backstabbing... - Page 4

Originally posted by: Kavyaarora

I agree to your each and every point and I truely think parth shorvari are not at fault too.

But i dont agree whatever you have written in @bold?? Like Teni shouldn't barge into their house and she has no any right to barge into someone's place. I have seen that episode too and i dont think whatever Teni did at that time, was wrong considering the situations she was facing at that time. She had Parth shorvari's child in her womb; her visa got cancelled; on top of that Parth-Shorvari were not answering her calls...in that situation, what should a girl do??

Coming to Parth Shorvari.; yes they both have told so many lies to their family. But i dont think they are at fault in all these situations. Their family members have created such a situation in the house that except speaking lie to them, they didnt have any other way.

None of them is at fault. Their (PaRi and Teni) circumstances were never in their favour. Yes the only thing i didnt like in previous episode was that Shorvari shouldnt ask Aman to leave. Rest; they all are my favourite characters and I am sure PaRi will be the one who would support Aman Teni relation in the future. And i think That's how their dil chasp rishta will build up in the show.

So Relax guys. Lets wait and watch, what's going to happen in today's episode😊

Kavya@ I never said she was wrong in going to PaRi's house. She was in a dilemma that particular moment and also a disbelief that what if PaRi leave her behind and go to US alone. I also remember that, She tried calling them but since the family will keep PaRi's phones away from them she won't be able to reach them or confront them directly. So she walks into their house. But what she could've done is say something else to PaRi's family other than lying that she was Shorvari's cousin. I simply wanted to make a point how her entry happened abruptly without prior thinking and how it led to further complications of lies from the trio.

Palie@ I don't say that PaRi are right in convincing Aman against pursuing Teni, or forcing him to leave their house when he and Teni could really have a chance of having a family together and thus attain happiness in the process. I agree they shouldn't be doing this to AmNi for their own selfish reasons related to their baby or fear of their lie getting exposed among their family. But that's why its always maintained by PaRi fans that these two are not saints, and are imperfect as any normal person can be. That's their basic human flaw of selfishness that's making them do that. I'm not hesitant in agreeing with that, even though I'm a PaRi fan.

@Sudha : it's totally okay. Even i don't expect the characters to be mahaan. The main reason why I love Teni's character is because she isn't some mahaanta ki murat...I love her because she is real and has probably done morally questionable things and yet is a kind hearted girl. No one is perfect.

Palie@ I see their weakness as the way their characters are written. If Teni is written loud, aman charming, I feel Parth and Shorvari are written meek and submissive in their characters. Not all characters will stand up for themselves all the time, if at all they did the show won't be running. There has to be flaws with which the show is dragged as much as possible.

Parth couldn't leave his love Shorvari on his family's plea, and I feel he wants to make up for his rebellious act during his wedding by being over submissive towards his family's wishes now. And Shorvari has the ultimate guilt of separating Parth from his family who was loved by one and all in his family. And maybe that's making them both take whatever shit was thrown their way by them.
Human emotions are really complicated and guilt is one strong emotion similar to anger which can make people do many things which they wouldn't have done otherwise.

As for their act with Aman, I think both of them do feel bad and regret over this. In fact there was a dialogue from Shorvari that she feels bad for what she's doing to Aman. Right then Teni was also supporting PaRi. It's natural for people to do something wrong and then regret over it seeing the repurcussions that's been caused due to their actions. I'm sure PaRi will reflect over it when the time comes, since they're basically good hearted people.
At the same time, I don't find Teni without any flaws, she has showed her insensitivity quite a few times, so far. It's just your perception and mine differs.

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

@Sudha : it's totally okay. Even i don't expect the characters to be mahaan. The main reason why I love Teni's character is because she isn't some mahaanta ki murat...I love her because she is real and has probably done morally questionable things and yet is a kind hearted girl. No one is perfect.

My main problem with Parth & Shorvori as characters is that they NEED to stand up for themselves. The Bhanushalis treated them like shit and yet they're bending over to please them. In the process, they told all these lies that were not required in the first place. I don't agree with what Parth and Shorvori did that day with Aman. It was insensitive on their part and I just want them to reflect on it. Because thats what people in real life do, they make mistakes but they also reflect on them. That is what I want. The same goes for Teni, in future if she does something that I don't agree with, I'd want her to reflect on her actions because i don't expect the characters to be perfect.

@sudha & rashmi : I think I just see things from a different perspective. I feel that the Bhanushalis never deserved what Parth & Shorvori are doing for them in the first place! They accepted Shorvori only because she is pregnant with their family's heir. They don't care about her as an individual, they only care about their heir and PaRi need to realise that. Especially Parth, he should have taken a stand for his wife when his wife was being treated horribly by his family. Pulling a rebellious act by marrying her against the family's wishes and then acting meek and without a spine to please the family isn't the way to go.

Today's episode proves who is selfish and backstabbing person

Hahahah I knew it. PaRi lovers got the chance to talk about Teni now after watching Today's episode. Just kidding.

Kavya@ Today also i stick to my earlier stance. Teni proved to be as normal as any realistic girl would be in her stage. She chose to say yes for Aman, only for her future safety. This is her flaw. She used to go behind money, currently she is after social security, and both are for her future welfare. Nothing wrong in her thinking, But only the timing is wrong. However I'm very glad she's confessing her real identity to Aman tomorrow, that's really a growth in her..

I'm happy that PaRi were clearly shown regretting their action towards Aman... They're good people with flaws which is proved time and again...

I'm not a fan of aman and teni as a couple, but shovori isn't wrong in her decision. Aman, is causing stress for teni. And teni already an emotional rack because of the baby. So stressing herself over love, And with amen in the way, theirs a chance teni might want to start a family with him meaning keeping the baby and raising it with aman.

Originally posted by: SudHaVeN-

Kavya@ Today also i stick to my earlier stance. Teni proved to be as normal as any realistic girl would be in her stage. She chose to say yes for Aman, only for her future safety. This is her flaw. She used to go behind money, currently she is after social security, and both are for her future welfare. Nothing wrong in her thinking, But only the timing is wrong. However I'm very glad she's confessing her real identity to Aman tomorrow, that's really a growth in her..

I'm happy that PaRi were clearly shown regretting their action towards Aman... They're good people with flaws which is proved time and again...