Sensitive Topic!! What values in life ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ~globetrotter~

Ofcourse it's more important to have people who are there by your side while you're still alive. Once you're dead, how does it even matter? 😕 It's not like you can say, "Ooooh, I'm watching you...and you didnt come to my funeral...oh, you are sooo out of the favorite fives on my cellphone"

how does it even matter? - never mind then😛 😃. Long story to explain😆

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

I once heard a gentleman - an old family friend - say that the more people you had at your namaz-e-janaaza, the more likely it would be that you went to heaven. I am not sure even now what the basis for this is, but I assumed that if you have been good to many people in your lifetime, you will probably have a lot of people at your funeral, hence the association with paradise.

I would go for those who stand by me while I am alive, but at the same time I would be appreciative of all those who would be there to comfort my family in the event of my death. How I will express this appreciation is completely beyond my comprehension, though. Maybe, I won't roam around their homes singing "gumnaam hai koi, badnam hai koi"... 😆

Yup! That's what I was coming at, even though one does a lot folks that stand for him/her... but at the same time what good deeds have been done for the whole society and community? Good deeds for society/community equates to gathering at funeral, people whom one has never interacted personally, but they are thier to respect and pay last homage.. for the good deeds in lifetime.😳

@ "gumnaam hai koi, badnam hai koi" haunting - 😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

To me, they are not different. This is so difficult for me to answer. I will make my funeral arrangments before dying and include the list of ppl 😛 . Those will involve only those cared for me while I am/was alive.

QT I have told my family the people who have not been there next to me while I am alive pls do not let them be close to me when I am gone for fake rona dhona. I want my last wishes fulfilled by my family and it will be 😃.

I believe its all depend upon our charecter, kuch log paisa dhekar help kartha...kuch log kuch ache bath karke help karthaa...out life time if not posible to help, dont disturb or dont try to give pain others.......after death ki baat alag hey...living time do something to others..thats good....

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

QT I have told my family the people who have not been there next to me while I am alive pls do not let them be close to me when I am gone for fake rona dhona. I want my last wishes fulfilled by my family and it will be 😃.