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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Dilbole_ShiOmRu

He is the father of that in born kid as per Gauri's claim and has right to decide.
Same right which Gauri got to decide for Om's life.
Same right which Gauri got to stake Om's emotions, feelings his family's feelings and best of all his reputation to save his life. Yes she has staked Om's reputation. See what is image of Om is portrayed in front of family that he is sleeping with a girl but is not ready to accept the relationship or he is using and throwing a girl after making a relationship with her. Even-though none of his family member said on the face that but they might be thinking in same way.
In a same way Om is trying to save the life of unborn child. He wants to protect that kid from world's humiliation. He wants to protect the kid from wrong upbringing of that kid by hand of woman he thinks have no character.
If Gauri has right play with emotions of Om and Om's family and infact conspire just to protect Om's life who is adult than Om too has right to decide about the kid Gauri is claiming that is his. She is lying maligning his reputation, ready to break his heart and trust one more time to save him from BM.
You are seeing he is taking decision for kid but nt seeing that even after not 100% sure that kid is his he is ready to take responsibility of kid and tolerate Gauri for 6 months not throwing Gauri saying I don't trust kid is his. What more you want to get to prove strong character and goodness of Om. He is ready to take chance even if it is 1% possibility that kid is his. His Only mistake is he is not able to trust Gauri which Gauri herself given him reasons for other than that there is nothing wrong in Om's decision because he wants to protect his family from Gauri at the same time wants to give rights to his unborn child. Even in this distrust he trust her words.
Imagine the level of trust he has on Gauri's oath(who for him is characterless, liar, gold digger) that he suspected his own conviction and character to believe that kid is his.



each and every word 👏... like i am saying,,, people r just dont wanna see the othet side of the coin mannn... 🥱 🥱

u should made a topic of ur own with this post..lolzz.. loved it... 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: -sakeena-

i dnt know kyun yeh FL fans andhe hai thy can see omkaras fault but ankhen band karte hai whn its come about gauri fault thn writer ka galti but whn om n fault phir kameena om gadha om rude om ..u guys are not evn funny


Dear if someone else has said something abt Om in some other post pls do not bring it here. Even in another post of mine u were saying few things which left me confused. According to me even if mother is gold digger for a new born child a mother is a MUST for obvious reasons. Just born children being deprived of their mother is the worst I can imagine being a daughter and a mother. And to make myself clear I joined this forum as Shrenus fan, but now I am more of Rikara/Shrenal fan.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13
om has no right to separate an infant from its mother let whoever the mother be...what if BM had drugged gauri also that day then gauri would have been pregnant for real and how cruel it is of om to say those words🤢...
and gauri is not faking it completely...whatever she is doing would have been a reality had she not stopped om that day...om would repent when he knows the truth unlike the fans blaming gauri for fake pregnancy n justifying whatever om says...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14
first of all relax!!!! so much of excitement for a non-existent kid!!! 😆
Everyone's saying that the kid is his, Gauri's carrying Om's baby,it's next scion of the Oberois, except Rudy in IB nobody said that it's her kid too.

Did she say that I will take care of the kid by myself, don't care about it, Or did she say indirectly that this kid is your responsibility?

In a way the man, I guess is freeing her from the responsibilities of raising the kid -without much further investigations he accepted the baby as his and took the responsibility of the nursing mother and the baby completely on his shoulders, he took the decision to be a single parent

And why would he accept the girl whom he don't love, instead despise her? for him even the marriage is not a marrivage.
And yet her image is not clear in front of him...and in his stance he has every right to despise her, lol he is not a super human or a saint who will know her innocence through her eyes... already in the past, this broken soul always got betaryal 'coz he tried to see pain in the eyes, now no more he could bear (alas, he is gonna get two more betrayals)


Instead of seeing it as snatching the child from a mother, why don't you guys see it as freeing her from responsibilities and burdens of his mistake???

He is blunt, can't fake it, says cynic words -but that's honesty right? He is already making her know that not to keep any hopes in this relation, better than a betrayal or broken hopes at the end, eh???

I would like to add some descriptions of Omkara, 'coz I see that people keep forgetting that-
The guy is flawed of highest order, he is not an alpha, who will make everything perfect, or will take any heavy promises or responsibilities on shoulders, he will only take up those which he knows he can fulfill efficiently, whichever promises, relations or responsibilities he is not able to take, he will say it on your face- and yes, he is very blunt, no roses or cherry in that!!!

He is perfectly imperfect -and that's his charm!


