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Posted: 14 years ago
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@bbbccc...... sorry forgot your name😃


Ya me too after marriage.....true love & bonding will begin between prem -Nandini & other family members....ya Sumathi is a imp & strong charecter in orginal.....wait & watch in DSDV,Prem is cute charecter unlike orginal 😍

Just hope they don't butcher charecters🤢 ....keeping fingers crossed😊

Loved both the episodes...no dragging & I feel CVS want to go to main concept soon but with right pace
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eksie

Hey there Laila ...

Sorry .. but I don't quite agree with you. I don't think there was anything 'uncreative' about the introduction. Rather, I thought it had a normal and natural flow .. not too hatke (or else it would look unrealistic) ... nor too dramatic and definitely nothing OTT about it.
I don't quite believe in the concept of 'love at first sight' .. and do think a person needs to know the other well, to come to such major decisions in life. But I don't deny it either .. I do think it happens with people ... they see someone and just know that this is the right person for him/her! Guess its called INSTINCT? If you look at it from another angle .. I like the fact that Prem knows what he wants .. he's not confused about the kind of girl he thinks is perfect for him.
Prem tells his mom that she lives in the 18th century .. and he does not believe in going to see the girl .. which was right on his part. He just said to her that he does not believe in arranged marriages ... he believes that one needs to be in love with the person to marry her. And seeing Nandini .. he fell in love .. coz he knows what he wants .. and he saw it in Nandini, in one glance.
I think it was rather cute ... And also, Gaurav just does it so brilliantly .. you can't help but believe that the character is in love! 😳
Its just been 3 episodes... I don't think we can write it off so soon. Those who have watched the original Tamil show ... say its a good concept. Now it depends on how they execute it in Hindi. According to me .. so far so good! I'm enjoying the show very much ... Gaurav just makes everything worthwhile 😳

Can you tell me what was normal about it?
Do you have ANY scientific evidence to show that relationships are based on "instinct" or as you call is "love at first sight.:" Seriously, there are a whole gament of studies on relationships, love and romance - I even took a Masters Level course on relationships and did not find ONE study to support this concept. Altough there are a number of fairy stories that do come to mind...
And like I said, this character clearly lives on another planet since he has "fallen in love" with a face or an idea and knows nothing of what falling in love really means. That is not love. It's called fancying someone's face.
Yep, and the first three episodes tell me the show is very uncreative hence the reason I will most likely not be watching it.
If if George Clooney, Keanu Reeves and Leonardo DiCaprio showed up on this show, I still wouldn't watch it. Seriously, I can only look so long at a pretty face and this Gaurav guy is NOT pretty to me.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: 10on10

LOL!! Does anyone really get "what is love"? It varies for each individual I guess... I believe you dont believe in "love at first sight"... no problem, but I do and I dont find it strange that he fell in love and he wants to marry her! As far as judging a person just by their face, I think its not true... the hero might have come across many a pretty face, but he "felt" a connection with the heroine... A good friend once quoted Kalil Gibran, that made a lot of sense about love at first sight - "It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations"

So far, I've liked how the story is progressing, so I'm going to watch it. I hope there are many more viewers who think like me :)

Kalil Gibran is a poet and poets are full of fanciful ideas about love and romance. Most of which has NOTHING to do with what is reality.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fj08

i do not agree with the topic here... i think the show has great content, they are showing a boy who wanted to fall in love and not just marry who ever his mother picked out for him, he had not fallen in love till he saw a girl in a busy intersection... so why can he not fall in love there, if u believe in love at first sight... then thats what he experienced... he saw a girl and fell for her


it would have been easier for him if she had not been at the house he had gone to, then he could have said no to that girl and searched for the other one but when he did find her at the house, he wanted to make sure his mother knew that she was the girl he was interested in

his mother was clever enough to bring the sis in law to the side and talk to her about nandini, and if nandini had been married she would have known there and then, prems reaction then would have been a different story but right now his only concern is getting the girl he likes, is he selfish, spoiled? maybe but not unrealistic

also since we know that there is a bigger story behind the girl, this is just the filler to get to that story by showing the extent to which prem is mad about her right now will give way to a great story about how he deals with her past... i m very interested in finding out that story

He didn't fall in love. He looked at a face, had a lustful emotional desire of fancifulness and decided he would get married. Kind of like a guy who goes in a candy store, likes a pretty wrap and decides this is the candy he will eat for the rest of his life. He does not even know what is consists off.
The rest of the post is a summary of the story.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gauravfan477

Well I agree with Eksie & Tanu.......

