mods, i have few concerns... pls - Page 2

Originally posted by: lakshmim_84

true jo, if a thread is opened to bash them, then atleast it will be restricted to that thread.. other threads, v can have healthy discussion... n me too got so upset after seeing the atmosphere of the forum y'day.. just bcos, dharam caught veer in the act, the forum was full of dharam-sia bashing, without even caring abt the feelings of d-s fans...

atleast if it was one thread... ok.. but each n every thread was just for bashing them.

thats why i felt, had to write this post.. so that mods shld know, whats happening here.....

Originally posted by: lakshmim_84

2)bashing of dharam-sia jodi- there r few posts which ridicule dharam-sia jodi... just to prove that veer-shera are the best. I agree that there are many veer-shera jodi fans here, but there are also, dharam-sia jodi fans.. v like their jodi n feel that they have good chemistry... then why r our feelings being hurt like this

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1025012&TPN=3
"Bechara! He'll realise what SPICE is missing from his rishtah with Sia!🤣"
Yaar! Mein mazaak kar rahee thi!😆
And didn't you read the whole post? We were talking about how the chemistry between DharamSia is not as strong as between VeerShera
We weren't bashing the Jodi we were just comparing them😃
But okay if I upset anyone Im sorry

4)Written update is biased- when i had taken up the job of giving updates, i was given a list of rules, one of which was that i should impartially give the updates.... ie just provide the details of what happened in the episode, with some funny comments for situations.... but not bash any actors, or try to promote an actor thru the updates, even if u r that person's fan.
however this is not at all followed in few of the updates given here.
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1024294
personal opinion abt a character can be given in separate threads as discussions.. but not in updates, which is used by everyone to know what happened in t he episode
"Veer looks at Sia and she just smirks at him😡 Im sorry guys I dont care! I JUST DONT CARE!!! I HATE HER!!!!😭 HOW CAN SHE BE SO... SMUG????😡 SHES BREAKING THESE TWO BROTHERS UP!!!!"
"I swear this girl is becoming more witchy by the second😡"
"WHAT A WITCH!!!! YEH DHARAM KEY JEEVAN SAATHI BANAY GHEE???!!!
HAI ALLAH!!!! DHARAM KO BACHAO ISS CHARAEL KO!!!!😡😭"

Okay I was biased here but when I write updates I just write what Im feeling at that moment Im sure that whoever watched that scene felt just like me at the time Okay not as STRONGLY as me (Only I can be so melodramatic😆) but still we were all hating her in that scene
BUT the fact that we were HATING Sia in that scene just shows how great an Actress the girl playing Sia is😃 And when I write an update I dont see the people as actors I see them as the characters and I was HATING Sia the character.
Vaisey I wasn't just hating on Sia I was doing it to Jai mama and Agni and Rajsaba and Sheras Baba and Aryavardhan and Sakshi and sometimes even on Dharam Yeh list BAHUT lambhi hain!😆
But I love them all really because they are such GOOD actors!
When Bhimsen died I actually got a little Teary eyed and I think Ive bashed him quite a lot in my updates

also, this post

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1020312&TPN=1&#17929493
"I dunno. This Sia doesnt loo pretty enough for Dharam.... I think Shera is prettier😉😃 But shes for Veer nah?😉😃"

Again this was just a discussion and everyone has their own opinion In myopinion I find Shera prettier than Sia not the ACTRESSES the CHARACTERS. In real life none of the actors look that good😆
I mean I thought Shera was prettier than the Old Sia too! So I wasn't bashing the new Sia here

Originally posted by: thornewood9

Oh my God!😲
Ive been mentioned THREE times!😲
😆
I think I need to cut down on my sugar intake😃


Again I'm really sorry if anyone was hurt by my comments I dont really think when I start typing/ start talking
If anyone else feels disappointed in my updates Im really sorry I didnt want to upset/hurt/disappoint/anger anyone with my comments If anyone else feels like this please tell me I had no idea that my updates would cause so much hurt to you guys I honestly didnt mean it and if I have caused anyone any anger/hurt/upset then I won't put my comments into the update.
Again Im really very sorry.
I didnt think.
Im very sorry.

Aisha xxx

Originally posted by: Silver_Lining

Aisha.. we all love ur updates very much.. I have been telling u this since long.. u know that..😊

it's just that if u get time then try to read ur updates from neutral point of view.. and u will understand yourself.. what we are talking about.. 😛

You are quite intelligent girl. very funny and bubbly.. plz do include ur comments as that's what makes the boring episode interesting for us..

just try to be little less harsh when you write about Dharam-Sia.. 😭

it's so obivious yaar you are a VS fan.😃. but plz try to understand.. all members read ur updates .. not just VS fans..

keep rocking in ur updates..... as always..

🤗

Originally posted by: Mugdha fan

OMG everyone so much concern about Bashing of the actores...u all find it rude then just answer what u would say about this

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1026500&TPN=1&#18053604

is it fair enough..she is also n actore...she is also working hard..if u dont like her well n f9 but u can say like this