Edit - I forgot to add this one, he just got to see how a gold-digger mother Kamini treated her son (Shivaay, About Mahi can't say yet) and how another woman who became his legal mother controlling his life and feelings (separated him from his love, nastiliy) , in short how he is seeing how his brother's in a clumsy situation, dreading about when the truth strikes him how he would blow up, witnessing in the lieu from safeguarding from the truth, how he is already shattered.
So he will surely not want that future for his kid, so trying to tackle in his way


Edited by OnVanvaasMode - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

om has no right to separate an infant from its mother let whoever the mother be...what if BM had drugged gauri also that day then gauri would have been pregnant for real and how cruel it is of om to say those words🤢...
and gauri is not faking it completely...whatever she is doing would have been a reality had she not stopped om that day...om would repent when he knows the truth unlike the fans blaming gauri for fake pregnancy n justifying whatever om says...


With all due respect to your view point I want to present mine,

Its not about Omkara fans or supporting Omkara,Which father will want to keep a mother for his child whom he knows as harmful for his family,He has seen her trying to kill Buamaa though it is not true but for Gouris misfortune Omkaras timing of seeing the things were wrong but still what he has seen as of now about Gouri will definitely put a father to think of saving his child..

Mother is not the one who just give birth to the child but the one also who love her child,adored the child,protect the child from all harm , unfortunately as flawed real character Omkara is ,cant see those in Gouri and taking the necessary steps..

Being a viewer its very easy for us to see what is fact and who is in fault,but in a real life circumstances a character like Omkara with all his flaws doing exactly what an worried father of an unborn child can do..

@bold dear one polite request don't post such comments it leads to fan war..everybody is presenting their view points and we are trying to understand that..Its always good to see the other side of the coin also..😊😊


Edited by Iamsu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: OnVanvaasMode

first of all relax!!!! so much of excitement for a non-existent kid!!! 😆

Everyone's saying that the kid is his, Gauri's carrying Om's baby,it's next scion of the Oberois, except Rudy in IB nobody said that it's her kid too.

Did she say that I will take care of the kid by myself, don't care about it, Or did she say indirectly that this kid is your responsibility?

In a way the man, I guess is freeing her from the responsibilities of raising the kid -without much further investigations he accepted the baby as his and took the responsibility of the nursing mother and the baby completely on his shoulders, he took the decision to be a single parent

And why would he accept the girl whom he don't love, instead despise her? for him even the marriage is not a marrivage.
And yet her image is not clear in front of him...and in his stance he has every right to despise her, lol he is not a super human or a saint who will know her innocence through her eyes... already in the past, this broken soul always got betaryal 'coz he tried to see pain in the eyes, now no more he could bear (alas, he is gonna get two more betrayals)


Instead of seeing it as snatching the child from a mother, why don't you guys see it as freeing her from responsibilities and burdens of his mistake???

He is blunt, can't fake it, says cynic words -but that's honesty right? He is already making her know that not to keep any hopes in this relation, better than a betrayal or broken hopes at the end, eh???

I would like to add some descriptions of Omkara, 'coz I see that people keep forgetting that-
The guy is flawed of highest order, he is not an alpha, who will make everything perfect, or will take any heavy promises or responsibilities on shoulders, he will only take up those which he knows he can fulfill efficiently, whichever promises, relations or responsibilities he is not able to take, he will say it on your face- and yes, he is very blunt, no roses or cherry in that!!!

He is perfectly imperfect -and that's his charm!


Edit - I forgot to add this one, he just got to see how a gold-digger mother Kamini treated her son (Shivaay, About Mahi can't say yet) and how another woman who became his legal mother controlling his life and feelings (separated him from his love, nastiliy) , in short how he is seeing how his brother's in a clumsy situation, dreading about when the truth strikes him how he would blow up, witnessing in the lieu from safeguarding from the truth, how he is already shattered.
So he will surely not want that future for his kid, so trying to tackle in his way



Nicely summoned up 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: OnVanvaasMode

first of all relax!!!! so much of excitement for a non-existent kid!!! 😆

Everyone's saying that the kid is his, Gauri's carrying Om's baby,it's next scion of the Oberois, except Rudy in IB nobody said that it's her kid too.

Did she say that I will take care of the kid by myself, don't care about it, Or did she say indirectly that this kid is your responsibility?

In a way the man, I guess is freeing her from the responsibilities of raising the kid -without much further investigations he accepted the baby as his and took the responsibility of the nursing mother and the baby completely on his shoulders, he took the decision to be a single parent

And why would he accept the girl whom he don't love, instead despise her? for him even the marriage is not a marrivage.
And yet her image is not clear in front of him...and in his stance he has every right to despise her, lol he is not a super human or a saint who will know her innocence through her eyes... already in the past, this broken soul always got betaryal 'coz he tried to see pain in the eyes, now no more he could bear (alas, he is gonna get two more betrayals)


Instead of seeing it as snatching the child from a mother, why don't you guys see it as freeing her from responsibilities and burdens of his mistake???