I beleive "Love is Blind" & "Marriages are made in heaven"

Well I heard real life stories said by real Couples that they fallen in love at first sight.😳...So for me I think it is something like instincts or say 6th sense and in most of cases it is the boy who cuts the ice...well I saw it on a reality show on American channel.....Surprisingly in this country people are not conservative like in India but still they beleive in First love and I feel "Always the First Impression is the best Impression" so it comes out naturally and love is a emotion...so it can come any time.Yes love is commitment tooo ie Marriage and like Elders say love grows by each passing year stronger.❤️Since I'am married.well I can say quite confidently bcoz I have seen many relation & LOVE is Universal & it can be with your Kids too


Well in the show I did not find it odd....Prem falling for Nandini bcoz this incident happens in real life.As for Prem he is shon as stubborn,laadla,close to mom-Dad & I feel they brought this scene to show how much Prem is madly in love with Nandini...will be more interesting & dramatc when her Past is revealed ...then will be testing time of Prem's love for Nandini ...and they are capturing beautifully...well for Dr Kalyani's charecter she is straightforward & independent ...takes all decisions herself sometimes not discussing with Gautham......she is a loving mom & want best for them
In real life younger sisters are kept away when the boy comes to see the elder one....actually heard real life incident from my friends...and even my mom told real life incidents where younger ones are preferred over the older one but luckily I'am only daughter..so no probs😆

Well coming to the show...my pov is "A show should be entertaining with positive story with good morale ".Well DSDV is story between the unique loving bond shared between Saas-Bahu, so they are not dragging the story with Prem wooing Nandini...and the real concept starts after the marriage...So they are going in good pace with the story and I feel Prem is behaving like any 24 year old and well i know Marriages arranged and couples married in 3 days in India when boy works abroad...So in real life when this can happen.... why not Prem fall in love in 2 days😊

Just my POV....enjoy the show it is good...since i have seen the orginal.I can confidently say U would love the story👍🏼

Jasmine

A lot of people like fairy stories and this is a fairy story. When we start believing in fairy stories as real and a true possiblity of life, that's when we need to be concerned. This show is far from reality and as long as you believe it you will be safe. I hope that is the case for you😉.
And you compare arranged marriages with falling in love ???? You are comparing apples with toothpaste!😕
By the way, if they wanted to make things happen fast, they could have had them show up married. Why even subject us to this stuff? A good romance, well written - NEVER drags.
And how much of this happy relationship between daughter and mother-in-law can they show? This I am curious to see as none of the shows on Zeetv have anything to do with their titles.
Edited by Laila2009 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gauravfan477

@bbbccc...... sorry forgot your name😃



Ya me too after marriage.....true love & bonding will begin between prem -Nandini & other family members....ya Sumathi is a imp & strong charecter in orginal.....wait & watch in DSDV,Prem is cute charecter unlike orginal 😍

Just hope they don't butcher charecters🤢 ....keeping fingers crossed😊

Loved both the episodes...no dragging & I feel CVS want to go to main concept soon but with right pace

Hi Jas its Veena.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gardes

Laila, funny running into you here...

Like you I too feel that I need to leave my brain behind when watching Indian Telly serials. Same, same with each new show. I watched the show while cooking and am willing to give it a few more episodes. If it clicks, I will continue to watch. If it does not, I am outta here. Nothing exciting left to watch on TV. No uniqueness, no substance, poor concepts and poor dialogues abound.

Unfortunately Grades, few people will look at this post with delight. Indian audiences still believe in "love at first sight" as a reality and a possibility. Personally I think it shows the writers have no creativity or knowledge of what is the basis of a relationship. While people might like the show because it shows a "good" relationship between the daughter and daughter-in-law, people find the concept original. The question that this brings to mind is HOW are they going to write a story on this topic? Will it be an endless array of bullying with MIL jumping in to defend DIL? That's about all the can do. After a while that topic is going to run dry. Maybe I have been watching too much HBO.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bbbccc

Jas loved the way you said, US/UK guys marrying in 3 days why can't Prem fall in love in 2 days Oops added second one, since got error while typing...😕

Because marriage and love are TWO different concepts. You don't have to be in love to be married to someone - we have ENOUGH arranged and/or forced marriages to support that concept. Sure they can show what they want. They could have had an arranged marriage, girl shows up, he falls in love with her and they get married. Why waste time with all of this stuff with her being the sister of the girl he went to see? The point is that this is uncreative and unreal. And for me this is ultra boring and turned me of the show in the first episode.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gauravfan477

@bbbccc...... sorry forgot your name😃



Ya me too after marriage.....true love & bonding will begin between prem -Nandini & other family members....ya Sumathi is a imp & strong charecter in orginal.....wait & watch in DSDV,Prem is cute charecter unlike orginal 😍

Just hope they don't butcher charecters🤢 ....keeping fingers crossed😊

Loved both the episodes...no dragging & I feel CVS want to go to main concept soon but with right pace

Hold on here, "true love and bonding" will begin after marriage????!!!! So what just happened, this guy didn't marry love then? And are you admiting that what happened was not LOVE and this man married a woman he didn't love or hardly know.
Also, this idea that true love and bonding happens aftewards actually is not love. It's called, I'm married with you. Society has told me that I am now stuck with you or else. So I might as well get to tolerate you - that's not love. That's called settling with someone.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

He didn't fall in love. He looked at a face, had a lustful emotional desire of fancifulness and decided he would get married. Kind of like a guy who goes in a candy store, likes a pretty wrap and decides this is the candy he will eat for the rest of his life. He does not even know what is consists off.
The rest of the post is a summary of the story.


so falling in love at first sight is basically not love but lusting after a pretty face or body

i am not looking for reality content in the show, i would watch reality tv if i wanted to do that which i do not...i want to see a story told in an interesting manner, to me the story is being told interestingly... i will watch it till it holds my interest when it doesnt i ll stop watching it

just sharing my views about the topic

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