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Originally posted by: snowflakes2119

The backlash is misdirected . The real villian is hiding behind a thin veil. Many are aware of it. Still they selectively blame the characters for their wrongdoings. The true vamp is surrogacy and the situation arising due to it.

Had PaRi and Teni could have realised the complications involving the process; they could have given a rethinking. But PaRi's helplessness and Teni's ambition, fettered them together for a certain period.

None of the characters in the show have got a larger than life image. They are human of ordinary characteristics. Perhaps the cvs intend to showcase the side effects of surrogacy through the growing misunderstandings between the couple and the surrogate. Apparently, Makers want to highlight, Surrogate as an individual with her own ambitions likes and dislikes. Hence the party borrowing her womb, has got to treat her with sensitivity and utmost care. Giving impetus to her individualism, expecting within limits.

Modest PaRi suddenly find themselves in a delicate situation. The reason being Aman and Teni relationship. PaRi are in doldrums. Due to their possessiveness for the child, they are getting misunderstood as selfish. They are exactly behaving like an ordinary couple. In their concern for the child, they have turned oblivious of the surrogate's personal life..

Memories are short! A single unpleasant behaviour is capable of wiping out all the goodness . Similar is with PaRi. All their sensibility and support towards Teni got erased for their objection on Aman Teni partnership. For parents their child is most precious hence issue involved is of greatest importance. As expecting Parents, for PaRi the prime concern is their child. Undermining the surrogate's future they seem to be overengaged in retaining Teni as a single woman until the birth of the baby.

If we could observe the changing equations in the relationship, we can find that the story, very recently has found its direction. The dilchasp rishta incorporates emotions of love, trust, care, acrimony, resentment and of course friendship.

Very well said...👏 👍🏼

Originally posted by: NatalyMusketeer

@bold: that's a horrible situation...😛
Joking aside, it's obviously that in this forum any kind of criticism is forbidden when it comes to Shorvori or Parth, one gets almost the impression these two are two saints... and Teni, Teni is only the surrogate mother and until handing over the child, she has to do what her customers demand from her because she will be paid for this pregnancy of course... and everything what Parth&Shorvori does for Teni, they are actually doing for their child, this has been emphasized already several times by PaRians itself... but never mind, there's no more need to bash Teni's fans... as for me, I got it Buddy...

Criticism is ofcourse accepted here, but as PaRi fans, we will always defend Shorvari. Why shouldn't she be defended when she is partially blamed for everything? You're against surrogacy, you've made it a point here. You always taunt Shorvari alone in this surrogacy deal, that she is paying Teni for renting her womb which is why she has all the rights to do whatever she wants to do with Teni. Which is where the need for defending her comes. Shorvari chose surrogacy out of family pressure. She never wanted to insult another women by renting her womb for the price of money nor she chose Teni herself for her own selfish purposes. Parth chose her and till date he has asked his wife to trust him on this choice of his. But I don't see you mentioning anything on Parth's attitude over this surrogacy issue.

Shorvari isn't a saint, we accept that. If she was anything near a saint, she wouldn't have forced Parth to sleep with Teni, an outrageous obligation which she forced Parth into without his mutual consent. If at all the roles had been reversed women fans would have burnt Parth alive. Shorvari was very selfish and inhumane. We (as in PaRi fans) all agree with that completely without any denial.

At the same time, we also want to see the same kinda acceptances from you that Teni isn't a saint either. She didn't accept for this surrogacy deal out of her pity for PaRi or generosity. She is money minded and she agreed to do this only for money. And now also she is accepting to marry Aman for similar reasons as well. I don't think she's having any kinds of feelings for Aman as of now. Shorvari assuming that Teni would never fall for Aman could've been wrong, but she had all the rights to ask him leave their house as his presence was bringing new complications into their lives. But one thing needs to be understood here, that she isn't doing this to spoil Teni's life but to manage the situation before it can get any more complicated.

