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Posted: 13 years ago
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I sincerely hope that it isn't a love triangle in its conventional sense. Because Viraj doesn't deserve her, and if they played around with the notion of Jhanvi returning to him - then it'd be the wrong message to send out to the viewers. Considering that we're talking about a man who has domestic violence traits in his persona, among other psychological issues.
The thing is that men like Viraj are mentally imbalanced. Even though treatment, in some cases, can help - the question remains whether a woman, who has suffered what Jhanvi has suffered, should return to a man who might one day fall back into his old habit because something or someone in his surroundings triggered the monster.
Now, as for the "destined to be together" part, I have to disagree. Maybe because I believe in people being able to fall in love again, find happiness in someone else as well as their first love. Jhanvi trusted Viraj, fell in love with, gave him many chances to change - but his past has shaped him and I fail to see any redeeming qualities in him. Not any that might last. In the end, I believe that he had his chances to keep her and he failed her. Immensely. He doesn't deserve her. And no woman should return to a man like Viraj.
She deserves someone better than him. Someone she can trust and who would support her, boot her self-esteem, allow her to be outspoken without fearing a physical or verbal attack.
Raghav, from what I've seen so far, is a better man than Viraj.
I think that some people are so mentally imbalanced that it becomes an every day struggle for them to fight the monster within - and that's only if they truly want to fight it because they're convinced that the monster is, in fact, a monster and not a good thing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ TM: Agreed and Yes they (RajVi) are gona be together...if things can go right in right direction...no further comments from me.
Simple and straight forward opinion without offencing anyone: "Extramarital affairs don't work in indian tellyvision" atleast they don't work for me..whatever the excuses are..i am very firm in my stand.. if Viraaj has to end up with Priya and Raghav has to end up Jhanvi/Siya..Show is already OVER for me..
Edited by Krrish87_sweet - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shazna123

Just curious, would you go back to a guy like Viraj? Say he did change, could you totally belive him and wouldn't you always wonder what if he becomes horrible to you again?

I love the character of Viraj, it's so complex, but till this day I find it shocking that people believe Jhanvi is destined to be with Viraj and that she should forgive him for everything he put her through..
Yes they look good together but you should put yourselfs in her shoes and wonder would you be able to forgive such a man? A man who beats you and burns you, and makes you cry on a daily basis.

Women shouldn't have to put up with such behaviour.

He might be ill, but to me his actions are unforgiveable.. God might forgive such a man, since God forgives all but I don't think any human would ever forgive such a man.


u echoed my words..ditto..nothing more
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Posted: 13 years ago
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actually i wanted to say a thing more..one of my frnds aunt had husband like viraj.. she struggled with him for yrs..in the end that man started attacking even their children..but in front the world u can never find a more perfect,more lovable person..she tried her level best to change him..but in the end had to move out due to his unending abuses..today she lives independently..he runs bak of her begging her to come back..but watever he has gone through will never make her go back..

if they want to potray reality through the serial..then a woman will never go back to a husband like viraj however gud he becums...but as its a soap.whose storyline change according to popularity meter..nothing can be said
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The simple truth is,
ONCE AN ABUSER ALWAYS AN ABUSER!!!
Jhanvi deserves to be loved as a woman and she will find that only in Raghav.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No offence..But Once A Betryal Always a betrayal..and that applies to both! Men and Women. as far as his abuse are concern..he can be treated and lead a normal life..and as far as her forgiveness is concern she has and had always a choice of accept or reject..
Edited by Krrish87_sweet - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17

There will be a triangle of sorts...in the end we know that eventually Viraj will learn the truth about Jhanvi being alive and will come after her. Raghav will have to help her and stand as her protector. Who will win? I'm hoping Raghav and Jhanvi.

Viraj is undoubtedly good looking, he has a certain style and charm that is almost magnetic...
Raghav can hold his own in front of him...
But this is not a beauty contest about who looks good with who...nor is this drama about extra marital affairs...nor is it a typical indian serial...where we say I do no matter what and then death does us part.
This is about domestic violence...a very real problem in every corner of the world.
A woman walking out of such an abusive relationship...learning to live and even love again at some point in her life is not having an extra marital affair...after all there is something called divorce. It's a word that is frowned upon in our culture...but sometimes it becomes the only way out.
If this drama is attempting to depict something that happens in real life...and convey a positive message against domestic violence...then there is no way that Viraj and Jhanvi can or should happen. It just would be illogical.
Viraj is someone with a medical/mental condition, its not like loosing weight or giving up cigarettes...he can't just quit it.
Even if at some point he gets treatment and manages to control his condition...how can Jhanvi forget what he did to her?...I mean just look at her...he's shattered her confidence to the point where she can't even cross the street let alone look at another man in the eye.
And are we forgetting...she had a miscarriage too. A woman may forgive and forget a lot of things...but that is a very difficult thing to put behind.
When Viraj finds her...it's not going to be "Oh Honey I missed you...let's go back to our house with the white picket fence and raise our 2.5 children"...It will be vishwaas ghat...he will be blood thirsty...just look at what he did to the maid today...🤢
I would not want to be in Jhanvi's shoes when Viraj comes...unless Raghav is standing in front of me.
In the end...I'm guessing one of these 2 (Viraj and Raghav) will be killed.
Edited: No matter how many highs or lows the heroine hits...in the end she always chooses the Hero...who in my POV is Raghav.
Edited by ummesulaiman - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ummesulaiman Well Only Assertive Comments are allowed NO NEED to Bash Viraaj or Viraaj fans into ur comment. It's been said several times in the forum that he is AntiHero he is not villain. Also Story writer have stated him as AntiHero so let's not forget the difference.
I hope u don't bring in Viraaj fans in to ur comments from next time. It's against IF rules.
Edit: all ur quotations statements are also Offencive. Be assertive.
Edited by Krrish87_sweet - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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good 4 d forum activity...🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MsLuscious



Hey friends my name is sarah and i am a silent reader of this forum never posted in this forum bt today i cudnt stop myself from posting here i have saw many people have different opinions about both characters raghav and viraj some likes viraj while other likes raghav therefore they want their favourite actor to be the lead i like both of them both are giving their best in the show and both deserves appreciation and fans love now if we talk abt da lead i thnk its viraj coz he n janvi are destined together and his chrcter wil turn into positive s0on how? Dat depends maybe he wil get hospitalzd or maybe due to s0mthng else bt one thng m sure abt is janvi destiny is with viraj. . . .

y should jahnvi go back to viraj???
and y call it a love triangle????
fact is jahnvi never loved viraj...
it was always her obligation...she lost watever feelings she had for him after he kept on torturing her day after day...night after night!
coz i've watched this show from the second week and wenever i saw jahnvi try to care for viraj..it was always"unhone mere liye aur mere parivaar ke liye bahut kuch kiya hai"
wat will u call it ?
love...??????
thats not love in my dictionary...its obligation...
he has done something for me...i should do it for him too
has viraj with his deeds left any ray of hope for jahnvi?
has he left anything to which jahnvi can cling her hopes on and even dream of going back to him?
noo...he hasn't
every human dreams of a life which is better...more promising and more loving than one's past...
not everybody gets such an opportunity...
but...if jahnvi gets it in the form of raghav...
y won't she accept it????
destiny definitely matters...but it lies in ur own hands to change ur destiny...and raghav will help sia to change hers!

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