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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.



Jhanvi could've saved everyone heck loada trouble if only she stepped up and actively did something. By not saying anything to Omkara at the right time, she unintentionally gave Omkara the signals to jump in and get tied up in all this Svetlana mess. I wouldn't compare Jhanvi's love for the two men in her life. Motherly love can move mountains but Jhanvi is so human because she is so dependent on Tej's presence in her life. I blame her condition on the people of Oberoi Mansion as well. The idea of "Oberois mein divorce ki baat nahin hoti" and all conditioned Jhanvi to be someone who can only find solace in this suffocating relationship she shares with Tej. The dymanics of Tej-Jhanvi-Omkara relationships are so screwed up..everyone is mad cuz of everyone 😆

Believe me. One of the MAJOR reasons I love Gauri is because of her idea of love being so unconditional and so devoid of expecting to get anything in return. This is how she was introduced to us and if the CVs somehow decide to change this about her, she wouldn't be Gauri anymore and by extension she wouldn't remain someone I can love and support.
Yes, Gauri has no right to force this marriage on Omkara but when did she do it? She NEVER asked Omkara to accept it so I don't get why you would bring this up here? I don't get this defensive stance about Omkara when I'm not even attacking him in the first place 😆 Love is not in the picture now but it will come here, jaega kahan? I was just talking of the possibility of Omkara's reaction when the truth will come out. When his ideas of love will come in a direct clash with Gauri's ideas. Today was just a first glimpse of it..they were just discussing theories. He has yet to see Gauri's love in actual practice and I was simply wondering how he'd react then.

I m not defending om. I was just speaking about his pov. No where I defended him. I just say forced marriage is not acceptable for me atleast so may be I m defending my idea . I hated the way om is trying to keeping marriage together . I hated the way shivika and rumya got married. And I hated ib the day when dadi chanted mantra of shadi , mangalsutra, and sindoor jaap. One thing that not wanted about om was forced marriage. But unfortunately it happened. Second thing I did not want acceptance of it for both. But unfortunately gauri accepted .
Now I just want that rikara story go in natural way. One side love and then gradual acceptance from om not because of living together forced under one roof because of so called majboori wala marriage.
I loved rumya because both were equal and denied compromise on marriage..
The reason I like Chulkara nor rikara because chulbul and om friendship is genuinely evolving under free circumstances not forced . they are sharing and caring about each other. So even chulbul get exposed I hope this majboori wala marriage remained past and om and gauri start in new way.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: loveangel94

I m not defending om. I was just speaking about his pov. No where I defended him. I just say forced marriage is not acceptable for me atleast so may be I m defending my idea . I hated the way om is trying to keeping marriage together . I hated the way shivika and rumya got married. And I hated ib the day when dadi chanted mantra of shadi , mangalsutra, and sindoor jaap. One thing that not wanted about om was forced marriage. But unfortunately it happened. Second thing I did not want acceptance of it for both. But unfortunately gauri accepted .
Now I just want that rikara story go in natural way. One side love and then gradual acceptance from om not because of living together forced under one roof because of so called majboori wala marriage.
I loved rumya because both were equal and denied compromise on marriage..
The reason I like Chulkara nor rikara because chulbul and om friendship is genuinely evolving under free circumstances not forced . they are sharing and caring about each other. So even chulbul get exposed I hope this majboori wala marriage remained past and om and gauri start in new way.



Don't you think what you are expecting is impossible to get considering this show's history and the tracks they come up with? 😆 Tbh the way I see it if this marriage will be forced on Omkara it wouldn't be from Gauri's side. But yes..this marriage will be forced on him. Ideally I'd LOVE it if the marriage remains a secret while Omkara and Gauri have to be around each other on a daily basis. This show won't ever move away from OM so Gauri will obviously be in OM once Chulbul's secret is out (though chances of that happening any time soon are slim to none)
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.



