Does True Love exists ?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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There is as such true love in the world, another mental block. Agreed? be frank.

At one point in relationship people say..ohh I have found true love. Life takes it tolls 2nd phase again..ohh now this is true love and chakri or cycle carries on. If true love existed in real sense then should be legalized like martial commitment, wonder why such a rule is not in place.

PS - strictly debate view, NO personal thoughts here. DM rocks!😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

There is as such true love in the world, another mental block. Agreed? be frank.

At one point in relationship people say..ohh I have found true love. Life takes it tolls 2nd phase again..ohh now this is true love and chakri or cycle carries on. If true love existed in real sense then should be legalized like martial commitment, wonder why such a rule is not in place.

PS - strictly debate view, NO personal thoughts here. DM rocks!😳

Anshu... how can we comment on love without drawing on personal feelings..😕

But true love exists .. very rare though. the odds of finding it are less then winnign a lottery I feel.. Everything has to be perfect between the 2 people who keep changing every day. 😉 anything more or less will be cause of disastisfaction on either side and combine that with intolerence and lack of understanding and you have true mess.....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: lighthouse

Anshu... how can we comment on love without drawing on personal feelings..😕

point taken, and agreed I ust meant pls don't misunderstand My personal feelings, towards the topic.😳

But true love exists .. very rare though. the odds of finding it are less then winnign a lottery I feel.. Everything has to be perfect between the 2 people who keep changing every day. 😉 anything more or less will be cause of disastisfaction on either side and combine that with intolerence and lack of understanding and you have true mess.....

Is there a defination of true love, can true love happen one to many times?

@Red bold - nicely said, implies not a true love. Can we define true love differently or say 10 basic aspect on what is true love?

Edited by raj5000 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Anshu, why do you confuse me lately? 😭

Are you questioning true love? Are you insisting true love should be legalized by the act of marriage?
Are you questioning true love in case of people who get married more than once? I am lost.. 😆

True love is hard to find.
Even when found, it may not be accessible.
There could be other constraints.
For some unfortunate people, their true love is someone other than their married partner.
For some it is just a fantasy.
For the pessimistic, it does not exist
For people like me, act of marriage does not define it at all, whereas it is important to be committed emotionally, physically and to go every distance for them!
Second, third, fourth and fifth marriage is also fine in my eyes.. Many first ones that are loveless / committment -less are as queer anyway!

Humne dekhi hai un aankhonki mehektee khushboo 😳
haath se chhoo ke ise rishtonka iljaam na do
SIRF EHSAAS HAI YE ROOH SE MEHSOOS KARO!
Pyaar ko pyar hee rehene do koee naam na do!

True soul-mate-love will stand the tests of time, distance, age and even death.. just my mushy beliefs.. Not even gonna / can debate these :) Got no proof but just a really real heartfelt notion of love..
Edited by mermaid_QT - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Anshu, why do you confuse me lately? 😭

Are you questioning true love? Are you insisting true love should be legalized by the act of marriage?
Are you questioning true love in case of people who get married more than once? I am lost.. 😆

True love is hard to find.
Even when found, it may not be accessible.
There could be other constraints.
For some unfortunate people, their true love is someone other than their married partner.
For some it is just a fantasy.
For the pessimistic, it does not exist
For people like me, act of marriage does not define it at all, whereas it is important to be committed emotionally, physically and to go every distance for them!
Second, third, fourth and fifth marriage is also fine in my eyes.. Many first ones that are loveless / committment -less are as queer anyway!

Humne dekhi hai un aankhonki mehektee khushboo 😳
haath se chhoo ke ise rishtonka iljaam na do
SIRF EHSAAS HAI YE ROOH SE MEHSOOS KARO!
Pyaar ko pyar hee rehene do koee naam na do!

True soul-mate-love will stand the tests of time, distance, age and even death.. just my mushy beliefs.. Not even gonna / can debate these :) Got no proof but just a really real heartfelt notion of love..

Lolss nahi Ma'am am saying true love " " is mental block, there is no defination, humans are confused why Should I make u confused.?😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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True love does exist but as LH mentioned abv very very hard to find and sustain 😳 .

When we first meet a person and fall in love and say I found my true love that is not true. True love is discovered & realized at the end of the journey. It depends on how much these two people knew, understood, communicated, supported, loved and accepted each other for who they were. True love is when 2 people are totally connected at emotional, intellectual, spiritual and at physical level IMHO 😃

@ Anshu. This is my personal opinion but is debatable 😉 😆

Edited by Dabulls23 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

True love does exist but as LH mentioned abv very very hard to find and sustain 😳 .

When we first meet a person and fall in love and say I found my true love that is not true. True love is discovered & realized at the end of the journey. It depends on how much these two people knew, understood, communicated, supported, loved and accepted each other for who they were. True love is when 2 people are totally connected at emotional, intellectual, spiritual and at physical level IMHO 😃

@ Anshu. This is my personal opinion but is debatable 😉 😆


👏👏👏 very agreed!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think True love exisit......... 😊 Love the heart that hurts you, but never hurt the heart that loves you.When true love happen they don't look at each ... They look same direction😊

Somebody say..."If you live to be 100 yrs, I want to live to be 100 yrs minus one day, so I never have to live without you. I Cant live with out U" 😊
Edited by Believe - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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saccha pyaar.....

hmmm....

Understanding eachother?????? well its like u know psychology of human beings.... but understanding eachothers hearts is what true love is.....

a Telepathy exists when botht think the same way, same things. Just a thought of you love is enough to bring smile on your face. You are always happy being with the person.

this love blossoms with every moment u spend with the person and doesnt end with death 😃

now thats a lot to ask is nt it.... thts why its true love 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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True love exists!!And thats that. 😆

You can't explain love but in the words of Emily Dickinson: 'all we know of love is that love is all there is'

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