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Originally posted by: lakshmim_84

na lashy, i will not let makers play with our emotions like this.... its been 3 weeks........... v need to have a change in her role...... i won't let thisissue go un-noticed...........they have to make her positive......

Originally posted by: kunataanya

i'm sorry lashy... my intention was not to create a fight here or something... i was just trying to point out that i did not like the tone of some posts... as lakshmi said its fine to critisise... but when it comes to certain characters i feel the critisism goes overboard...

Originally posted by: nanditaprc

hi dear

we both were making our respective points clear...i wrote what i felt...not about her character but about the topic....since she is not engaged yet...so i felt her stay in aryanagar was going on for long and she should go home...not her character out of the show...

i'm sorry yet again if i hurt you....it pains me too to have hurt anyone and so had decided not to log in back again here..if gunja di had not sent me an email and told me about lashy di's post and that there was no war on...i could not ever comeback here

...i'm sure you wont find me having criticised or bashed anyone earlier too...nor now did i write anything that cannot be called positive criticism...rather it was not criticism at all....it was wholely-solely my view over the topic not her character

yet again hope i'm not in your bad books....and this is for you

love nandita

Originally posted by: sonur15

come on girls...chill..u call it a discussion forum lashy...but the fact is its not...its my opinion...its almost impossible to discuss on any topic here ...i have left PRC forum because of this u just cant discuss anything there fans are not ready to accept or participate in a discussion...then why to hurt anyones feelings.... 😳😳😳

Originally posted by: lashy

Moderator's Note: Technically girls, IF is a discussion forum - It is for praise of actors that are performing brilliantly Analysis of characters that have been well scripted AND FOR Constructive criticism of characters that are lacking in depth or consistency... I would sincerely request Veer, Siya, Dharam and Shera fans to please be a bit more tolerant in accepting what is the reality and what is being shown in the serial... 😒 I personally know many girls who fall under all four of the above categories and it is very difficult for me to take any sides blindly. 😭 I think that members here have become slightly less accepting of criticism of their favourite character/actor lately and that is making the forum look very un-co-ordinated 😭 i dont see anything wrong in accepting that in that certain episode Veer's actions were not right or that what Siya is doing is not acceptable... if their character was not consistent/scripted well... then what is wrong in saying that they were not right! Please girls be more broad minded in your views.... Bar a few posts in the recent past, most of the discussions have been in words acceptable to the forum and it would make me like a Hitler, if i was to close down all posts... yes in spite of this, if the members are unable to get along, i would have nothing else to do but close down all posts except for the updates and i am sure that is not what ANYONE wants....😒 Please girls I am really at wit's end about what to do...😒 In the recent past, many members have been pming me links of previous posts and threads asking me to compare what has been written there and what has been written here... As i have mentioned before, its physically impossible for me to check every post and every thread...i try and keep a close eye as far as possible... also IF judgement is not a scientifc analysis for me to be able to judge that 1 = right and 2 = wrong... It is just human judgement... 😕 in some cases, if i find some siya fans less tolerant, in others i find some veer fans less tolerant (this is my personal opinion) sometimes some shera fans and some dharam fans too... please girls... we were a very friendly forum ... we can still remain that way, but it is all in your hands...

Originally posted by: nanditaprc

yes that's what we all want...she is paired with dharam.....what is the show without these two main male protagonist?..the show is about dv ...not just about veer so it is quite expected to have heroines to match them..when shera came to kill dharam...we hoped that she mends her way soon...when sia came earlier we were in love with her tantrums too ..coz they made her look sweet but this time around its not done in a nice way by the makers...i have already sent an mail to sagars so have many i know....we have even sent links to many posts of our forum...hope they read and get the point clear..we all want to love her back again..as we did earlier when she entered the show.....no one who criticise her are actually hating her...we just want her to be positive....truely positive