everything was interelated
lord rama's birth was not just 4 ravan's death
but also 2 free south 4rm many demons
thats how he got vanwas
kaikaie loved him the most
but she was tricked by maya and sent ram to vanwas
in sagar's ramayan they showed she going to indra and asking how come she did this mistake
he says she was chosen to do so, coz otherwise rama would have been ruling ayodhya and those areas would remain under threat of asur 4ever
Than she asked
y she only was chosen?
He said becoz she is strong among 3 mothers and could bare all criticism.
Now imagine if ravan had never kidnap sita
would he be killed?
Why rama who is avtar of god vishnu should have such ill fate of separation from wife?
it's Because of vrinda's curse
it's prarbhada of narayan's karma which ram had to face.
Again vrinda was just medium, and she was blessed in return and freed from demon.
Untill i read vrinda stories in detail
i considered the ram 's act of abdoning sita as mud on his clean ckt. Something which always poked me
but now i have the answer.