Don't you think what you are expecting is impossible to get considering this show's history and the tracks they come up with? 😆 Tbh the way I see it if this marriage will be forced on Omkara it wouldn't be from Gauri's side. But yes..this marriage will be forced on him. Ideally I'd LOVE it if the marriage remains a secret while Omkara and Gauri have to be around each other on a daily basis. This show won't ever move away from OM so Gauri will obviously be in OM once Chulbul's secret is out (though chances of that happening any time soon are slim to none)

Still I want to hope because If cv can show dad- mistress - son track and girl in disguise and befriended boy track them they can show something new in future if trp remain persistent. I want to be optimistic. Till now I have complain about show is gauri pati parameshwar rant, Svetlana excessive ss, her stupid secret and bloopers like skating.
Other than that I like show and chulKara track the most.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveangel94

Still I want to hope because If cv can show dad- mistress - son track and girl in disguise and befriended boy track them they can show something new in future if trp remain persistent. I want to be optimistic. Till now I have complain about show is gauri pati parameshwar rant, Svetlana excessive ss, her stupid secret and bloopers like skating.
Other than that I like show and chulKara track the most.



Mere toh saare hopes kab ke marr ke dafan bhi ho chuke hain 🤣 frankly i'm surprised CVs even remembered the fact that Omkara and Gauri have a very different view on practical things like love and relationships. Mujhe toh laga ka ye dono Vishwas Vishwas karke hi marr jaenge 🤣
Edited by lostmymusic. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Your post is so magical and pure. Just full on smiles and much more.🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The title pulled me here...Gauri's dialogue was today's highlight... It hit a string in my heart...and made me fall in love with her character... And your post.made.me dreamy... Well said👏... For me one is Eros the the other is Thatnos... Or better Ying and yang they balance each other... The perfect balance... I do hate her pati parshmeshwar Jaap... But then it also makes me think why does she behave like that... But when you analyse everything it makes sense.. See prayed to Shiviji to send her a guardian angel and he sent Om... He became the knight in shining armour for her who saved her from the cruel world. No matter how much he hated her she couldn't reciprocate the hate because when he saved her life she was filled with gratitude ... Such gratitude which she believes she can't return no matter what she does.. Because he was one of the rare people after her mother who did something for her.. Probably it's the psychological setup for her because of her background that if any one does anything for her she will try her level best to return it ten fold..And there she developed a soft spot for him which was nutured after coming to Mumbai and now it has become pyaar.. Staying with him she started having an understanding about him how he is a creature of circumstances... And it just made her admire him more... About Om even though I sympathize him I do find him a hypocrite.. He has a different sets of rules and norms.for each person how they are supposed to behave and this ain't fair ... But then each character had their flaws and these flaws make an essential part of the character... I always had this thing in my mind that Om hates his dad because he misbehaves with his mom... But what if he tries and analyse that be did the same with Gauri.. Keeping all the facts that he believes her to be Swetalana 2.0 version... He said her he married her because of humanity then where did the humanity go when he pushed an injured woman... Irrespective of who she was... At times I feel that trying to keep the devil at bay Om has failed to realise slowly he is impersonating the devil himself... About Gauri's ek taraffa pyaar Om may again label it as fake and motivated towards money or some of that kind.. But it ain't his fault because unconditional love for him only exists in fairytales.. All he has seen in his life his conditional love.. A trade for one emotion with another... Can't wait for Om's reaction when he reaIizes the truth ... I am done with my bakwaas 😃. PS I didn't take sides with either character it was just my POV
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its so relieving Om alwz recalls Rikara wedding moments every now and then.Its symbolise gauri kumari sarma chhupke se om k dil me baith gayi h waiting for the realisation.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Anabella...