And I for one know something very clearly, if PaTe had indeed slept that fateful day and Teni had got pregnant with that, many people including you, would have been against Aman pursuing Teni all this while as Teni is pregnant with her and Parth's kid and AmNi relationship would have been ridiculous. As far as I've seen your earlier posts, before Aman entered the picture or If I must say ever since you believed that he is sincere in his love for Teni, shorvari should get lost, leaving path for PaTe union. And this double standard is what makes us get over protective of Shorvari on many occasions.

Originally posted by: SudHaVeN-

Criticism is ofcourse accepted here, but as PaRi fans, we will always defend Shorvari. Why shouldn't she be defended when she is partially blamed for everything? You're against surrogacy, you've made it a point here. You always taunt Shorvari alone in this surrogacy deal, that she is paying Teni for renting her womb which is why she has all the rights to do whatever she wants to do with Teni. Which is where the need for defending her comes. Shorvari chose surrogacy out of family pressure. She never wanted to insult another women by renting her womb for the price of money nor she chose Teni herself for her own selfish purposes. Parth chose her and till date he has asked his wife to trust him on this choice of his. But I don't see you mentioning anything on Parth's attitude over this surrogacy issue.

Shorvari isn't a saint, we accept that. If she was anything near a saint, she wouldn't have forced Parth to sleep with Teni, an outrageous obligation which she forced Parth into without his mutual consent. If at all the roles had been reversed women fans would have burnt Parth alive. Shorvari was very selfish and inhumane. We (as in PaRi fans) all agree with that completely without any denial.

At the same time, we also want to see the same kinda acceptances from you that Teni isn't a saint either. She didn't accept for this surrogacy deal out of her pity for PaRi or generosity. She is money minded and she agreed to do this only for money. And now also she is accepting to marry Aman for similar reasons as well. I don't think she's having any kinds of feelings for Aman as of now. Shorvari assuming that Teni would never fall for Aman could've been wrong, but she had all the rights to ask him leave their house as his presence was bringing new complications into their lives. But one thing needs to be understood here, that she isn't doing this to spoil Teni's life but to manage the situation before it can get any more complicated.

And I for one know something very clearly, if PaTe had indeed slept that fateful day and Teni had got pregnant with that, many people including you, would have been against Aman pursuing Teni all this while as Teni is pregnant with her and Parth's kid and AmNi relationship would have been ridiculous. As far as I've seen your earlier posts, before Aman entered the picture or If I must say ever since you believed that he is sincere in his love for Teni, shorvari should get lost, leaving path for PaTe union. And this double standard is what makes us get over protective of Shorvari on many occasions.

Hiii guys. I am kavya from chandigarh; a new member on indiaforum page (on DSDT forum too😉)

Hey Kavyarora@ Welcome to IF, and Dsdt forum!

No serious issues here😊. Being cool only. It's a fiction and these are reel characters after all. But the comment on criticism is forbidden part hurt me. It was for the fans like us.

We have had major difference of opinions but never do we treat the opposites like some unwelcome people in this forum. Thus had to reply our side of defence.

Originally posted by: Kavyaarora

Hiii guys. I am kavya from chandigarh; a new member on indiaforum page (on DSDT forum too😉)

Hey everyone!

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

I understand Parth & Shorvori's insecurity regarding their baby...but they need to understand that Teni's life is her business...they can't interfere in her personal life...they need to understand that Teni has all the right to seek for a partner ...Her marrying Aman has nothing to do with their baby's future. She will give back the baby to it's parents once it's born... Teni's personal life doesn't need to be compromised with just because she carries their child in her womb ..She is fulfilling her commitment and can continue to do so even if she does get married to Aman while she's pregnant.. There's literally no reason to interfere in her personal life imo as long as she's fulfilling her commitment.

@ TM- Even I like Teni-Aman jodi but we should not forget the main concept of the show. It is about the dilchasp rishta of the three main leads and I wish it remains the same till the end. At first when Shorvari asked Aman to leave even I felt bad. But when we think about it Shorvari is right on her part. They are trusting the life of their unborn child with a stranger and it is quite natural for them to worry about it. Any normal parents will be worried about their kid and we can't blame them for that.