces of some episodes recently.. am a little foxed! 😍

I understand Ridhima's angst against Sid is really an outpour of her anger, frustration and despair with Armaan's rejection of her but is that really an excuse for her behaviour and everyone's tacit and not-so-tacit support of her.

Many people go through heartbreak and being jilted, the strong ones get over it and find a new purpose in life but there are some, like Ridhima, who allow the experience to embitter them.

From what I remember from reading the updates, it was Ridhima who instigated this battle. In any case she seems to suffer from a chronic case of "shoot first and ask later". She accused Sid of molestation when he was trying to help her and deliberately sent him to jail. Remember she sent Armaan to jail for something that he had not done, only to realise later how wrong she was. But you can't always apologise and make things better. If Sid is crass and ferocious in his rebuttal, she is responsible for instigating that.

If I am not wrong, even the basketball match was her idea,

(and I may be since I did not watch the episode) , as was the condition of blackening his face. She hit at his male pride and he retaliated with a condition that would hurt her female vanity – Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!! Yet, everyone is appalled at his behaviour and not hers.

Smashing a cake in his face was completely unprovoked, even though a reaction of a stinging pride hurt by Sid's denouement of her as garbage and a forceful reminder of a similar humiliation at Armaan's hands. I was appalled by Keerti's blatant favouritism in supporting Ridhima.😭 Granted she couldn't put down a senior doctor in front of the interns, but I see no one trying to talk sense into Ridhima. Everyone is busy telling Sid to behave himself! Beware Sid, that's what you get when you mess with the dean's daughter! 😆

Ridhima's character, from the start, has been a little sanctimonious and holier-than-thou but now she's quite dislikeable. Sure she's been through a lot and no one deserves to be spurned especially for the reason she was...but as they say "aur bhi gham hai jamane mein".

People who stay in glass houses should not throw stones. If she doesn't have the courage to deal with the fallout of her actions, she shouldn't start something. She's started the battle, she must be ready to face the opposition and what it doles out!

Am waiting to see what Sid does – atta boy but just be careful, the dice are loaded against you! 😭 😭

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clars thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ok i Really do not want to comment on riddhimas character but i seriously wana applaud u for the way you have written the post 👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't dislike Riddhima , really. I oscillate between liking and disliking her. Her character is rather complicated.

But yes, I agree that Riddhima is responsible... completely responsible for all that Sid is doing to her. She slapped him , insulted him , sent him to prison , accused him of molestation. Any self-respecting man will do exactly what Sid is doing. And people blindly supporting Riddzie , a la Keerti are only making Sid hate Riddzie more than ever. 🤔

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Posted: 15 years ago
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nothing new about riddhima character

yeah for the basketball it was not her AN atul riddhima and keerti weer talking amongst themselves that they were the best and those days were memorable and then sid overhears it and says they are the best where keerti say then let have a BB match who win will be the best
and the BET riddhima called sid a kid where he remembered tam calling him a kid so he first put a challenge saying that if this kid win he kisses and then ridd put a bet afterward
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I actuly don't know what she is doind....she is acting like a teenager
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Really like your post. Its exactly whats been going through my mind since their battle began.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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seriously yaar riddhima is toooooo much . sid is only giving rxn on her action but she is like she wants that fight
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly. This new Riddhima doesn't behave like someone who's been through so much. She has been through one very intense relationship that ended badly. She has been through a horrific episode, needed treatment, long recuperation. Where is the sense of perspective, the seriousness, the weight that such tragedy gives a human being? 😲
She's behaving like a cross between a spoilt teenage diva who knows her father is powerful and a vengeful fury. what on earth has Sid done to deserve all this? I find it disturbing that she should be so ready to abuse her position as a senior doctor to give someone else a hard time. But then that was a problem I had with the earlier Riddhima as well - she never knew where the ethical line was! 😔
Frankly I don't like how Sid is behaving either. He's never been very mature or well behaved but Tamanna at least kept him WANTING to behave better even if she was a touch dull herself. Now the whole clash is turning too silly and I'm not liking either very much these days. 😕
I thought the CVs were going to do a nice older woman - younger man take on the Sid-Rid case. As far as I can see, both their mental ages are around 16 given her sexual pique and his aggression.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly ... she dnt even resembling the character of Riddhima in any terms..why cant this stupid CV's make a beautiful love story to Sid with some other one(like Tamanna) ... instead of this senseless track!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: clars

ok i Really do not want to comment on riddhimas character but i seriously wana applaud u for the way you have written the post 👍🏼

Thanks for the compliment!

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