i dont think being confident means u have a cocky attitude .. i am doing my graduation in psychology n i havent read any research that there is a correlation btw the two and leaving apart that i dont think dat he has ever said nything fro which u cud infer dat he has a cocky attitude so pls stop commenting ....
p.s i do think as per freud ( the famous psychoanalyst that is if u know him ) that sometimes we project our own traits to others ..like u did ..may be u have a cocky attitude due to which u r projecting it )
n i do think u will feel bad about it if somebody says dat u have a cocky atiitude witdout even knowing u ...n i m not sayng u have it but just place urself in his shoes n den think..u dont evn know him personally so u shud not evn comment .
and regarding abhinav i agree he is fat but evn if he is lil fat he has something in him (superb dancing skills,cute smile) dat he is there on such a big platform and u r not there even though u may be slim...
sorry i didnt intend to bash u or something like dat but i just dont agree and its just dat i highly disapprove of labelling ppl ..