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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

I just have one question. Some people are saying that it was wrong of Sonarika to ask for a salary equal to that of Mohit's, which is higher. How is that wrong? 😕 In fact, why should the male lead receive higher pay than the female lead, when she is equally important? Yes, Sonarika compared herself to Mohit and found it unfair that though both of them are leads, she is receiving much less than him. Do people find it acceptable that women receive less than men, though both of them are putting in equal hard work? This happens in many shows! The male leads receive a significantly higher salary than female leads, but Sonarika is one of the first to speak out against it. I am proud of her, because this is totally unfair treatment of women, that too in the 21st century. 😔

If PH are able to pay Mohit so much, why are they suddenly not able to pay Sonarika equally? Why won't their budget let them give Sonarika equal pay? This is nothing but chauvinism at its core, and I'm glad Sonarika spoke out against it.


What I think is bizarre is people sharing their own salaries w/ their colleagues. I have nothing against Sonarika earning the same as Mohit. But in any work place, salaries are supposed to be confidential - one is not supposed to know the salary of one's colleagues, as it creates a basis for potential bickering. If Mohit shared w/ her his earnings details, he was pretty irresponsible, and if the PH let Sona know his earnings, they deserve to be sued - by Mohit.

I do think that Sona was justified in asking for a raise. We have no idea about what transpired b/w them, but the right way for her to have done it would have been to say, "Look, I'm getting competitive offers of Rs Y, which is much higher than my current comp of Rs X. However, if you give me Rs Z, I'll stay put. B'cos I do need the hike in salary." It would however have been unprofessional of her had she gone to the PH telling them ,'Mohit is getting Rs Z, so I'm not gonna stay put w/ Rs X - I want Rs Z as well.' While she may be ethically justified, that would have been an unprofessional approach on her part.

Giving notice was not the right way to go about it. But Sona would have been justified had she complained about the way Parvati/Durga/Mahakali and all the shaktis got shafted in this serial. Had she campaigned for them to be given prominence, and taken a more active part in what got shown, she'd have done both herself and the serial a world of good.
Edited by .Vrish. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#62
Do you people actually believe all this shit?

This website is a blog, nothing is concrete. They can make up quotes from anybody. Look at the quality of the website, its hastily done and looks tacky and cheap. The website is utter crap.

Media will write anything. I would never believe anything I read online unless I HEAR and SEE it for myself in video by THAT person who is in question. Tomorrow TOI will write an article and say Sonarika said this and she denied that blah blah. Then on SBS you'll see some other garbage from other articles. EVERYONE COPIES EACH OTHER IN THIS INDIAN MEDIA.
Edited by Howlarious - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Guys what do ur'll know about the Truth...u know the PH & Sonarika & Mohit will feel so Bad that they have fans who r crazy...whatever has happened over & out. No need to dig into matters & make it worse . But one More thing Proud India, mithilarids, Shivam. better Zip up ur mouth...we r not saying anymore about ur darling Pooja & PH. So u 2 maintain that Code of ethics. Don't bash that's my clear cut Answer. u got the justification of both the Parties that's it!!!! don't Judge & yes remember u r insulting a woman. Don't u know to respect or give her own space. If anyone talks about your Sister who has been accused unreasonably How would you feel. Look into ur matters & ur salaries 1st then talk. who knows ur'll r still not earning...so don't know the value...
Edited by romi21 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Vrish.


What I think is bizarre is people sharing their own salaries w/ their colleagues. I have nothing against Sonarika earning the same as Mohit. But in any work place, salaries are supposed to be confidential - one is not supposed to know the salary of one's colleagues, as it creates a basis for potential bickering. If Mohit shared w/ her his earnings details, he was pretty irresponsible, and if the PH let Sona know his earnings, they deserve to be sued - by Mohit.

I do think that Sona was justified in asking for a raise. We have no idea about what transpired b/w them, but the right way for her to have done it would have been to say, "Look, I'm getting competitive offers of Rs Y, which is much higher than my current comp of Rs X. However, if you give me Rs Z, I'll stay put. B'cos I do need the hike in salary." It would however have been unprofessional of her had she gone to the PH telling them ,'Mohit is getting Rs Z, so I'm not gonna stay put w/ Rs X - I want Rs Z as well.' While she may be ethically justified, that would have been an unprofessional approach on her part.

Giving notice was not the right way to go about it. But Sona would have been justified had she complained about the way Parvati/Durga/Mahakali and all the shaktis got shafted in this serial. Had she campaigned for them to be given prominence, and taken a more active part in what got shown, she'd have done both herself and the serial a world of good.

