Does True Love exists ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: sohn

Thank you DB & Subha Di 😊

Yeh Sadhana has been my fav since I was a kid for some reason, loved the beauty in her simplicity and vice versa too. You dont get those nowadays I think.

Agree not often 😳

I see that in Vidya Balan. She can be gorgeous in simple, sophisticated or glamorous look. She is da bomb 😊

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Agree not often 😳

I see that in Vidya Balan. She can be gorgeous in simple, sophisticated or glamorous look. She is da bomb 😊

how about the late Smita Patel DB....she was a beauty too.

Originally posted by: mittijalebi

how about the late Smita Patel DB....she was a beauty too.

MJ sweetie you hit it dear 😊. Smita Patil and Shabana Azmi were the fantastic beauties. My all time favs these 2 heroines. I would put Nandita das, Deepti Naval into same catagory.

From old movies Waheeda Rehman, Nutan, Tanuja few others.

Sorry don't mean to go off the topic 😳

Originally posted by: raj5000

PS - strictly debate view, NO personal thoughts here.

"True love" or "love" for another person does not exist at all. If there is love, it is love for one's own self.

Whatever we do is meant to satisfy ourselves only. "Loving someone more than loving yourself" is what I consider a faulty statement. You would never do things for someone else unless you don't get some sort of personal satisfaction from it.

"Love" for parents or spouse is based on a dependence factor or an attachment. They fulfil our financial, emotional or other needs. If your needs are fulfilled, then where does "love" go? That is the reason people "fall out of love" as they call it.

Originally posted by: T.

"True love" or "love" for another person does not exist at all. If there is love, it is love for one's own self.

Whatever we do is meant to satisfy ourselves only. "Loving someone more than loving yourself" is what I consider a faulty statement. You would never do things for someone else unless you don't get some sort of personal satisfaction from it.

"Love" for parents or spouse is based on a dependence factor or an attachment. They fulfil our financial, emotional or other needs. If your needs are fulfilled, then where does "love" go? That is the reason people "fall out of love" as they call it.

I agree with the highligheted line mostly but I wouldn't minimise or trivialise the importance and power of love. Loving someone benefits everyone concerned so even if one does it for selfish reasons as we put it, 2 people benefit out of it and so the joy and happiness is not for one person only .

Originally posted by: T

"Love" for parents or spouse is based on a dependence factor or an attachment. They fulfil our financial, emotional or other needs. If your needs are fulfilled, then where does "love" go? That is the reason people "fall out of love" as they call it.

Well said about parents though.. that is why we find ourselves detached from the parents once we are on our own.

Originally posted by: T.

"True love" or "love" for another person does not exist at all. If there is love, it is love for one's own self.

Agreed! I mean what is love?, its mental condition. Defination of love has to scientifically evaluated and conditions that in layman's termed as love has to quantified and defined. True or fake love what are the criterias to fairly determine it.

Whatever we do is meant to satisfy ourselves only. "Loving someone more than loving yourself" is what I consider a faulty statement. You would never do things for someone else unless you don't get some sort of personal satisfaction from it.

Agree! but @ bold leaving the love part, I disagree - not in scope of this topic.

"Love" for parents or spouse is based on a dependence factor or an attachment. They fulfil our financial, emotional or other needs. If your needs are fulfilled, then where does "love" go? That is the reason people "fall out of love" as they call it.

Kill me for going off topic. NOT!😳 Always I pleasure to read your views and fair quote on topic - truly displays quality of serious debator. Please keep consider being regular in DM. Thanks!