The title pulled me here...Gauri's dialogue was today's highlight... It hit a string in my heart...and made me fall in love with her character... And your post.made.me dreamy... Well said👏... For me one is Eros the the other is Thatnos... Or better Ying and yang they balance each other... The perfect balance... I do hate her pati parshmeshwar Jaap... But then it also makes me think why does she behave like that... But when you analyse everything it makes sense.. See prayed to Shiviji to send her a guardian angel and he sent Om... He became the knight in shining armour for her who saved her from the cruel world. No matter how much he hated her she couldn't reciprocate the hate because when he saved her life she was filled with gratitude ... Such gratitude which she believes she can't return no matter what she does.. Because he was one of the rare people after her mother who did something for her.. Probably it's the psychological setup for her because of her background that if any one does anything for her she will try her level best to return it ten fold..And there she developed a soft spot for him which was nutured after coming to Mumbai and now it has become pyaar.. Staying with him she started having an understanding about him how he is a creature of circumstances... And it just made her admire him more... About Om even though I sympathize him I do find him a hypocrite.. He has a different sets of rules and norms.for each person how they are supposed to behave and this ain't fair ... But then each character had their flaws and these flaws make an essential part of the character... I always had this thing in my mind that Om hates his dad because he misbehaves with his mom... But what if he tries and analyse that be did the same with Gauri.. Keeping all the facts that he believes her to be Swetalana 2.0 version... He said her he married her because of humanity then where did the humanity go when he pushed an injured woman... Irrespective of who she was... At times I feel that trying to keep the devil at bay Om has failed to realise slowly he is impersonating the devil himself... About Gauri's ek taraffa pyaar Om may again label it as fake and motivated towards money or some of that kind.. But it ain't his fault because unconditional love for him only exists in fairytales.. All he has seen in his life his conditional love.. A trade for one emotion with another... Can't wait for Om's reaction when he reaIizes the truth ... I am done with my bakwaas 😃. PS I didn't take sides with either character it was just my POV



Oh no no, please it wasn't bakwas at all! 😳

There was just ONE point where I thought Gauri would be all, "I don't need your help!" to Omkara and that was when she came across him while running away from the village peeps. Because before that in the dargah bit when the goons were dragging her away and Omkara didn't even spare her a glance, there was nothing but hatred in her eyes for the man she risked her own neck to save. But when they next met, she was defending herself in front of Omkara and I was all, "Hain? But why do you care what he thinks about you after the stunt he pulled?!" It was clear that by that time, Gauri had forgiven Omkara for all his misdeeds and misjudgements he had regarding her. If this girl couldn't hate Omkara back then when she was justified to do so, she'll never do it now. Not after she has put him on a pedestal because 1) he's her Shankar Ji's blessing for her and 2) he saved her life. And now toh she has spent all this time with him and learned, like you said, that Omkara is a creature of circumstances. I wouldn't call it pyaar as in mohabbat what she feels for him. But she has definitely started to feel for Omkara the person and not just the image she had of him in her head.

I don't think it's right to compare Tej's behavior with Jhanvi with Omkara's behavior with Gauri. But yes..Omkara loses all his sensibility when he's angry and Gauri's presence around him just ticks him off so bad that he loses all his grip on basic decency. But anger does that on you. Come to think of it, Omkara doesn't hate Gauri for who she is but who he thinks she represents. He doesn't even KNOW the real Gauri to have any strong emotion regarding her. All the things he likes about Chulbul are what Gauri actually is but of course they will mean nothing cuz Sach Ka Pujari Omkara is gonna go berserk when the truth comes out 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: csit

Its so relieving Om alwz recalls Rikara wedding moments every now and then.Its symbolise gauri kumari sarma chhupke se om k dil me baith gayi h waiting for the realisation.



While I really don't think Gauri has "chupke se" has done anything Omkara, I really hope the realization doesn't happen like this.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mais 🤗
Lovely post...I loved all of it...especially the last part. I agree, the kind of a love that Gauri has for Omkara, it's incredible and baffling and out of this world!

I am a sucker for unrequited lovestories...I dunno why, but the idea that someone would do anything for their loved one without expecting anything in return is so alluring and kinda mind boggling to me...do people like that even exist ? *sigh*


I also agree with part about him getting sucked into this whole love thing. The kind of devotion that she is holding for him, there is no way that he won't be effected by it...it's addicting, and baffling...it gives you a new high to be sooo loved...he can't do anything but respond to it...the beauty is, that despite his denials and struggles, he would fall for her *sigh*

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