Yes, that's true. The way in which Sonarika approached the PH does make a difference in her professionalism. We can't really determine anything without knowing the full story, I guess. We don't know whether Mohit revealed his salary to Sonarika, the PH leaked it, or whether Sonarika found out some other way. In fact, we don't even know whether this article is true, because as someone pointed out, that website is known for making things up out of the blue.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Jankiraghunath,
I do not watch DKDM, know what is going in it only from written updates, so cannot comment on Mohit's or Sonarika's acting. However, let me comment on the man-woman issue you have pointed out. Can we say that Sonarika was paid less than Mohit simply because of being a woman? Or could there be some other reason? There could be different reasons:-
1. Sonarika is a woman - this is the reason you are saying and I accept this is a possibility.
2. Although Parvati is a Goddess in her own right, the show is primarily focused on Lord Shiv, who is being played by Mohit in the show.
3. Mohit has more experience and/or has better acting skills than Sonarika - I am not claiming it. I am just asking if this could be a possibility. I really do not know how Mohit or Sonarika act.


Suppose there is a show which is primarily based on a woman. Then could it not be possible that in that show the female lead will be paid more than the male lead?

Edited by akhl - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why does this not happen in western shows? I don't understand. All the American shows I have watched, British, Canadian shows...I have never seen a replacement. I have only seen replacements on soaps...yes...but never on prime time. If an actor really wants to leave and nothing can persuade them otherwise then usually the character is killed off or send away. Can you imagine in Game of Thrones Tyrion being replaced suddenly or pick your favorite character from any show...No it wouldn't happen. They would renegotiate the contract, raise the salary if needed to get the actor back (if nothing works, then they would kill the actor but not replace) because otherwise the show would suffer especially if the actor is a main actor and not side actors. It makes sense though because the audience gets attached to not just the character, but the face associated with the character and the acting of that actor thus you cannot just replace them midway. I will never understand why there are so many replacements in Indian tv shows...and then they just expect the viewers to be okay with it and continue watching as if nothing ever happened.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lot of loopholes or gaps in the article...need to read between the lines..I am not going to take the article as it is...after so many days u get a watered down version of their interviews, knowing very well fans angry reactions to the whole episode...anyhow the entire truth will not come out!!!
Yes, firstly Sona s ambitions to venture out into movies was well known, her so called tantrums n anger...well the girl herself admitted to her anger on issues which were wrong to her!!!!...FAIR ENOUGH!!...
The cvs wanted to replace her, that's also FAIR...it's their show they can do what they want...BUT What she did was being forthright, being honest n within her rights n was open with her demands!!
But the question is what n why they did the CHEATING???
Why had to lie to her regarding Pooja replacing her??.
Telling her one thing n going behind her back to replace her with someone only proves they did not want her to know what was happening as she would have quit sooner n they would have been left high n dry!! Hence the Big Time CHeating???
I guess ths is what Uttkarsh had mentioned that there were mistakes on both sides!!!
It really amuses that a big production house had to resort to this to get rid of her when they could have given her notice period in the first instance n done with it!!

Edited by Annujam23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akhl

@Jankiraghunath,

I do not watch DKDM, know what is going in it only from written updates, so cannot comment on Mohit's or Sonarika's acting. However, let me comment on the man-woman issue you have pointed out. Can we say that Sonarika was paid less than Mohit simply because of being a woman? Or could there be some other reason? There could be different reasons:-
1. Sonarika is a woman - this is the reason you are saying and I accept this is a possibility.
2. Although Parvati is a Goddess in her own right, the show is primarily focused on Lord Shiv, who is being played by Mohit in the show.
3. Mohit has more experience and/or has better acting skills than Sonarika - I am not claiming it. I am just asking if this could be a possibility. I really do not know how Mohit or Sonarika act.


Suppose there is a show which is primarily based on a woman. Then could it not be possible that in that show the female lead will be paid more than the male lead?



A TV show lasts only for about 30 mins or 1 hour, depending on how long each episode is (commercial breaks included). And here is the tricky bit - Even if two or more actors are "marketed" as leads (male and/or female), due to the limited time slot of TV show and scripting issues, one lead invariably ends up getting more screen-time than other(s). And, in this case, Mohit ended up getting more screen-time than Sona because the show is about Mahadev (no matter how much the show itself may talk about Shiva-Shakti equality). Also, remember that Mohit has been working on DKDM right from the beginning (why do we keep forgetting that?). Sona came in only a year back. Therefore, going by THAT logic, it is but natural that he would get paid more than her. How can an actor who has been working on the show for about 18 months (Mohit), and an actor who has been working on the show for 12 months (Sona) get the same pay? Will you then blame Mohit for being in the show much longer than Sona? I would've understood Sona's grouse if she had been in the show for as long as Mohit has been. But, that is NOT the case here.

And, Sona said that she had given notice three months back - i.e., in April, when the Jalandhar track was going on. And we know that Mohit had a triple role in the J track. Compared to Mohit's triple role act, Sona had much less screen-time. Even that might've been a factor in Mohit getting paid more. Also, in the J track, Sona's character (due to memory loss) had been reduced to a supporting player, and most of the focus ended up being on Mohit - due to his triple role act.

Suppose, the situation had been the other way round. That is, if it was a show based on Adishakti, and Sona played Adishakti (& Mohit played Shiva). In that situation, wouldn't Sona have been paid more than Mohit?

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