mods, i have few concerns... pls

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Posted: 17 years ago
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mods, i have few concern/complaints..... i am posting it here n not as PM.. cos, if there is anything wrong, in the complaints that i have given here.. by anyone... pls explain it to me n i'll take those back.

1)Sia(actress) bashing - ever since sia has entered the show, she is being constantly bashed.. i am not talking abt the character, even the actress is being bashed... abt her looks...
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1025953
.i didnt likje d actress she is double of dharam may be more!!!so fat??? & love of dharam??? &&&& a worst actress!!! her hindi diction is so bad!!!! "tum in cheejo mei??" hopeless!!!
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1023901
this is the line given abt the actress.
But for Dharam pls choose a beautiful ACTRESS dis time!!!
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1026658
i hate sia and that sharmik boy very much , sia is too much😡 her talking style her attitude i hate her 😡
Nothing is good in her she is not beautifull, she has no mind, she dnt know wid whom she is talking and says what ever she wants to say ihate her from the core of my heart when she said PATA NAHIN KAHAN KAHAN SAY CHALY ATAY HAIN to veer . i hate herrrrrrrrrrr
what do u gayz think about her


2)bashing of dharam-sia jodi- there r few posts which ridicule dharam-sia jodi... just to prove that veer-shera are the best. I agree that there are many veer-shera jodi fans here, but there are also, dharam-sia jodi fans.. v like their jodi n feel that they have good chemistry... then why r our feelings being hurt like this

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1025689
here the poster is giving a description of veer-shera lovestory according to her prediction.... n she has dragged dharam-sia into this... n ridiculing them that, they will never be happy..... just like how, veer-shera fans want veer-shera to be together.. dharam-sia fans also want dharam-sia together
and it will nice to see that is that Astrologer woman is say to both dharam & sia that in you life many many problem r in you both life . you both can not get to together soon in you life you both have many problem .

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1025012&TPN=3
"Bechara! He'll realise what SPICE is missing from his rishtah with Sia!🤣"

3)bringing sia in between n bashing her, even when the topic discussed is abt something else. here is an example, where v were discussing abt the dharam-sia scene in the tent, which was so hillarious that most of us enjoyed.. n in between a poster comes n tells sia is very annoying n thus spoiling the environment of the post there
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1025635&TPN=2
and this post
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1025983
we r discussing if shera wld be successful in hiding the weapons.. n suddenly sia is dragged in
were as sia..though we may blame the director....has been good for nothing beside her royal birth and third rate attitude she has nothing to do that can ever make dharam proud of her"

4)Written update is biased- when i had taken up the job of giving updates, i was given a list of rules, one of which was that i should impartially give the updates.... ie just provide the details of what happened in the episode, with some funny comments for situations.... but not bash any actors, or try to promote an actor thru the updates, even if u r that person's fan.
however this is not at all followed in few of the updates given here.
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1024294
personal opinion abt a character can be given in separate threads as discussions.. but not in updates, which is used by everyone to know what happened in t he episode
"Veer looks at Sia and she just smirks at him😡 Im sorry guys I dont care! I JUST DONT CARE!!! I HATE HER!!!!😭 HOW CAN SHE BE SO... SMUG????😡 SHES BREAKING THESE TWO BROTHERS UP!!!!"
"I swear this girl is becoming more witchy by the second😡"
"WHAT A WITCH!!!! YEH DHARAM KEY JEEVAN SAATHI BANAY GHEE???!!!
HAI ALLAH!!!! DHARAM KO BACHAO ISS CHARAEL KO!!!!😡😭"
also, this post

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1020312&TPN=1&#17929493
"I dunno. This Sia doesnt loo pretty enough for Dharam.... I think Shera is prettier😉😃 But shes for Veer nah?😉😃"

5)bias in pic updates - from the experience that i have in other forums, the pic update is provided to have a glimpse of different scenes in the serial, so that when a member reads the written update and then looks at the pics, he can get an idea of what happened. The pic update is not to just show the expressions of one actor/actress.
however, this is not followed in some pic updates here
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1024272
there was one scene of mugdha here.. n almost all her expressions in that scene has been given as a pic update. with other scenes just missed out.
also
http://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1023438
pls see the number of pics for rajat-mugdha in just one scene.
the pic update has become the pics of the fav actors/actresss... n not that of the serial. if the user wanted to post the pics of the actor/actress, then a thread can be opened naming it as pics of actor in so n so episode.. but not as the pic update of the episode.
Edited by lakshmim_84 - 17 years ago

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with u lakshmi.
We can criticize a character but not the actor.
Regarding the pics update,pics of almost every scene shd be provided and not of certain main characters.
I am sure now mods will do something.
Edited by subha2601 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Lakshi.. I have been noticing these things since long... not just from last few weeks.. I have actually stopped viewing Picture Update Thread.. because it's certainly not an episode update..
Jo baat hum ko samaz mai aati hai voh aur sabhi ko bhi dikhati hogi.. mods ko bhi.. lekin ab tak jab kuch action nahi liya gaya.. toh kya tum ko lagta hai ab koi farak padne wala hai.. 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silver_Lining

Lakshi.. I have been noticing these things since long... not just from last few weeks.. I have actually stopped viewing Picture Update Thread.. because it's certainly not an episode update..