He is blunt, can't fake it, says cynic words -but that's honesty right? He is already making her know that not to keep any hopes in this relation, better than a betrayal or broken hopes at the end, eh???

I would like to add some descriptions of Omkara, 'coz I see that people keep forgetting that-
The guy is flawed of highest order, he is not an alpha, who will make everything perfect, or will take any heavy promises or responsibilities on shoulders, he will only take up those which he knows he can fulfill efficiently, whichever promises, relations or responsibilities he is not able to take, he will say it on your face- and yes, he is very blunt, no roses or cherry in that!!!

He is perfectly imperfect -and that's his charm!


Edit - I forgot to add this one, he just got to see how a gold-digger mother Kamini treated her son (Shivaay, About Mahi can't say yet) and how another woman who became his legal mother controlling his life and feelings (separated him from his love, nastiliy) , in short how he is seeing how his brother's in a clumsy situation, dreading about when the truth strikes him how he would blow up, witnessing in the lieu from safeguarding from the truth, how he is already shattered.
So he will surely not want that future for his kid, so trying to tackle in his way



@bold :a very relevent question.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Iamsu


With all due respect to your view point I want to present mine,

Its not about Omkara fans or supporting Omkara,Which father will want to keep a mother for his child whom he knows as harmful for his family,He has seen her trying to kill Buamaa though it is not true but for Gouris misfortune Omkaras timing of seeing the things were wrong but still what he has seen as of now about Gouri will definitely put a father to think of saving his child..

Mother is not the one who just give birth to the child but the one also who love her child,adored the child,protect the child from all harm , unfortunately as flawed real character Omkara is ,cant see those in Gouri and taking the necessary steps..

Being a viewer its very easy for us to see what is fact and who is in fault,but in a real life circumstances a character like Omkara with all his flaws doing exactly what an worried father of an unborn child can do..

@bold dear one polite request don't post such comments it leads to fan war..everybody is presenting their view points and we are trying to understand that..Its always good to see the other side of the coin also..😊😊




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Posted: 8 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Iamsu


With all due respect to your view point I want to present mine,

Its not about Omkara fans or supporting Omkara,Which father will want to keep a mother for his child whom he knows as harmful for his family,He has seen her trying to kill Buamaa though it is not true but for Gouris misfortune Omkaras timing of seeing the things were wrong but still what he has seen as of now about Gouri will definitely put a father to think of saving his child..

Mother is not the one who just give birth to the child but the one also who love her child,adored the child,protect the child from all harm , unfortunately as flawed real character Omkara is ,cant see those in Gouri and taking the necessary steps..

Being a viewer its very easy for us to see what is fact and who is in fault,but in a real life circumstances a character like Omkara with all his flaws doing exactly what an worried father of an unborn child can do..

@bold dear one polite request don't post such comments it leads to fan war..everybody is presenting their view points and we are trying to understand that..Its always good to see the other side of the coin also..😊😊



i said only from what i read in a few comments here n there...i'm the one who say everyone have their right to express their view even on ATs when others label it as negativity...so don't preach me pl...yes since i'm not regular here everyone can pounce on me😃*how easy right*...as if there are no fan wars happening here and i'm the one instigating it in an otherwise peaceful forum ..
actually those who ask to see the other side themselves refuse to see the other side...
let omkara loathe gauri more n more and never accept her as his wife... but the child equally belongs to the mother also...if he can't stand gauri in his house then kick her out and give her the alimony...or if he cares for the child and wants to have it then he should be ready to tolerate gauri also not as his wife but as the mother of his child...it is not only gauri there are many others in his house including himself to take care of the child and keep it away from that characterless woman as much as possible, after all if gauri is preggy with his child it is his mistake also so this much of punishment he should also take rather than simply kick gauri out and have the child alone...

PS...i'm also a omkara fan and started watching this show for omkara only and gets equally irked as other om fans when he is not getting his due...and i like gauri also...but whoever i feel is wrong at a particular track i call a spade a spade...thats it...so no sugar coating of my favourites from my side...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Do you people even know how Biology works 🤔
There is something known as reproduction through which a child is born. Omkara was not in his senses and I don't think Gauri is characterless enough to accept sex from an intoxicated man (Please kep urselves away from bashing me from almost calling her characterless.. On the context, am actually defending her). And neither is she Mata Kunti to pray God and DAYUM !! A bacha appears from the sky.. For all we know, she might not even be pregnant. And what if its his plan to bring out the truth that she is not pregnant..

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