Why I don't mind on Omkara's recent portrayal

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi guys,
Firstly, I am NOT justifying Omkaara. Please realise these are characters and story- its not real so we can chill a little.

Next, if you google most of the sons of abusive fathers- no matter how close they are to their mothers,fail to become good husbands- for the simple reason that they do not know emotional bonds. And here, we had Omkara seeing Jhanvi thakurain getting burnt just as his mother did- perhaps, he would have imagined a smirking Gauri just as Svetlana.

But, he had perks of having his brothers because of whom he knew what people's feelings were and kept him reasonable. I am actually glad that he has been shown like that: whether it was his marriage (note: no one forced him, he just wanted to save a life) or it was his and chulbul's friendship or it was saving gauri from the fridge.

It still DOESN"t justify him.That I also wanted an educated fl is true, but more than that I want a strong woman- who can show Omkara that its not always black and white- to make him trust her: and to gain someone's trust (who has a low trust level on the world in general) takes more strength.

Only thing I would wish to see is Gauri loving him but refusing to be his wife- because he has crossed his limits in destrying her self respect

I read a very nice article related to bahubali: for a husband to be like amarendra bahubali; the wives need to be like Devasena, who stands up for herself!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Good analyis appy.
I dont like Omkaras behaviour these days but in some way we can understand him n d paths he travelled n d man hez now

But yes i love wat you said at last part.i want gauri to love om. But wat i want most he ahould first trust.den he should earn her love.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on analysis.
Yeah Gauri needs to stand for her respect, this might make Om realise her innocence as he himself used to say, Jo dil Ka sacha hota hai woh kisi ki b aankh main aankh daal ke baat kar sakta hai.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Good analyis appy.

I dont like Omkaras behaviour these days but in some way we can understand him n d paths he travelled n d man hez now

But yes i love wat you said at last part.i want gauri to love om. But wat i want most he ahould first trust.den he should earn her love.


Anju di: We do need to see where that behaviour is coming from. And for Gauri; I want her to both love him and acknowledge her own self respect- these are two different things. She shouldn't forgive him easily thats for sure but I dont want her belief or love to go because of that- its not needed
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: koochiekoochie

Bang on analysis.
Yeah Gauri needs to stand for her respect, this might make Om realise her innocence as he himself used to say, Jo dil Ka sacha hota hai woh kisi ki b aankh main aankh daal ke baat kar sakta hai.


Exactly, my point!

She can walk away from him- just that! And that'll hit him hard- that a girl who loves him deeply doesn't want to stay with him cz he shooed her away.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: appynehra


Exactly, my point!

She can walk away from him- just that! And that'll hit him hard- that a girl who loves him deeply doesn't want to stay with him cz he shooed her away.



But he doesnt know she loves him? He thinks she is just a user? Does he have ANY idea how crazy Gauri is about him? I doubt it. If he knew what will he do? THAT is the question! 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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But he doesnt know she loves him? He thinks she is just a user? Does he have ANY idea how crazy Gauri is about him? I doubt it. If he knew what will he do? THAT is the question! 😉


That is exactly what she has to make him realise. She has to say: that she does love him but thats not for money! And simply walk away. Even when he comes, for at least sometime, she has to say: I love you but my self respect is hurt, I cannot come.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nicepost, hope gul ammi goes through ur post
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@Appynehra:
What a moment will be if ONE Gul Heroine will stand up and say

"I Love you Mr So and So, Not for your money, not for your name, nor for your looks. Just for you! But I can't stay with you, because I respect myself too, and in this case, I have to choose my respect over you. Because you have chosen your bias and your judgment over my truth. So watch me walk away!"


THAT will be the last day of the world coz can a Gul Heroine EVER say that?
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@Appynehra:

What a moment will be if ONE Gul Heroine will stand up and say

"I Love you Mr So and So, Not for your money, not for your name, nor for your looks. Just for you! But I can't stay with you, because I respect myself too, and in this case, I have to choose my respect over you. Because you have chosen your bias and your judgment over my truth. So watch me walk away!"


THAT will be the last day of the world coz can a Gul Heroine EVER say that?


I have never followed any director/ producer as such so I can't say anything regarding this. But one thing, I have seen a few shows which have taken risks and it has worked- no idea abt Gul.

But, as for Gauri's sis-in-law: her actions were somewhat (note: somewhat) justified during her marriage but Gauri's case is different- she can simply put up an act and walk away. Though, lets see, I don't have much hopes.

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