Jo baat hum ko samaz mai aati hai voh aur sabhi ko bhi dikhati hogi.. mods ko bhi.. lekin ab tak jab kuch action nahi liya gaya.. toh kya tum ko lagta hai ab koi farak padne wala hai.. 😕

dekte hai jo, i guess mods might do something... but yaa.. this has been happening from a long time, still nothing has been done
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Posted: 17 years ago
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frnds i have hurt anybodys feelings i am xxxxx tremly sorrie i thnk u can understand that i have not done it purposely!!!! i had absolutely no slightest idea abt d rules & reg. actually my mistek i didnt go thru!!!! but in future i will!!! i jst what i felt!!!! yeah i shld have thot abt others feeling too!!!

I APOLOGIZE!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: nehamehra

<FONT face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" color=#990000 size=4>frnds i have hurt anybodys feelings i am xxxxx tremly sorrie i thnk u can understand that i have not done it purposely!!!! i had absolutely no slightest idea abt d rules & reg. actually my mistek i didnt go thru!!!! but in future i will!!! i jst what i felt!!!! yeah i shld have thot abt others feeling too!!!



I APOLOGIZE!!!


Neha,as u r a new member u didn't knew it.Actually,we are free to criticize a character but not the actor/actress who is playing that role.That's against I-F's rules and regulations.
Anyways,as it's ur first mistake u will be forgiven but plz don't repeat it again.
Edited by subha2601 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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aab neha ne aisi kaunsi post kar di 🤔 Ki saare uske peeche pad gaye 😕

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Posted: 17 years ago
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well this is f9 but when the same thing happends with the other actors then there is no one to stand...but u r get invoved .......
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hi Mods..
I am not writing this out of blue.. waited for the change or some sense prevailing here.. since last few weeks... but unfortunately now I have to express my thoughts in this way.. I hope you will understand what I am trying to say.
I am requesting you to open 2 special threads where people can bash Dharam and Sia as much as they want.. just like we have VM, RT and MC fan thread.. these 2 new threads will serve the purpose.. 🤢
Now days many threads and most posts are for the sole purpose of bashing Dharam and Sia... whether original topic has anything to do with these 2 characters or not. Even if people want to praise their favourite actor/character or jodi.. discussion has to include some rude comments about Dharam and Sia.
If all these DS bashers will get special thread for their sadist pleasure... then at least others can enjoy discussions in other threads and enjoy current episodes like we used to do with our friends before.
I really don't understand why people invest so much of time, energy and efforts to write ill about those whom they don't like.. instead of dedicating that time in praising their favourites and positives of those characters. Sometimes even if they are writing about their favourites.. they eventually end up bashing other actors/characters knowing wholeheartedly that their comments will hurt other fans.. , wink-smily-icon suggests their hidden agenda to target specific fans.
Last nite I came on line in such a happy mood.. but after sensing the atmosphere on forum.. I just logged off. ..ab toh forum par aane ka dil bhi nahi karta..😕😭
This is a public forum for discussing our favorite shows .. One can understand praising/criticizing the characters.. as that's what this forum is for. But people just go to extremes while doing so.. without thinking about the feelings of the fans of particular characters. Under the excuse of FREEDOM OF EXPESSION, many such things have been said which certainly could have been avoided to keep the atmosphere healthy and happy.
I hope to see that change in coming weeks in particular.
(Neha..😃 I am not at all referring to you or your post above...)
Ek sher dedicate kar rahi hum forum ke liye..😊
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Labz toh seene mai utar jaate hai, bhalo ki tarah..!!!!"
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Posted: 17 years ago
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true jo, if a thread is opened to bash them, then atleast it will be restricted to that thread.. other threads, v can have healthy discussion... n me too got so upset after seeing the atmosphere of the forum y'day.. just bcos, dharam caught veer in the act, the forum was full of dharam-sia bashing, without even caring abt the feelings of d-s fans...

atleast if it was one thread... ok.. but each n every thread was just for bashing them.

thats why i felt, had to write this post.. so that mods shld know, whats happening here.....

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